Joseph A. Heller, Jr.
1937 - 2019
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Sharon W. posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 23, 2022
As I was struggling to write an obituary for my husband, I came across the one you wrote for your Father. My children were raised on Archie Bunker and Benny Hill too:) In spite of my husbabd's irreverence, he had a softer gentler side also. I was looking for a way to mix the two together. I think I just found it. You have inherited your Father's sense of humor, as well as the ability to put it in writing. Thank you for this masterpiece of Obituaries!!
Sharon W.
California
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James Snyder posted a condolence
Sunday, July 5, 2020
I Iive in Minneapolis. I forget how I came across Joe's obituary, but it was shortly after his death. I saved it and sent it on to several other people in the U.S., Canada, China, Norway and Scotland. God only knows where it was forwarded from those places, or how many lives were enriched by his life even though they never knew him.
But now consider how many other people shared this priceless eulogy, as I have, with people THEY knew. I can't begin to imagine, but I bet it sure adds up.
And it's still happening. It's now July 4, 2020, and I just re-read Joe's obituary and delighted in it all over again---and I just thought of a few more people to send it to!
I thank God for Joe, and I thank God for all his loved ones who helped compose this beautiful and inspiring tribute. I suspect Joe would understand the paradoxical quote I keep posted above my desk: "Life is too important to take seriously." This is only partly true, of course, but Joe would have well-understood that too. ---Rev. James Snyder
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Penelope ann Wilkerson posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 26, 2019
This is the Greatest Obituary I had read it was so heartfelt like I had known him
Love the life and Legacy he left I reside in Tn
Blessings to you all and Peace Joseph reminded me of my grandpa George Wilkerson Penelope ann
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Susie posted a condolence
Monday, November 18, 2019
I was thinking about writing my own Obituary. And I looked up how to do it and came across Joe’s. And Oh My Goodness was that a Sign or What. I had to Read it A Few Times. And thought WOW what a Special Person He Was. He would light up a Room in no time. I wish I had met you all. What a Happy and Funny Life He Gave you all to Remember. Keep His Memories going. Thoughts and Prayers to The Entire Family. God has got his hands full now. There will be So Much Laughing in Heaven. (PS Joe try to behave up there).
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Bryant Miller posted a condolence
Monday, October 7, 2019
I had just moved to Essex in 1980 to take a chef’s job at the Copper Beach Inn and rented a house on North Main St. The driveway for it happen to be on Prospect St. next to the firehouse . One day a rotund fella standing in front of the firehouse stopped me in my little red sports car and asked me if I was interested in joining the dept. as a volunteer. Of course it’s everyones childhood dream , and to seal the deal he told me I could get my class II license and since I lived right behind the firehouse I would be the first one there when the alarm went off and I would be able to drive a fire truck. He made it too easy to say yes . Needless to say one of my first calls , I was leaving the station when I received a radio transmission that they did not need my truck so backing up I sort of destroyed a car out of my view that was parked illegally across from the firehouse. Obviously Joe was my constant reminder of that incident . Joe was quite the mentor during my 2 year tenure at the dept. . I loved hearing all his stories most ending in a hilarious antidote . Over the years when I would find myself in Essex I would stop by Bombacis to see him. R.I.P. big guy!
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Sunday, October 6, 2019
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Sunday, October 6, 2019
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Kevin posted a condolence
Saturday, September 28, 2019
Didn't know the gentleman but he could be a buddy of mine by his obit-RIP prankster Joe.
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Merle & Denise posted a condolence
Friday, September 27, 2019
Today my husband called me into the house and said "You must sit down and read this"! I read it aloud and we chuckled and also shed a few tears. What a wonderful, colorful man Joe was, I wish we could have met him! Of course we don't know Joe or your family but what a legacy he left! We are hosting a Chili Cook Off tomorrow and I have printed it and put it in a sheet protector and will share with our guests!
Sorry for your loss, I'm sure you are so thankful for Joe's life and legacy!
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Dianna Donaghey posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 24, 2019
Joe sounds like an awesome man. I hope he takes the time to look up my own father, Neil Donaghey, in Heaven. We lost him much too soon, but I bet he would consider Joe a kindred spirit up there.
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Tuesday, September 24, 2019
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Dan and Marilyn Tallon posted a condolence
Monday, September 23, 2019
Sorry for your loss. While I never knew t
Your dad, the obituary brought him to our house. We feel he could have lived next door. You’re going to miss him ,like your mom. But she will be busy with him,so learn to enjoy without them . Your memories will keep you smiling for. A long time. You are a very good writer and a very good person.
You’ll be real busy closing up his house, I can just tell.
Lovingly, Marilyn
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Tim Marquart posted a condolence
Monday, September 23, 2019
I came across the story about your Dad's obituary and decided to read it, and I was deeply touched. It was a funny obituary, which I enjoy, and you obviously loved your Dad, which is wonderful. What touched me about it the most is that it reminded me so much of my Dad! I suspect that had chance and geography allowed for it, our Dads would have been great friends and even greater partners in crime. They appear to share so many similarities! Navy Vets, good cussers, dog lovers, sleep anywhere-ers, DGAF about the clothes they wear, and the list goes on.
Anyway, I don't know any of you and will probably never meet any of you, but your Dad sounded like a great guy and I am genuinely sorry for your loss.
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Barb Stewart posted a condolence
Sunday, September 22, 2019
I just read your dad's tribute. My sympathy to the entire family. My dad had a lot in common with your dad. My sister had a date one night and my dad answered the door with his army rifle (told us he was just cleaning it). The date left never to be seen again. When we got home from dates, most parents would flick the outside light on and off, not our dad. He would come right out to the car and say "I think it is time you came in Miss". Like your dad ours taught us the value of hard work, and family and he had a terrific sense of humour. (Canadian spelling)
Cherish the memories of your dad and mom and lean on each other for comfort and solace.
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KIMBERLY OLTMAN posted a condolence
Sunday, September 22, 2019
So sorry for your loss. While I did not personally know Joe, it is very clear that he is my dad's long lost older brother. The genetic traits of love of dogs and junk are unmistakable.
Best wishes to you.
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Gary Lee-Nova posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
I’ll never forget the time Joe and your faithful reporter joined up for a visit to the annual general meeting of the Secret Bushmiller Society. When we arrived, we saw several active tables where members were engaged with playing games of Five-Card-Nancy. There were many cheaters seated at the tables and whenever discovery and dismissal of one of those members occurred, Joe would stand up and bellow: s’all good! Boo—ooo—ooo—ooo very loudly. I’ll miss Joe. Knowing Joe was a Masterclass in FUN!
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Bob Harper posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
This is the most creative and hilarious obituary I have ever read. It was published in the 9/21/19 edition of the Rambler (www.RamblerNewspapers.com), a local newspaper in Irving, TX. Irving is between downtown Dallas and DFW Airport. I could not find any connection between Joe and our area, but I feel like I knew him now. Thanks for sharing your memories. I am sure he is in a happy place now.
Bob Harper
Irving, Texas
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Darline LeJeune posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
So Sorry for your loss. From the sound of things, I’m certain he will be missed GREATLY!
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Kathy Jones posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
I am sorry for your loss of such a beloved man. I do not know your family but I read your obituary and have to say I teared up reading it, I felt that just for a few minutes I knew your dad. What a lovable and unforgettable man. Cherish your memories and prayers to all.
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Karen posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
Joe sounds like an amazing man, and by the words written from his family members, it sounds like he taught them well! Please accept my condolences as I can only imagine how much this “so-full-of-life” man will be missed. ❤️
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Linda Emory posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
Oh my gosh! I think I love him! I’m so sorry for your loss, but what a legacy! ❤️
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RachelKuhr posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
A friend sent me your father's obituary because it is so much like you could you weary of my longtime loving partner Daniel J Kirchner who died in April 20th. You may have truly talk to me in writing the best obituary I've ever read. It's wonderful to have characters in your life. You have stories to share for a long time to come
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C. Mario Jaramillo posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2019
Oh, your Dad and I.... birds of a feather. Not many understand us nor our exploits, but those who do, love every minute of it, and we love them back. We're a rare breed, but one that is so needed in this craziness of life that we live. Thank you for sharing his loving and well-thought out obituary. In the words of the band, Filter and their famed song, Hey Man, Nice Shot ........"I wish I would've met you. Now it's a little late. What you could've taught me, I could've saved some face......Hey Man!!!!, how's it goin'? Hey Man!........ Hey Man, have fun!!"
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Nicoleta posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2019
I could have never met your father as I am have never visited the US but I can tell you loved him dearly and he loved you back. He seems to have lived a good and interesting life and at the end of the day that's all one can wish for. I send you all my deepest condolences and pray that he rest in peace. May you find strength in one another and never forget him.
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Kristen Twedt posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
Oh, what an astoundingly funny and loving tribute! I did not know Joe, but I had a dad much like him. They deserve the very best remembrances, and this obituary is exactly that. My deepest condolences on your loss.
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Phil Rotstein posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
I never met Joe but enjoyed the read. I'm a fellow fireman and could only hope my 2 families (home and fire) will write something as thoughtful as Joe's story.
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Maggie Parrish posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
I have never read such a wonderful picture of a mans life!! He sounds like a wonderful man! I am so sorry your dads gone! Prayers for you all.
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Beth Bakos posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
My sincerest sympathies to the Heller family. I didn't know Joe, but after reading the obit, I wish I had! Sounds like a wonderful guy!
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Dee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
I'm sorry to hear of your family's loss, but thank you for sharing such a unique tribute to your father.
On the "fun" side, reading about his many antics was entertaining (as I'm sure he was), but then there was that tender side to him, as well -- like not punishing any of his furry "prisoners," or letting you and your sisters "do" his hair or apply make-up. I especially loved the collection of stuff he had on-hand for the would-be suitors who actually got invited into your home, after (of course) first having successfully passed the license plate check and bald tire inspection. Loved the part about what followed, too. Shotguns alone weren't enough for your dad, in an attempt no doubt to ward off any ne'er-do-well potential suitors. After all, you were Joe's daughters, and an entire collection of devices were on display. By the way, the addition of the harpoons and sheep "nutters" were a nice touch on his part. We don't live near the ocean, nor do we have a farm, but it's too bad that my husband didn't think of the latter two items when the daughter was dating. She did pick a really great guy, though, has been married for several years already, and has a lovely daughter. We're going to have to pass those tips/suggestions on to our grand-daughter's dad, though, for his future use.
I always thought my daddy "took the cake" when it came to being a prankster and generally all-around fun guy, but I am quite certain that your account of your father's life leaves no doubt that he should be crowned as the best-of-the-best.
Again, I'm sorry for your family's loss, but thanks to your non-traditional obituary, your dad now will continue to live on in the minds of the many thousands who have read your tribute to him.
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Lori Milner posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad; but this is the funniest thing I’ve read in the last 10 minutes. ROTFLMAO! Please know that once I can breathe normally again, I will offer prayers for the repose of your Dad's soul and the protection of anyone in his vicinity. May you have comfort in knowing so many people think and pray for you. Hugs!
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Judie Engel posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
My sincere condolences on the loss of your Fun loving and precious Dad.
I thank God I did not marry him!
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Don Reed posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
We, the government of Bermuda, dispatch our most sincere condolences.
We remember Mr. Heller quite well, despite his relative short stay here as a U.S. Seabee in the 1950s, for it was our duty to have to evict him and hordes of other sailors from ships here in our ports from the golf courses that they infiltrated, usually after they opened up the downtown bars at 7:15 am on their way to the practice greens.
Once, Joe led a stately contingent of seventy-five Canadian sailors onto a course where they spent the next two hours losing track of 492 separate golfing irons on the fairways and putting greens. Fortunately, the Canadian naval police and British marines were most efficient in rounding them up after their prolonged imbibing had resulted in everyone shooting 61.
Of course, Joe just didn't simply golf his life away while his presence in the name of national security during the Cold War was imposed upon us.
His other thoughtful escapades--- we believe that you in the States call them, "pranks" --- included an episode where he and ten co-conspirators convinced about 1,000 tourists that the Russian navy was about to use Bermuda as a gunnery practice range. They were then advised to immediately proceed to the conveniently waiting aircraft that would fly them to safety in North Carolina (all of them were returned to us after their gradual evacuation from bomb shelters in Raleigh and Charlotte).
Well, good fortune finally smiled on us on the day that Joe was issued orders to return home, the sole occupant of a supersonic jet aircraft, as opposed to the usual unmothballed minesweeper (we gratefully reimbursed your government for the additional expense of having him evacuated as expeditiously as possible).
Joe from that time on, apparently, never changed, although in the above message of bereavement, we duly note the absence of reference to his robust love of golf and buying replacement irons.
You mention that he was uniquely active in scouring Connecticut "recycling" centers for various unappreciated valuables that had, surely by mistake, been discarded --- and that his collections of such esteemed materials resulted in remarkable heaps of such treasures everywhere in The Joe House and in other non-moated American residences.
Connecticut, we suspect you will not be surprised to be learn, was not the only recipient of his inexhaustible largesse. As early as 1961, we started getting odd-lot deliveries of such things as bent spoons from Hartford and one-legged rocking chairs from Bridgeport. Initially coming in dribs and drabs, by the end of the decade, they were arriving on pallets so large, the shipments indirectly confirmed the scientific theories about the drifting of the Earth's tectonic plates.
Only recently has this aromatic massive onslaught of moldy curios ceased to clog our customs windows (one particular mystery is that so many utterly used dog collars have arrived).
Naturally, these packages were sent anonymously. However, with Joe's fingerprints on file at many, many locations in Bermuda, his tactic of using individual letters sliced out from tabloid headlines to create his mailing addresses, in the end, failed to mask his identity. "No writer long remains incognito."
And now, now that we've read this glorious obituary, there remains no further doubt as to who sent us all this stuff.
We should caution you that, with all due respect, that should you feel it necessary to extend to us an invitation to the services of the deceased, we will respectfully decline to attend.
You see, it is felt, and rather strongly at that, that we must be quite certain that Joe is really no longer with us. To attain this peace of mind, and to be able to once again witness the blood pressure-level readings seen before his arrival, that a waiting period of at least another decade (maybe two) is necessary to eliminate all doubt as to the veracity of his obituary.
For it has occurred to us that he himself wrote it.
In other words, this might be Just Another Joe Prank.
Having fallen for all of them, well, we are certain that you will understand that "once pranked, twice shy."
Respectfully yours,
The Servants & Lords of
The Government of Bermuda,
An British Overseas Territory
(Patent Pending)
[A satire by Don Reed, Cliffside Park, NJ --- 09/19/19]
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Steve m posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2019
Very cool obit. Kudos on spending big bucks on it! Sounds like you got him good with this! Also sounds like he produced at least one cool daughter who wrote it and two others who allowed it!
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Victoria posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
What a wonderful tribute. Thank you for sharing this with the world. I send my condolences to your family. But you have it right... Celebrating his life, his love and his joy. That is how we all would love to be remembered. What a special family you are and what a special man it seems that Joe was! God Bless ♥️
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Stacey posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
I wish I had known him. Thanks for sharing your memories with the world.
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Judy Turner posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories of Joe Heller. Unfortunately, I did not know Joe or his family, but his obituary and the articles published about him and his life truly struck a note. It is a celebration of a life well-lived and lived with gusto, happiness, enjoyment and thoughtfulness.
That more of us should live such a full life.
Thank you for sharing.
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Kathy and Bob Eddy posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
First, we want to say our most sincere condolences to the Heller family. Bob knew Joe from the fire department and State police. But I got to know him in a different way. Bob had rescued a dog off the highway that I said we were going to keep for only the weekend. It turned out to be a 16 year weekend. He was 20 lbs of terror and destruction. That dog was an a**whole too, but we loved him anyways. When he was about 11 years old, he broke his back leg. We took him home, and while waiting for Griswold’s orthopedic surgeon to call ( did I mention expensive too) I fell on the dog, and he bit me in the face. I went to the Shoreline Clinic. Joe showed up because a dog bite must be reported. When he found out why I was bit, he laughed, and said “I f...ing deserved it. He would have bit me too!!”
His obituary is a beautiful, funny tribute the man he was. May he Rest In Peace
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Marianne posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
What a beautiful and honest tribute to your Dad! Life must never have been dull around him. May he enjoy eternal peace, even at the expense of other's peace! If he meets up with my Dad, heaven will never be the same! Peace to all his family and friends.
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Sherilyn Dunn posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
My deepest sympathies on losing Mr.. Heller to bless your lives with irreverence and saltiness. It sounds like he passed his humor, joy in life, and sense of community to all of you. Thank you for living your lives in a way that honors him and blesses all your communities and making a difference in the world.
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Frank G posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
Joe must have been a great father to turn out daughters that could speak of him in such a perfect way. Take comfort in the time and great memories you shared.
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Laurie Webb Carpenter Gastonia, NC posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
I, too was raised by a comedian, life loving,radio personality Gerald AKA Joe-------and I thank GOD everyday.
I'm so sorry................That you have all that mess to clean up..........(yes....smart ass begets southern smart ass)
Thank you for sharing your daddy's story.
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Sharon russell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
I wish I had known Joe personally. He sounds like a good man. You were very lucky to have him in your life. We need more people like him, would keep things interesting.
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Lisa Bruce posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2019
I love this man!!! I wish I had lived in the same town so I could have actually known him, not just the rich flavor I got from your amazing dedication to him. I hope there’s an afterlife so he can be happily laughing his time away reading and re-reading your kind and hilarious words. My condolences to you all for the absence you must so deeply feel.
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Christel posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I really wish I had been fortunate enough to have met Joe. I am just reading about him for the first time in this viral obituary. He sounds absolutely amazing. We need a lot more of him in this life. Thank you for sharing a little about him for us all to read. I'm sorry for your loss, and the rest of the world's, that he is no longer here to share his love, laughter, and light. May you always find comfort in the memories of his smile, his laughs, and his jokes.
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Kathy Harris posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
When I saw the Fox News piece on Joe Hellers obituary I couldn't believe it was our old neighbor from so many years ago in Centerbrook. My husband and I lived across the street from Joe and Irene back in the late 80's when we were newlyweds. Joe helped us more than once when we had house problems or repair issues but we always were reminded that we were young dopes and had no clue what we were doing.....he nailed it! His manner was nothing that I had ever encountered (raised a western girl..) but his presence was comforting . I will never forget the day we brought our first daughter home from the hospital during a horrible snow storm in December 1989. We arrived home to find our driveway plowed. I will remember him as someone who quietly loved his neighbor, but I love knowing he was a character I wish I'd known.
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Jerry posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Simply outstanding! I agree with Kathy, love is very evident.
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Jack posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Sounds like a great guy. Wish there were more like him.
Sorry for your loss, but happy you had him for as long as you did.
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Timothy Sanders posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Dear Heller Family,
It's not often that an obituary doubles as a treatise on how to best enjoy life. Yours breaks the mold, just like Joe did. Thank you for being you, and thank you to Joe for passing on perhaps the most valuable lesson of all: have fun.
All the best,
Tim
Madison, Wisconsin
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Kathy posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Rarely do we read an obituary that manages to convey the unique love of a family for a loved one.
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Christy Pape-Somerville posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Dear Heller family,
I don't generally read obituaries, but the headline of the article in the New York Times claiming it was "the best obituary ever" was just too good to pass up. I'm so glad I took the time. Joe Heller sounds like the kind of person I would have loved to know. Between the slightly uncouth sense of humor, the hoarding, and the dog rescues, he would have fit in quite well with my family. This world needs more good people who don't take themselves too seriously and know how to have a little fun. I'm terribly sorry for your loss, but I'm glad the birds in your neighborhood will be fed for the next 5 years with the leftover birdseed you found at his house. I hope the memories and stories of Joe's antics live on for generations to come, inspiring people to let lose, drop an f-bomb and help their neighbor. Joe, Jack and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing about this wonderful man.
Warmest regards,
Christy Pape-Somerville
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Roni Java of Northern California posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Dear Heller Family:
A friend in Iowa shared with me your wise, hysterically funny tribute to your amazing Dad. You have honored him in the highest fashion. He is a true original and thank you for lighting up the world with this poignant account of all that he brought to his family and community. Like others, I wish I had known him. Yes, indeed, he will be missed for a long time. Sending you all a snug virtual hug of love and condolences and my heartfelt hope that you will carry on his zany traditions. The world is a better place for having him, and for you. Bless you, each one. : )
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Theresa posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
First, my condolences on the loss of your father who, from the depth and breadth of the obituary was certainly one of a kind. You do not know me, nor I you nor your father -- my daughter forwarded the obituary to me this morning and I laughed and laughed and read it at least three times. This is a tribute more than an obituary and it is a tribute to your father (parents) and your family. I think I'm going to suggest that my own children take note as this is exactly the kind of send off I would love. I also have to increase my collection of inappropriate t-shirts and dresses to wear in public if I am going to earn such a reputation. Again, my condolences for it would be a great loss to lose such a personality in this world.
With love and respect
Theresa Anderson-Butcher
Sudbury, Ontario Canada
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Theresa Hislop posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
What a wonderful expression of love and joy your obituary is to read!
I loved every minute of reading, and it brightened my day.
I know that your Loved One has been escorted to Glory on Angels' wings.
God bless you Family of Joseph....
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J. Brown posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I did not know your father, but after reading his obituary, I wish I had. How very lucky you are to have had him in your lives. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Lucinda Fleming posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
To the family of Mr. Heller,
Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your father/grandfather. I did not know him personally, but after reading his well-written obituary, I feel as though I did, and knowing him would have been a privilege. I even think he and my father would have been "cronies" with their shared interests (particularly the hoarding aspects and irreverent gestures). Hopefully, they can bump into each other in the after-life and swap stories.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
Kindest regards,
Lucinda Fleming
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Mick in MN posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Wish I would have known him, he sounds like my kind of guy. The world needs more people like Joe. My condolences to Joe's family.
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Mary posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I wish to extend my condolences. A friend of mine sent me your Father's obituary and upon reading it I both laughed and cried. He has left behind wonderful memories of a life well-lived. I hope you will consider writing a book about him! I would love to read more!
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Logan in Victoria,BC Canada posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I began by reading Joe's Story in the New York Times this Morning and quickly went to the Obit in the Hartford Courant. Of course I never knew Joe, and I think that is my loss. What a wonderful character he must have been (and all joking aside he seemed like a solid member of the community), the type of person you could depend on but better also keep your guard up around. Making others laugh (or cringe) is a very special gift that has evidently endeared many folks to him, even those like myself who never met him. Just reading about him has lightened my morning up. Sorry for the family's and communities loss, but sounds like his life was fully lived and well-celebrated.
R.I.P Mr Heller, Jr.
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Tim in New England posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Simply wonderful! We could all use a Joe in our life.
You have been blessed.
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Diane Moore posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Didn't know Joe or his family - but sounds likes a great guy. Thank you for your military service, Joe! Give 'em H#$%.
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Eduardo Alvarez posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Please accept my condolences. Joe seemed like a great person to be around and it's great to see that you're able to say "see you later" as opposed to "goodbye" and with a fair amount of humor! Thank you for sharing his life with the world.
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Silvia Simpson posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Please accept my condolences. I did not know your dad, but it sounds like he was quite a character and had a life well-lived. You are fortunate that he was your dad.
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Karla carroll posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
From Ireland : A few years back myself and my husband went out with friends. Going out was a far between occurrence. My husband over indulged in wine and whiskey that night. When we eventually got him home I could only lay him on the floor to sleep. Every time I started to drift asleep on the couch my drunken husband would roar out, Joe, Joe, Fuck off Joe. It happened about 370 times that night. Even the kids the next morning were asking who the hell was Joe....
Now we know.
RIP Joe.
God speed
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Kathy Prevo posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
What a wonderfully written tribute. We all think these things, but the way you wrote it showed such love and humor. Many thoughts to your family. Kathy from Lincoln, NE
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Beth McSweeney posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I had no idea that my father had another family in Connecticut...this man could easily have been my own dad. Having grown up with a parent that teased incessantly, and insisted that I watch Archie Bunker and Bennie Hill, I would swear that I was alone in having been raised by such an odd duck. Thank heaven for men like your father. Mr. Heller sounds like one heck of a guy, and part of a generation that will never be repeated. My deepest condolences on your loss, but it sounds like you have a lifetime of wonderful memories to cherish.
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Tuesday, September 17, 2019
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RIP Joe.
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Bill Z posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Reading this online this morning made me tear up. This is exactly the way I want to be remembered and exactly how I want my daughters to remember me. Thank you to his daughters for such a thoughtful tribute and thank you for sharing your dad however briefly with the world that may have been. RIP Joe.
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Linda Fitzpatrick posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Your family was truly blessed to have a man who left you so many happy memories. Hopefully at least one of his children or grandchildren will continue his tradition of being irreverent and loving and pure fun. Your father would be very proud of his children!
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Jim Thompson posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I would just like to say that I am sorry I never got to meet Joe! Your description of him tells me two things.
One, he had a gentle spirit and loved to have fun.
Two, he raised a good family, and lived his life on Joe's terms!
May God receive him and say Well done!!
My kinda guy!!
Thanks for sharing his legacy in such a fun and unusual way!!
JT
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ROBSON WERNECK posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I didn't know Joseph, but I impressed with how the well humored people can make difference everywhere they go. I hope his way of life be contagious and, on this hope, I will send my mother-in-law to expend some time with you all...
God bless my unknown friend Joseph Heller Jr. and his loved seeds.
Robson Werneck, from Foz do Iguaçu (iguassu)/Brazil
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Tom Schaff posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Heckuva man. Just found out the man and demand a DNA test. I'll swear at length he is a relative to some of the best people I've come to know in the Midwest. Joe, when you are in heaven, look up Aunt Delila....you two can put toilets in people's yards with signs that say, "Turning 50 is the Sh!ts" Thanks for living a great life and inspiring me to take it up a notch.
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Rev. Janet Ihne posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
Blessings to you and your families. You are in my thoughts and prayers. By the way, this is the best obituary I have ever read and an amazing way to honor your father.
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Jenni posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
First off, my deepest condolences on the passing of your dad/grandpa/best friend. Stay strong, and always cherish what sounds like a mass of wonderful memories.
I write this with the deepest of respect, but a minimum of writing skill: I didn't know the man and live on the other side of the state, but man, this guy is one of the handful of people I've read about who I really regretted not knowing. I am actually bummed I missed the memorial.
Heck, I'm glad I believe in an afterlife, as I'm hoping to encounter him there when I shuffle off this mortal coil (and I'm hoping he's met my mom there. I could see them creating havoc in heaven together!)
Weird to be writing all this for a dude I don't know. I never do this. Goes to show you...he must have been something special.
Much love, support, and healing to you all.
Jenni
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Nan posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I would have loved, loved, LOVED to have known Joe. Cannot wait to meet him in heaven. What a fantastic tribute to a unique gentleman!
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Monty posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
What a great send off. Thank you for sharing his memory with us. Reading and typing in Saginaw, Mi. in case you are keeping track...
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Michael Foley posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I can't wait to die and meet the man! He's right up my cup of tea. While working as a computer programmer, I once swapped out all the liquid soap in the bathrooms with vegetable oil. Maybe we're related somehow...
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Gabrielle Conforti posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 17, 2019
I never met Joe, but after reading this, I wish I had!!! He sounds like an interesting person, and Irene has her work cut out for her up there!
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Lisa LaFleur posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Hello, I read about you dad's obituary online and wanted to come and share my condolences from Texas. I didn't know your father but he sounded like my kinda guy. I had the perfect shirt to wear to his home going. Based on his obituary I know his memory will definitely live on and stay alive through all of the lives he touched.
Much love and condolences,
Lisa from Texas
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Daniel Humphreys, Retired cab driver, former teacher, Cincinnati, OH posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Let the record reflect that this man's story, his deeds and the obvious love that his friends and family who put up with him have brought a total stranger to tears. I am indebted to my long term friend Laverne Tromp Blickley of Grand Rapids, Michigan for sharing.
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SSG Keith Youngblood posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I'm very sorry for your loss. I will have to bump my game and strive harder every day to try and be half the fun guy that your dad was. He's am absolute inspiration to me.
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Patty Jeddy posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Cheers to the man who gave us the term "Catch-22" and so much more.
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Wanda Rickhoven posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Joe, it was an honor to have your dog poop in my yard. Now get back from the dead and clean it up!
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Ron from Iowa posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
From what I’ve read about Joe, my life would have been enriched having known him! So sorry for your loss but envious of you for the years you had with him.
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Taffinay Fowler posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Found his obit on FB. For a man who didn't like a fuss made about him...he'd probably be mad as hell that he's gone viral. :-)
Your family is in my prayers...and so is your Mom. Sounds like she's gonna need em up there.
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Betsy posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I offer you my deepest sympathies as I cried reading your brilliant, beautiful, and inspirational obituary. I can only wish to henceforth live as fully and joyfully as it is apparent your father did. He is to be honored to live his great life and also to be honored to have sired as wonderful and creative children as you. God bless Joe, and all his family.
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Liza posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing your memories with strangers such as me. His life story has touched many people. Too bad the mold was broken because the world sure needs more people like him. Sincere condolences to your family and all who knew him.
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Essex Town Dump posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Joe, you were not only a customer, but also a friend. Our hearts are fuller for having known you, and our facility will be fuller for your passing.
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Chet Anderson posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a guy! I now do have a serious regret about my life: I didn't get to meet Joe Heller.
But now.....I do REALLY want to meet his daughters! Expressions of love take different forms. This one is of the very best variety. (And yes....my two daughters will be receiving copies of your Dad's obit with instructions to them too.......try and live up to it. But knowing them, they will reply "but why, you didn't live up to Mr. Heller's standard.")
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Frederick Symington posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I did not know Joe; though I wish had. After reading his obituary, however, I know enough about him to impart this:
Our country, indeed the world, needs more Joe Hellers more than anything else.
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Monday, September 16, 2019
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My late uncle John was in the SeaBees, he and Joe would have gotten along well. Rest in peace Joe. My condolences to his wonderful family.
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Teri Jo posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
This is a person who we all wish we had known. I read his Obituary on facebook and wanted to thank his family for sharing it.
Your Joseph seems like a wonderful man! God bless you as you heal from his loss.
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Terry Lawson posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a lovely, dear, brilliant man; I read every word he wrote, and he decidedly influenced my own writing career;
God bless him and your's.
Terry Lawson
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michael matsukawa posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I am on the opposite end of the United States, but read Joe's obituary with great love and "fun." In my neck of the woods, there is a headstone of someone, probably a ship's crew member, who died in Kealakekua, South Kona, Hawaii. This is where Mark Twain walked by when he was in Hawaii. If you ever read Mark Twain's short story (and Jack London's "Sheriff of Kona") you will enjoy the humor these men had. I imagine Joe would have loved to hang out with them as well.
Aloha and thanks for sharing. Joe seems what America is all about and ought to be (continually).
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Kristin Jonker posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Working in a funeral home and writing obituaries, I felt compelled to read Joe's obituary that his family wrote. Best, most honest, and funniest obituary I've ever read! His family seems very blessed (or cursed, lol) to have him and his sense of humor in their family. God bless the family!
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DanO posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a lucky man to have such a good and humorous family.
RIP Joe
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Kathleen Colombo posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
How wonderful and challenging sharing a life with such a man. His love and joy and strength are reflected in all you shared. I only hope heaven was prepared to receive him, maybe your Mom gave them a fair warning. May your heart rest easy, be filled with laughter and always treasure the gift of his life.
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Terry posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I saw the story about the obit online and had to share it on Facebook after reading it.
Simply put, the world could use more Joes.
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Jason Meeker posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I've read the obit 10 times and laughed and cried every time. What a life! What a remembrance!
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Walter Winslow posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Dammit Joe, you still owe me twenty bucks!
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Mike Davis posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a wonderful Father you have. Mr. Joe sounds like a man I could easily call my friend and with his love of laughter and the joy he tried to bring to people's lives is to be commended. I am sure he is very proud of you three girls and no doubt your parents did a remarkable job raising you. I offer my sympathy in your loss, but pray you will continue his legacy filling the world with laughter. I only knew him through your obit.
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Wanda Kirejczyk posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Dearest Lisette,
My deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved father. He sounds like an amazing father, husband and overall incredible human being. The world is a sadder place without him in it. I wish I could have met him - he certainly will be remembered by all who did.
In Friendship,
Dr Kirejczyk
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Laura Mae Pigg posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I didn’t know your Dad but I know we’d get along fabulously. I am facing my demise sooner than later. Sent a copy of your father’s obituary to my son since he intends to plant me, even though I’d prefer he toss me down the hole in the outhouse. Perfectly legal here in Alaska. I hope he will remember me as fondly as you remembered your Dad. Thank you!
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Cathy Klessig posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I have never met Joe (I'll call him Joe because I know that he would like me). He sounds like a superb human. I can relate to having an inappropriate mouth (at times), crazy clothes, antics and love of dogs.
Joe sounds like a hoot and you were very fortunate to have him in your corner.
I'm sorry for your loss but think he's left you with lots of comic relief.
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Howard Quinby posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Never knew him, never met him, but he is surely my brother from another mother. I would have worn my 'needs supervision' t-shirt, treated myself generously to the free food, and wondered what of his previously used acquisitions I 'needed' - "I'm not a hoarder, I'm a scavenger!"... I am very sorry for your loss, and thank you for providing inspiration and a place to let my insufferable smartass to his thing.
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Robert Kravitz posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
OMG thank you so much. I can't stop laughing!!
Hope to meet Joe someday.
Robert Kravitz
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Andrea Calhoun posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I so loved this, I cried with laughter!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing. God Bless you and your family.
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Holly Michaels posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I am the many who didn't know your father but feel compelled to write in appreciation of a great father and absolutely wonderful obit. He leaves behind daughters who are very much like him - you would have to be to write such a great story. I so wish I would have known him - I THINK I would have liked being the object of one of his prank - just not every day. Please accept my condolences.
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Susie Peters posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Rest in peace Joe...….you have an adorable family and they obviously adored you! This obit told his story to a tee. Like others you have heard from I didn't know Joe, but I sure felt like I did after reading......and definitely with a smile :) Thanks for sharing.....
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Faith posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I didn't know your father and im not even from the same state. I am in Minnesota.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It seems that God may have wanted a heater on his team of Angels.
I pray that you all carry on his laughter and pranks. Hold that near and dear to your heart.
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Charlotte Ferguson posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a great tribute to a truly unique individual. I love the obit!
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Seth Chambers posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
My condolences on your lost, I think Joseph might have been my spirit animal. It's obvious that he is loved and leaves behind a lot of smiles and great memories. Blessings to you all.
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John Wagner posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but through the wonderful obit, I do now. I wept reading it. Touching. What a great life.
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AmandoB posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I hope to be a Joe to my daughters, I'm sorry for your loss. Sounds like the world misses the Joes among us, thanks for reminding your friends, family, and the rest of the world, that life shouldn't be taken too seriously, and that we should be in service of others. Peace -A
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teresa posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Wow, I dropped tears but not so much as being sad. Im sad I never got to meet him, but my tears were for you all. being as comfortable with death and making the best of it. beautiful story and truly a blessing. my condolences to you all. Rest humorously Mr. joseph
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JoAnn Trenary posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
So sorry for your loss. You did him proud with his obit! I worked with your beautiful Mom for many years. Their love of each other was obvious. He was a sweet and soft hearted guy. Really!! Bless you all and prayers for Joe and Irene.
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Bob Wicker posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Joe, you were my kind of guy. A foul mouthed Sailor with a penchant for shenanigans! Fair winds and following seas, Shipmate.
My condolences to Joe's family and friends!
Master Chief, USN, Retired
Syracuse, IN
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Kelly Hansen posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
My deepest condolences at the loss of your Father. I read his obituary with a lump in my throat, and as the daughter of a simialr man, the appropriate eye rolling and chuckles. It is very often the "crunchy on the outside, soft in the middle" kind of guys that make this world a better place. I honor the memory of this delightful prankster, and hope that now reunited in glory, your Mom and he have a wonderful reunion. May God bless your family, and great memories ease your sadness.
Kelly Hansen
Goose Creek, SC
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Maggie Thompson posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I am SOOOOO EXTREMELY SORRY 4 your loss. By reading the Obit your father sounds like he nd my dad could be Identical Twins damn near...
I Pray That Your Family ONLY SEES brighter days ahead.
He is in a Much BETTER place than we all are
Charlotte NC
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Jim Rubin posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
My condolences on the loss of the exceedingly irascible and hilarious Joe Heller, Jr. Oh, how I wish I had known this man, having just read about him in the New York Times. The obit of your dad is something worth keeping in and of itself, a truly inspired piece of writing. I trust that his sendoff was a rousing success. I will be sending a few bucks to the Seabees.
Most Sincerely Yours,
Jim Rubin
Henrico, VA
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John posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I'm sorry for your loss but I hope the many good memories you have console you through your grief.
What a wonderful and full life Joe led! It's kind of ironic that he seems to have raised so much hell, since his name is Heller..... :-)
As a consequence of reading this very funny and loving obituary, I've added having a dog named Fart to my bucket list. I hope Joe won't mind that I'm using his idea but will give him full credit.
RIP Joe, I wish I had met you.
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Kevin Clark posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Dear Mr. Heller and family,
Having worked as a hospice chaplain for over 20 years, I have read and written literally hundreds of obituaries. To date, Mr. Heller, your obituary is clearly the funniest (I fell out of my chair laughing, LMAO) and one of the most loving tributes I have ever read. Well done, sir! And well done to the author and the whole family.
May you all be blessed by the memory of Joseph. Continue sharing the stories, I am sure there are many more tales to be told.
One thing I often say in my eulogies (mostly because I need to hear it), is that while it is true that people die (at least their bodies do), it is also true (I believe) that their spirits and their love do not die. Therefore, all those who loved Joe in life, love him every bit as much today as they did when he was with us; and Joe loves all of you every bit as much today as he did when he was busy being the delightful, outlandish, opinionated, hilarious, loving and caring man he was when he walked this earth.
I would like to offer to Joseph, his family and all who mourn his passing this Celtic blessing:
Deep peace of the running wave to you,
Deep peace of the flowing air to you,
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you,
Deep peace of the gentle night to you,
Moon and stars pour their healing light on you,
Deep peace to you.
And, finally, as the son of an Air Force fighter pilot, I, along with a grateful nation, thank you, Joseph A. Heller, Jr., for your service to our country.
Shalom!
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Jan's clover posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Oh my goodness! I am very sorry for your loss but I must say, your sense of humor is a brilliant legacy for such a colorful soul! If he was anything like your words have described I am certain that Heaven is all the richer and we on earth (even those like me who never had a chance to meet this man) are all the poorer.
Gods bless you and yours!
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Fran posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
How lucky to have such a fun man in your life and how very sad that you had to lose him. Your obit reminds me so much of my dad, he was such a tease. I lost my father 16 years ago and your obit really brought him back to me. You dad sounds like someone I would have loved knowing.
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Monday, September 16, 2019
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Elizabeth Cavalli posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Hi, So sorry for your loss, the country has lost a great man. Upon reading this article on the internet I am at a loss of words. I cried and laughed so hard, I really enjoyed the obituary and loved that this man lived his life to the fullest and so many people loved him. I am sure his legacy will live on for a years, till one Grandchild beats this legacy. Sending lots of love and prayers. Sincerely Elizabeth
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Karl Schintone posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Your obit made this old man cry. I was overwhelmed by how lucky you are to have had such a fantastic, unique man for a father and what a wonderful job he and your mom did in raising such a special daughter. I hope your sorrow is, in some small way, mitigated by the wonderful memories he left.
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Maryanne posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
New England has lost a great man. Our hearts are with all of you. Never met him , but miss the bastard
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Randell E. Girard posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I'm sorry to have never met or known you, your well done life reminds me of my grandfather. Thank you for your Navy service, wishing you "fair winds and following seas" on the other side.
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Jerri Woolls posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a wonderful legacy! Aside from the "monetary fortune and real estate gains you all apparently inherited his wonderful sense of humor! God bless you all.
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Carol Kauer posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Your father sounds like he appreciated life and didn’t let it just go by, he must have loved all of you so much . There will not be a day that he won ‘t be remembered by you or all the people that he picked on in one way or the other.
My condolences go out to his family and friends. And the person or person’s who wrote his obituary seem to follow in his footsteps.
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Alex posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I have enjoyed reading about your father, sounds like a person I would have liked knowing.
I'm 66 , and can only hope to have as much love around me when I go.
Can I have some of his t shirts?
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Jason Augustine posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
To the Heller family, friends, and loved ones.
Condolences to you on your loss (or "LUCKY YOU" if you were the victim of one of his pranks, I guess?!? :) ). He sounded according to the obit I read, like an awesome person to know (even though some of his ideas seemed pure e-e-e-e-e-e-e-evil in nature, haha). To call him a character would be an understatement, and there will forever be a void, that no one (in their right mind) will be able to fill. I hope this tribute made you at least chuckle, in your time of healing.
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J. Moeller posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What an amazing tribute to your dad! It sounds like he was a character! I wished I would have met him. I'm sorry for your family's loss.
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Cheryl Nekos posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I saw this online and while I didn't know Joe whatsoever, he sounded like a fun guy to know. I know your heart may hurt with his passing, but he sounds like he'd appreciate his obituary and left behind great memories. May he continue to raise hell wherever he goes next.
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Julie Barnes posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
THAT WAS ABSOLUTELY FANTASTIC! I found this on Facebook and I cannot tell you how moved I was reading this. It sounds as though Joe's siblings, wife, daughters and grandchildren were truly blessed to have this man. What you have written is such a wonderful tribute, it made me love him! God bless all of Joe's family and may he rest in peace knowing his legacy will be cherished. What an amazing man he must have been.
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Andria posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Your tribute to your dad was truly wonderful and filled with love. My dad and yours would have gotten along wonderfully, as they were very much alike. My sincerest sympathies and condolences to you, your sisters and your wonderful family. I'm sure there is someone in the family that will carry on your days 'legacy'. May God bless and comfort you and your family. Rest in Paradise Joe! (Warwick, RI)
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Lori & Greg Tainter posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Seeing the article on MSN.COM and then reading this obituary, made our day. What a turd Joe seemed to be and it looks like he was loved by a lot of people. A person with this type of attitude during life makes knowing a person worth every memory you can create with them. We send sympathies to your Mother, who will now have to put up with his language and clothing choices again (lol). Rest in Peace Mr Heller (and Jack) and Thank you to you and your family for having such an amazing life with lots of stories for them to tell and remember about you!! Washington IL
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Natalie Helberg posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I did not know your father but I was so moved by your tribute that I felt compelled to send my condolences. You have provided a loving and thorough memoir of your dad and created an image that's touching, loving and downright comedic. I am sorry for your loss and but feel remarkably blessed to have found this and read it. You have brightened the day of a lonely woman with your antedode. My sympathies on the loss of a wonderful father. May the stars in heaven shine brighter because of his glowing personality.
Chicago, IL
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Katie Wright posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Hello,
Somehow, your father’s obituary was shared by a friend on FB. I read it to the very end and chuckled and smiled all the way through it. Your father was obviously loved very much by you, his treasured daughters, and by the community. I can only hope to have such an obituary written about me someday. I am sure you made him very proud in life and certainly have in his passing. I am sure he is reunited with your mom and Jack the fish and is wearing his irreverent T-shirt in the most reverent of kingdoms.
Thank you for sharing your dad with us. I feel like I knew him. I wish you peace in your grieving.
Katie Wright
Attleboro, MA
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Annie Hudson posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
My prayers go out to all the family and friends of Joe Heller. Especially to his children who I share a similar childhood with.
My Dad was a wonderful father but also quite challenging. Rarely missed an opportunity to make us blush and want to find a corner and hide. Once on a plane, the unfortunate passenger next to my Dad passed wind. My Dad proceeded to announce the incident to the entire plane and renamed him Smelly Farty. He introduced him to all sitting around us as his friend Smelly Farty. The poor man was so embarrassed he got up and moved to the back of the plane. Don’t get me started on dates and calls from boyfriends. I started giving out the pay phone number to the church down the street with specific times to call.
God Bless your Dad and all like minded individuals. They make the world a better place.
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Danielle Buesgens posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Hats off to the daughters that wrote Joe's obit. Absolutely incredible. Thank you for sharing the most human and flawed aspects of your dear dad. Such a wonderful story.
Danielle,
Henderson MN
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Teresa Shaw posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Joe sounds like a wonderful man!! I love your tribute to him...my dad was the one "we could never take anywhere twice except to apologize. "
I'm so glad you have these wonderful stories and memories....
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Jay Poynte posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
How very proud your father would be to read the outstanding and colorful obit you've created for him. The attention to detail, the humor and the love that was penned is without equal. What is most clearly expressed in your hysterical tribute is a testimony to a wonderful father by his loving daughter. Who could ask for more? You did good Joe.
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Debbie Barber posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Your dad sounded like a man who knew how to live. I know he passed that knowledge on to his girls. May we all live or lives in his memory.
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Kathleen Rubenbauer posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Your father’s obituary captures his essence perfectly. My late husband Ray was sure he saw a mountain lion on Woodland Drive several years ago. Joe was driving his vehicle with the Animal Control Officer plates when Ray stopped him to ask if there was a mountain lion in the area. Your dad replied “Yes, but don’t tell anybody. They’ll expect me to catch the #<&@#~¥ thing.” RIP Joe. You were one of a kind.
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Tarona Sensel posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I’m so sorry for your loss. Of course you don’t know me or I you. But this obit is very funny. It just goes to show you you only live once. Great send off to a obviously loved and’ enthusiastic’ (Lol) Father.
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Ellie Daniels posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
What a wonderful tribute. I wish our paths had crossed and am so sorry for your loss
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Ed Quintero posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. I have to write because your father sounds like someone my father would have hanged out with. My father passed away some years ago. You'll always remember the good times and adventures you had with your father, that's how I remember my "good ol' dad". Take care and my god bless your family.
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Elizabeth Heckenberg posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
Thank you for this hilarious and moving tribute to your father. I am in Melbourne, Australia, so never met him, but I now feel I know him a little, and it sounds that the depth of his michief was equalled by his compassion and duty. I am sure that he would be very proud of his girls, and offer my sincere condolences to you all. Best wishes, Elizabeth Heckenberg.
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Mark Edward Powell posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2019
I still can't see properly for the laughter and a few tears that surfaced upon reading this, now digitally legendary account, of your Dad. I will indeed, forthwith, honor Joe with an appropriate prank on an unsuspecting and entirely deserving sap. Shite, I may even take a nap.
Bless you all for bringing your Dad's life to us to read, revel in, cry over, laugh about, and in a challenge he might well have enjoyed, make part of our own journey.
Peace.
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Conrad von Metzke posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Sincere condolences on the loss of someone I'd have been proud to know, thrilled to cavort with, and challenged to best in general outrageousness. Too bad he felt the need to kill his fish; had he known me, I'd gladly have adopted it. Apart from that, though I never knew him, I'm going to miss him - entirely on principle, as he apparently did all the things I never had the nerve to try. Perhaps this is now my cue to embolden myself. Weird T-shirts, here I come. And the white beard is about six days under way.
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Jamie DiFlorio, Little Rock, AR posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
What a guy... and what a family! Rest in peace, Joe (and Jack). I wish I had known you in life!
Love and many prayers for an obviously loving and devoted family.
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Tony Riley posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
As a born prankster myself and after reading this obituary I have personally pulled a couple pranks in Joes memory. I love a good prank and the personality of the ones who pull them. Hopefully my 3 daughters can share similar memeries about me one day. May Joe Rest In Peace. God bless your family.
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Beth Turneabe posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
The worlds most interesting man. Wish I’d met him.
Bless him and your family.
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Paul Soloway posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
My aspiration is to live a life that inspires such an obit!
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Adele & David posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Sorry to hear your Dad died. We wish we would have met him in life!
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Calvin Wyne posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I never had the pleasure of meeting Joe , but I knew him well. We all have a Joe in our lives and life would be a lot less fun without them. Rest easy Joe.
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Robert Dabrowski posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
What a wonderful man, and father. Such a wonderful obituary I laughed my ass off. I wish I knew him.
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Paula Bowman posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Your dad sounded like a wonderful man!
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Roxanne from Canada posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Your father sounded like a real character, the world lost one of the good ones. Condolences to the family.
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Patricia Tencza posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Joe must have been one hell of an awesome guy! Whoever wrote the obit surely inherited not only his junk, but his humor as well. Kudos to You! Sounds like you had a great Dad.
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Jacj Nelson posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
God bless you Joe.
Only you would find the humor that I met you through your New York Times Obit
I wish I had known you in life.
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Nancy Firlik posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I read your father’s obituary, then read about his funeral. It was like reading about the loss of a dear friend. What a helluva guy! I have to second the suggestion that you publish these stories about your dad. (Your stories somehow reminded me of Steinbeck’s book, Travels with Charley, a book about a man traveling this country with his dog.) I would especially like to hear more details about his beauty parlor escapades. He must be the talk of your town. I hope your memories sustain you till you meet up again. Best to his family from an admirer in Michigan.
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Tish posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Never knew him but found this obit through a friend. He seemed like a fun guy and may he rest in peace. Condolences to his family.
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Chrissy Quick posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Joe reminds me somewhat of my Dad and they have similar features too. It was a pleasure to read about your Father. It sounds like he was quite the character just like my Father. Blessings and condolences
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Barbara Wallace posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Thank you for sharing the memories and essence of someone who sounds like he was a truly great person to know. There should be a Joe in everyones life, teaching us all that life is full of humor; the world would be a much better place! Bless you all, and may everyones memories and silly stories of his shenanigans keep you in stitches until its time for you to be reunited.
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Irwin Rosenthal posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I write from Tiblisi, Republic of Georgia where I stumbled on some source on the internet that led me to the obituary.
How wonderful. Maybe even American ,it was.
In this time of Trump, reading about a good natured grump gives me hope . And made me smile..
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Werner Einhardt posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
My condolences, family. Reading the obituary is like reading about a brother i never had. I probably would love this guy. He surely was a very evolved spirit in this world. Peace and confort to everyone.
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Edna Phillips posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I didn't know him or any of you, but I enjoyed reading about him. I'm sure he will be missed, and he was dearly loved.
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Graham MacMillan posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
To the family my deepest condolences.
To Joseph a fellow sailor, I pray that you have tons of fun in heaven continuing your pranks.
I read your obituary with laughter and a fun rememberance of my own time in the Navy, were I too, caused many a good chuckle with pranks and jokes. To this day, I have sn encyclopaedia of naughty stuff I did as a youngster and still remember the millions of jokes I amased in the service of my country.
Thank you to the family for sharing in your time of loss, the humourous side of an older prankster, now gone to better sailing grounds but remembered very fondly by those who knew him and myself who can only read of his antics.
God speed sailor.
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HMC Ann Carlson posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Thank you for sharing your Dad with the world. My retirement coin states "20 Years of Service and Shenanigans". I'm certain he would have approved. I will do my best to have a shenanigan in his honor. If I remember, I will share it with you. Seabees are the next best thing after Marines (I was a Marine first, Sailor second). Tho' I never made it to the Seabee side, I have mad respect for them. A donation to follow. Might I suggest collecting aluminum cans to offset the obit? Best wishes to all. Fair weather and following Seas to your Dad on his journey.
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Wally Moran posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I hope that when my time comes, someone loves me enough to write an obit like this one for me. I mourn your loss but envy your memories.
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Scott tyler posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
So sorry for your loss: I was supposed to wash my daughter hair but I read the obituary and that took me a while so wife got mad and did it herself: I’m in trouble: but he seemed like a great man. Would have love to meet him
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Melvina Brown posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
What a delightful read! So unlike the traditional, solemn obituaries that give no insight into the true personality of the individual. Looks to me like he left an indelible impression on his children, and definitely brought a lot of fun and joy to his family. You have honored him well by sharing his creativity with all who read this piece! Thanks for telling us about the life of a man who knew how to have a good time! May he continue to laugh throughout his journey!
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karen posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I'm sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great dad and will be missed. I think he was a childhood friend of my dad Bob Denny who described a friend with a dog named fart whom we all believed he was making up. My dad also joined the navy and to his delight got to guard the bars in Cuba. May they find each other in heaven
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Kenneth Mayfield posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Rest your oars sailor your mission is over and from the sound of it, it was an amazing success! Saint Peter will get a kick out of you! God bless!
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Carolyn Brack-Jackson posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Joseph Heller Jr. wish I had known you, rest in happi and hilarity! Daughters you did real good!
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Andrea posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I didn't know your dad, but I wish I would have! What an amazing, fun life you must have had with him! I hope that your memories dull the pain of his loss and that you can continue to laugh and share stories for years to come. God Bless You.
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Terry Matury posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I never met the man, but after reading his obit I wish I had. My Condolences to the family, and it sounds as if Joe lived up to his name. A true Heller!
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Karen B Maurin posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Joe was clearly what we in the South would call a real character! As you three daughters know by now Joe's story and superbly written obit have gone viral. Way down in Louisiana I saw it and promptly sent it to my three siblings as we all know similar characters but Joe would be the clear ringleader. We don't know any of you but we wish we did! Our dad also never met a stranger either so neither have we. We have 2 girls and 2 boys but both our parents have moved on in fact this Monday will make 2 years since our dad departed. I have no doubt my dad will quickly befriend your dad and a ruckus of the most uproarious variety will ensue in heaven. I love that you shared your memories of Joe as your best beauty parlor customer. I can see it so clearly. He was without a doubt one of the good ones! My brothers are just sick over having never had the chance to meet him. He would have been welcomed with open arms and you all would have been served up our very best southern cuisine. Like Joe, we were raised to ensure no get together is contemplated or complete without vast quantities of food. Our mom always said it's better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it. We are all extremely sorry for your loss and the loss from this world of such a good man. We are certainly grateful that Joe left you all with so many stories and memories to reminisce about and share for posterity.
We sincerely pray your grief is assuaged by the many years of laughter Joe, your remarkable dad, provided during his lifetime!
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Kimberly Nearn posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Absolutely wonderful OBIT....... I am from Arkansas and seen this Obit shared on a timeline .... I did not know Joe but I sure would have loved to have crossed paths with him. He sounds like my kinda friend. I would have enjoyed Mr. Joe Heller! May the family have comfort during this difficult time.
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Jack C posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
Seeing so many well intentioned people here confuse Joe for the author Joseph Heller (Catch 22, Sex and the Single Girl) doubtlessly would have tickled him to no end. I can see Joe taking advantage of this case of mistaken identity to somehow craft an excellent prank. I’m sure his memory will live on for a long time.
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Theresa M Schneider posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
I don't know Joe or any of his family or friends (probably), but now I wish I had. Clearly he raised his daughters right, as evidenced by the liberal measures of love & snark that make up this wonderful obit. Condolences to your families (and I really think Jack would be happier with him.)
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Lisa St George posted a condolence
Sunday, September 15, 2019
What a wonderful story! I didn’t know him,my Auntie Pat did. But I feel like I do after reading this lovely tribute to a very colorful and interesting Man!
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Katrina Derickson posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I didn't know Joe but his obit is going viral and I smiled for the first time today reading it. He sounds like someone I would have loved to have spent time with. As someone who lives in Chicago and often just sits and shoots the breeze with the homeless, street people (not homeless but always patrolling the streets and watching people, and others that most people walk by uncomfortably. I like to hear life stories and Joe's was really great. Thank you for sharing this. Thank you Joe for being you.
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Laurie Lynn Drummond posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Clearly your lives, daughters, grandchildren, family, and friends of Joe, will be horrifically boring with Joe no longer around. And yet I have hope, given the wonderous tenor of this obit, that some of you will embrace life as fiercely and unapologetically as your Joe seems to have done. I adore him for his love of dogs, although I have never met him. I adore him even more for what he has given to so many of us who never knew him: joy.
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Barbara posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I feel cheated somehow because I didn't meet Joe in person. Thank you for sharing him with the world.
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LORETTA MCCANN posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
DID NOT KNOW THE LOVELY DECEASED. I JUST WANT TO SAY THE OBIT WAS INSPIRING AND HE MUST HAVE BEEN A WELL LOVED CHARACTER! THANK YOU FOR THE LAUGHS AND SMILES!
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Sending you love from down under in Australia!
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Kendra posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Dear family of Joe,
I didn't know Joe, but I love the story of his life. He reminds me of all my favorite people ... inappropriate, hoarders, collectors, and lovers of family . I miss him already. Please enjoy all of the memories and keep him alive with stories of his beautiful life.
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Janice Blake posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Dear Michelle, Lisette, and Monique... the Wonderful Daughters of Joe Heller...
I did not know your father. And yet, after reading your incredible (!) tribute, I love the guy. My niece sent me the link to his obituary on Patch as she knows I have a special place in my heart for all Seabees. She titled her message: "Best Seabee Obituary Ever." And I'm certain that it is. For the past seven years I've been researching and writing about a Nat Bellantoni, a World War II Seabee who was a former colleague and dear friend. (He was a great guy, too; I'm beginning to think all Seabees are.) That project took me to the U.S. Navy Seabee Museum at Port Hueneme CA and put me in touch with the CEC/Seabee Organization in Gulfport. As a thank you for introducing me to your Dad and sharing the joy in life he shared with all of you, I plan to send a donation to the Seabee Scholarship Fund in his honor. Among the boxes and boxes of papers Nat left for his daughter Nancy and me to work our way through as we created a book about his tour of duty in the South Pacific was a poem entitled "Old Seabees Never Die." I don't see any way to attach a copy; but if you'd like me to send you one, please just let me know. God bless you all. It's obvious how much you loved your Dad. I'm sure you will miss him every day. But judging by the story you've told of the inventive man that he has always been, I have no doubt he will find his way to be with you, your husbands, and your children. Always.
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Nikki Purcell posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I can only hope and pray that one day my obituary will read very close to the same as Joe's. Though I did not know him, he sounded like one hell of a man! I hope he comes across my grandpa in heaven, as they will sure give everyone a run for their money lol
God bless Joe and my sincere condolences to his family <3
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Lynne C posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
We just had my granfather’s funeral today. I get the sense that he and Joe would have gotten along. Hope they find each other and have a few laughs in heaven. I cannot thank you enough for this laugh; this obituary is perfection itself.
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judith jones posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
He would have fit perfectly into my family of in-laws.. so sorry for your loss
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Ian Miller posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Joseph Heller and family, you have left me with chuckles in your passing just as you did in your writing during your life. Godspeed. The world is a better place for your having lived it. Thank you, my sincere condolences, and all the best.
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Stacy Barton posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Continued prayers for your family
I could only imagine meeting you and what a hoot you was. I know your family made you proud what a wonderful tribute.
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Michael Massey posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I met Mr;. Heller on the University of Kentucky campus when he gave a speech. He cordially stayed around and talked wiht a group of maybe 25 students until we were chased out of both Memorial Coliseum and the Student Center. I found him to be a very warm individual. He was not only interesting, but interested in our views as well.A wonderful individual.
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Shiela posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
It seems our fathers are kindred spirits. They will be missed.
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Joan Boerman posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute. ,
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Larry Ransom posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
My condolences to the family and thanks to Mr. Heller for the joyful hours I've spent reading and talking about his books.
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Kristin franzius posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
This is awesome. I Wish I would've met the man. Reading this I feel like I know him and was there for his life. I hope that when I pass, in the future, that My kids write an obituary like this. Hugs to the family and I'm sure Joe will be missed by many!
Heck, I even miss him and I've never met the man. He sounds amazing and I'm sure his family and friends enjoyed him. Hugs to the family! We need more Joes in this world! Bye Joe.
Much love,
Kristin Franzius
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DCEdwards posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
What a full life, with a heart of gold, and a fantastic attitude and sense of humor! My prayers go out to the world for more people like Joe!
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Mary Briggs posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Sorry to see you go before we got the chance to meet. It would have been so much fun to collaborate pranks together! I must say, good for you to leave them laughing and wanting more! I laugh when I think of the shenanigans that will ensue when you run into my dad, brother, and uncle. Heaven help us all! Thank you for your service to our country, we are forever grateful and you will be dearly missed. My condolences to your family and friends who I'm sure your absence has left them with a deep void in their hearts . Peace~
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Diana Proctor posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Thankyou for letting me know Joe! I'm sure he didn't know a stranger! Being a Nurse,I would've loved talking to and taking care of him! Thankyou! For your service, Joe and I would've loved to have met you and your family! God Bless!!!
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jbmatthews posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
What a wonderful tribute for a colorful man. I’m just a stranger, but now feel I know Joe. Thanks for sharing and thanks for the laughs. I truly believe Joe would be proud! RIP
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Charity posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I hope you don't mind strangers leaving you condolences but after reading your father's obituary I have a feeling you're getting a kick out of the comments here. I'm so sorry you've lost such an interesting man. I hope to live a life that leaves my family with wonderful memories like this! Well ... maybe without excrement meatloaf!
Best wishes to you and yours.
Charity - Missouri
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Chris Corbin posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Thank you for your service. May you rest in peace. You sound like someone I wish I had gotten the opportunity to know. I seen this from a Facebook friend.
Bremerton, Washington
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John Zitzelberger posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Your message was an inspiration, and leads me to much admire this man who I did not know. I do not admire him for his pranks (he would have driven me stone crazy), but for the love he nurtured, Gabe, and received.
My condolences to your family and friends. God bless him and you all.
John Z
Columbus, GA
PS Heard you on NPR this morning as well. 8)
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Tim golliher posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Your pop is cut from the cloth that makes up my uncles, my granddad, my family and my wife's family, and everyone I know on this Earth whom I like and respect. (And me, according to my wife.) Being a lovable smart-ass with a wicked sense of humor who loves critters and has no fear of death is the highest state of being, even though the Buddhists take a long way to get there. I'm so glad to have read this memory of a man I never met, but I sure do hope I get to, someday, in some dimension where I'll get a cat-shit sandwich. I'll know who did it when it happens, and we'll all have a laugh at it. Hope to meet you someday, Joe, you piece of work!
Tim Golliher
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Robin Leigh Cahill posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
My sincerest condolences, thoughts, and well wishes are with Joe's family and many friends. Rest in peace, my friend!
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Michael D. Lang posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Thank you Joe & Family.
A Midwestern Navy Vet and Rouge.
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Megan Newton posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Joe sounds like a fun and amazing guy who lived a pretty awesome life. I bet he was a fun dad and papaw to have around. I hope you enjoy celebrating his life and hearing all of his fun stories retold. I am sorry for your loss, but I hope your fun and fond memories bring you smiles for years to come. Sending love from a complete stranger in Louisville, Kentucky. Cheers to a life well lived, Joe.
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Judith E Rodgers posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
this man was a very special man, one that was loved by all ; one who is very rare and It would have been nice to know him.. thank you for posting his obituary. So sorry for your loss, but hopefully he left family with his personality .
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Tamela Richings posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
While loss is never easy your family managed to portray the life of your father in a unique, honest, humorous, and loving way. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love from so many across the world and his legacy be a lesson on living life to the fullest. RIP Mr. Heller. I will never look at chocolate cake the same again.
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Kirk Walker posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I never met Joe, but he sounds like a great man. RIP and condolences to his family. Best obit I have ever read.
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John posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I did not know the man, but he will forever be a hero in my heart.
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Susan posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
This obit could be written for my dad, except that he remains alive, for the moment, to further embarrass my mother with his antics. I howled with laughter noting the similarities and find it interesting that someone so similar, and the same age, lived a boat ride up river from my dad. I thought my dad was one-of-a-kind but I guess there must be a number of "Joe's" out there. Condolences to your family and the Essex community who loved your dad despite, or because of, his eccentricities. FYI: My dad sent me this obit. The family had a good laugh via speaker phone over the similarities. Thank you.
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Kay posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I’m sorry I didn’t know Joe and it sounds like whomever wrote the obit takes after him. Sounds like a unique guy. My sympathies to the family.
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Beverly Budzynski posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I just completed reading the story of this colorful man. I am so very sorry for your loos, but thank you, for sharing his wonderful life story. Obviously, I don't know who wrote this outstanding obituary, but it is a tribute to a man who knew how to live life. He is an example for all of us, and this is, not to take life so seriously. Find adventure and have some fun. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss, but thank you for sharing his life. May each of you continue his legacy.
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Mark Huey posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Joe, you sound much like me. I mean this in a good way and, had we know each other, we would have been friends. Take comfort in the knowledge that you have raised wonderful daughters who loved you dearly, in spite of your antics, but because of them. I know you will be missed by all who knew you but will live on in their hearts forever. Joing your wife in the kingdom of Heaven but know this, God probably doesn't have the time for your antics! Rest in peace sir. Beautiful obituary by the way.
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Kathi posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I don't think I've ever laughed reading through an obituary as I did with this one, in fact I know I haven't. I tried to read all the condolences but there were so many pages!! So please know you have my condolences and my thanks, as one of the many depressed people in the world who got to smile and laugh today which is a rare treat!! What is a better testament to a life well lived than to touch so many more lives in death.
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Duane posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Chiming in from Michigan, as the story spreads. Your dad sounds like he was a helluva guy, reminds me of my ol' man. They sure as h*ll woulda been buds :) Congratulations on a live well lived, Joe!
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William Werwaiss posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I have been away from Essex for several years but one look at Joe’s pictures brought back many memories. Many made me laugh out loud but the most compelling memories were of Joe’s kindness and generosity. He was really one of a kind but we could use more people who cared as much as he did.
Willie
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Wenonah Allen posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Thank you for sharing your Dad with us, the world, we all need to read something uplifting in the news today. Your Dad has a golden soul and his presence on earth is a gift that will keep on giving. Your Dad is an inspiration and his footprints are now walking beside thousands of people depending on words of encouragement and hope that if you start a task with true conviction then finish it with the same gusto. It doesn't matter if the situation is happy or sad, you can do it. He also is the giver of "smiles" and nobody ever left his space without walking away without a smile on their face too. Your Dads story and memoirs are a book, a play, please get it published. I didn't write in past tense because your Dads soul is still here to remind us to live every minute of every day. Your Dad was sent to earth for a purpose and he left everything on the playing field by the end of the game. Job well done! My condolences to the family. God, thank you for Joseph A. Heller Jr.
Wenonah Allen, Davenport, IA
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Patrick C Carroll posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I'm sorry I didn't know the guy. I can only pray for such an obit.
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Danielle posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I didn't know your dad, but my family is also from CT so we might know someone who knew someone who knew him. That said, I can only strive to be as awesome as your dad has been described in this obituary. Today, I'm headed to a soccer game that one of my children is playing in, and I shall wear my most inappropriate tee shirt in Joe's honor. My condolences on your dad's death.
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Gary Gagne posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I never knew Joe, but judging from his obituary he was a man to behold. I'm sorry for your grief although it seems Joe taught you to handle grief well. All my prayers to you and yours.
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Jackie posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I don’t know your dad. I am a random person from Ohio that had this forwarded to me as it went viral. I have read it a number of times and, as I’m sure thousands of strangers now feel, wish I knew him. When I lost my dad 16 years ago somebody told me that a legacy lives on through their children. In reading this wonderful tribute, I can tell that it has. Sincerest condolences on the loss of your father. But, hell, he raised three pretty funny daughters.
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Susie posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
What an inspiration you girls are for writing such a wonderful obituary. I can tell your dad was a great father from the words you’ve put together in this. I’m sure he will be missed by you all and many more. Good luck with the clean up and enjoy all the memories with everything you touch. Sending thoughts of of love to all the friends and family from Red Deer Alberta Canada ❤️
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Tana thomas posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Sorry for the loss of this wonderful man. This was the best obits I have ever read. I didn’t know joe and wish I did after reading this. Keep his memory alive and go make an exlax cake. Love to all
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pamela mcdonough posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
in an increasingly monotone world we need more colorful people like Joe. eccentric and never failing to be kind.
thanks for sharing his grit...
i'm sorry for your loss....all of us who read the obit miss him too
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Samuel Ray posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Sounded like a swell guy. I send my condolences all the way from Indiana.
Sam Ray
US Navy, Veteran
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Bennie Sprouse posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
What a great life he had and obviously a very loving family! Thank you for sharing Joe's life story. He seemed like the kind of guy that everyone loved and loved to be around. I do wish I had known him. I live in a little town called Clinton in South Carolina - never been up your way, but who knows, one day we may start driving north and see where we end up! I know you will miss him, but at least you had a lifetime with him - the rest of us only know him through your awesome obituary. Once again thank you and my extreme condolences.
Bennie Sprouse
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Toddi Norum posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I heard about your Dad on Weekend Edition on WGBH this morning...and cracked up about his methods for finding the pit a home. The world will miss your Dad. Thanks for sharing.
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Lisa Ann posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Thank you for writing this, while I didn’t know your Joe, I do know a few Joe’s like him. And it especially reminded me of my Grandpa. May all of your hilarious and embarrassing memories bring you years of laughter and love!
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Barbara Kyllonen posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
This was wonderful. I cried thru Joseph obituary. He could sounded so much like my mother who had saved crazy items that normal people just would not have saved. But her need to think she might need them later in life had my sister and I stumped. We can laugh now but at the time we shook our heads and wondered what was she thinking. If I did not leave in Maine I would come and tell all my stories as I truly believe not everyone others do not understand unless they lived it. Thank you for sharing. You all are amazing family. Know he is one happy man. Rest In Peace . TrFDR
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Christine Coyle posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I had the occasion to meet Joe a few times in his role as Dawg Ketcher. Some how I managed to pickup runaway dogs in Canfield woods while jogging. I would bring them home with me and give Joe a call. He would pull up the driveway and take one look at the dog and say "you again" I can't tell you how his car looked. Anyone wanting to get in the passenger seat would have to get a hefty bag to clear some of his treasures away to make space first. He was so kind to the dogs and I was always happy with the thought that he would take good care of them.
Thank you Joe!
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Rita Eveland posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
God bless you all! I know he enjoyed this obituary as much as you did writing it. He lived, boy did he! Tears and laughter are the best memorials.
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Susan Pietz posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
We definitely need more Joes in our world. Thank you for sharing him.
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Robin Bush posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
RIP> This wonderful man sounds like he was quite the funny man. God bless his family and I assume they must have some grand memories of him and his antics. What a sweet obituary, I had to giggle.
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John Bailey posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Never met him, or any of you for that matter, but he sounded like my kind of guy! I wore my least appropriate t-shirt for the majority of the day on Thursday in honor of Joseph. Sincerest condolences but cheers to a life well lived!
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Gary Howie posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
He sounded like a hell of a man. I wished that I had known him. You have my condolences.
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Maggie Williams posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
It is 3.36 MST and I am awake in the desert in the southwest readung your father's obit and laughing out loud at his antics. He must have been a most wonderful man - I hope at least one of his grandchildren will inherit his mischievous spirit and love of family and community. My condolences to your family.
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Mark Allnutt posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Your father sounds like a great man who never took life too seriously, but rather he enjoyed life the way that we all should enjoy life. Life is just too short to not enjoy every minute that we have with family & friends on this earth. I wish I could have met your father because he sounds like a man that I would have enjoyed immensely as a friend! I loved your tribute to your father that your family expressed in his obituary, and I am certain that he is looking down from heaven with a huge smile on his face. God bless your family, and may God ease the pain of your loss by maintaining all of the great memories that you have of your father!
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Mary S posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
First, condolences on the loss of your father. Although I never met him, by this memorial, he sounds like he was well loved and will be missed. Second, Oh, my goodness! You did him proud! My dad always said, "When someone passes and you think of them, bells ring in Heaven and they know. I will think of this memorial and laugh often. Your mom is going to be pissed that it's so noisy up there!
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ERIC J JOINER posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
I didnt know Mr. Heller, but this epitaph is fucking epic and thank you for a glorious rememberance for a man I am sorry I never met.
Sounds like a life well lived. And thats all we can ask.
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Another Prankster posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Condolences to Joes family! You have honored him well!
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Margaux Shaw posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
The best obituary ever! Your love and humor are evident throughout and remind me somewhat of my father, who had a wicked sense of humor... Thank you for sharing this wonderful description of your dad; it's one I will always remember... One can imagine how he will have Heaven in absolute stitches :-)
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Glendell Roberson BM3 posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Fair winds and following seas, shipmate! We have the watch.
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Tommy Clark posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2019
Kind of a rough day in Texas today. You brought laughter to my study and a scolding from my wife's bedroom from my awakening her. Good Job!
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Bill and Tammy Hunt posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
May God be with your family in your loss. We didn't know Joe, but he reminds us a lot of the guys we know and love in the Korean War Ex-POW Association (Tammy's stepfather was an ex-POW) and some of the hijinks they pulled at the conventions we attended. It's always better to laugh than cry, unless you're crying because you're laughing so hard. Peace, love, and Godspeed Joe.
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Brook Jensen posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a wonderful tribute to your father. He must have been a pretty amazing man, husband, and father. My thoughts are with your family. ❤
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Linda posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My deepest condolences to all of you. I didn't know Joe but he sounds like an awesome person. Love his outlook on life!
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Debbie B posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Saw this obituary on Facebook. I don't know you or your father but many blessings on you all as he left you with the priceless gifts of senses of humor. Reminds me of my own father, also a father of 3 daughters and certainly shared many of your daddy's traits. Your dad's kindness, legacy of humor and pranks, and a few items among all of those possessions will carry you through the rest of your days. Praying for you all here in the Midwest. I bet you have been surrounded by love and laughter this week as it should be. May it last forever among you.
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amy v posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I don't know you all or Mr. Heller, but after reading the obituary on facebook just wanted to share my condolences to your family, and tell you that was literally the best obituary I have ever read, he sounds like an amazing man, and I'm sure he is already making mischief in Heaven!! God Bless your family! -signed still chuckling in Ohio.
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Richard Horan posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Brilliant. The most admirable of all qualities: the inability to take oneself seriously.
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Stephanie Richer posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn’t know your Dad, I only read his obituary. But from it it is clear that the world was made better because he was in it. I hope he’s met my Dad in the afterlife because any celestial get together with guys like that will be lit AF.
God bless!
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Katie Bolton posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Girls,
I did not know your Daddy but he sounds like an awesome guy. Kudos to a wonderful obit.
I can hope my kids will measure up to this kind descriptive, creative, and most excellent writing style. Unlike your Daddy, I have asked to be cremated and packed into fireworks, so that I can go out with a bang!
In all seriousness, I’m very sorry your loss. Your Dad sounds like he was an amazing man who made life so much fun. My prayers are with you all and your family. ❤️
All the Best,
Katie Bolton
Birmingham, AL
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Janet Bravo posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Sounds like quite a character that would I would have enjoyed being around and stirring the sh!t. Rest in Peace.....hope you didn't get into too much trouble at those Pearly Gates! I bet Saint Finger was shaking his Peter at you!
Great Obit.
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Gary Lewis posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Although I did not have the opportunity in life to personally meet Joe, I feel I have known him my entire life. I have met several Mr. Hellers over the course of my life and was happy I did.
Always found a way of putting cheer in your heart and a smile on your face no matter how rude we thought it was.
I can understand and appreciate Joe from reading the short story of his life and accomplishments, he was one of the greats. I can only hope that when my times arrives, I am as well remembered and loved as Joe.
God Bless you Joe, I know your up there with the greatest of the pranksters. Just waiting for your next unsuspecting victim of your great sense of humor.
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Steve Freshour posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Sounds like a great guy! Enjoy the memories...
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Rosedontknows posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Oh Jack...I will miss you so much, like when we went on that big boat that smashed into pieces from all those ice cubes in the water. Come back, Jack, come back! :'( :'( :'(
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Kevin posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Never met Joe.. read his obituary. Feel like I know him just from reading the great story. Seems like he was a genuine family man. RIP Joe and Thank You for service
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Evamarie Socha posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My condolences on the passing of your incredible father. You all were blessed to have such a prankster in your life. I read his obituary and thought it was such a fitting tribute. May God love you guys in your time of Sorrow.
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Noneofyourbusiness posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I'm so devastated to hear of this loss...this world will never replace him, ever. I even tried sending some funds, but they were returned to sender.
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Julie posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't know him, or you, but I read the obituary on Upworthy, and he sounds like my kind of guy! God bless you all in your tears and laughter as you remember him. And just think of how funny it is that Heaven got an imp this week!
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Fellow sailor posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Fair winds and following seas JOE. May you prank others in your next life.
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Gunther posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
May the talents and abilities of this wise loving man pass on to his many generations because the remembrances will surely be followed with smiles . Judo to all those that participated in writing his obituary
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Amy Stacy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Dear Family of Joe. My saddest regrets that I was not blessed with meeting your father. What an outstanding tribute to a "colorful man." Facebook is an interesting social setting where grief and laughter can be shared. I laughed till I cried. God Bless Joe.
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Ava posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I did not know your dad but reading this I wish I had. You did an amazing job of articulating who your dad was with a lot of color. I just wish I could have been there wearing my most inappropriate t-shirt.
So sorry for your loss. Losing a dad is so heartbreaking. They are not replaceable. You have many happy memories to cherish.
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Sharon Basso posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I am very sorry for your loss. I did not know your Dad, but after belly laughing (I hope that is not rude!) at his obituary, I realize how much I have missed because of that. May you continue to bring forth joyous and hilarious stories of what was a remarkable man.
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Amy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
May the humor that he obviously instilled in you carry you through the times you will find you mourning his presence. He sounds like a crusty old coot that had a zest for life.
May God comfort you when the laughter fades.
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Cheryl posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I am sorry for your loss but are thankful you chose to share your father's life with those who did not know him. Through Facebook I happened across the obit and thought, now that is a guy I would have like to have known. Thank you for your service, Joe, it is much appreciated.
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Bob B. posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I feel so much better about myself now that I have read his story. I pray many years of carrying on the wonderful tradition that Mr. Joe perfected. Love and peace to all of you for now and always.
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Sven of the Littkowski posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
A SOLID ROCK IN THE SURF
I never met him or knew him in any way. But based on what I am reading about him, it appears to me that your father was a real, solid, walking rock in the surf of adaptation. A real character person. While most people have had to adapt in many ways, he was strong enough to be fully his own person, he was able to live his life to the fullest. A strong character. In a good way. It seems to me, he was been one of the truly rare or rarest treasures of the human society. You have all reasons to be very, very proud to have had him as father.
It is clear to me, that now others are focus of his pranks and that he will secure a great place among those, now equipped with a small golden harp and a pair of fluffy white winglets or even more than one pair if he took them from others there. He ensured that he won't be forgotten soon, maybe not even in the next generation to come. Be aware that he might, maybe, still look upon you and wish you well from where he is now. Maybe he would have wanted, you all to be like him sometimes, maybe one week in a year, a special way to show that his family continues his testimony.
From the heart of the Caribbean, my condolences to you all for the truly unique and very big loss.
How special he must have been, that now people from a ll over the world write condolences, me to my bewilderness seeing myself being included in this list. :-)
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N Gates posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Your dad sounds like a real special guy. I know you must miss him terribly. Please accept my condolences.
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Kelli Griffith posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Heartfelt condoldences to your family on the loss of one helluva veteran & community member. I do not know you, but through the modern miracles of social media, I happened upon Mr. Joe's obit. Let me just say with the utmost sincerity, EVERY obit should be this lighthearted, funny, & REAL. God bless you & the memories you have of a fine (if slighty grumpy) individual. The rest of us "real folks" so appreciate your honesty, candor & sense of humor. What a great way to honor a well-loved man! I'm sure you did Joe proud! R.I.P., sir & thank you for your service.
Signed,
Kelli Griffith
Great niece of Sam Griffith, former Navy Seabee.
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Debi Roeckelein posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
So very sorry for your loss. I did not know Joe but, after reading his obit, I wish I had known this wonderful man. He sounds like he lived his life to the fullest. God bless him and your family.
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Margi posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My condolences for your loss, but I get the feeling while you have, and will shed some tears in the days and years to come, they will be replaced by smiles and even belly laughs when you look back on the life this wonderful man lived. God Bless.
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Denise Short posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
First, I would like to pay my respects to the family for their loss. Losing a father, papa, or grandpa is not an easy thing. The pain is never-ending. Secondly, this has to be one of the best obituaries I have ever read. I wish I had the chance to meet this man. It seems he is quite the character. For the surviving children and friends, it seems you will have stories to tell for a lifetime. I think he would like that from what I have read.
Again, my deepest sympathy's to the family.
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Wendy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I’m sorry for the loss of such a hilarious man but it sounds like he trained you well!
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Terri Moncrief posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Don’t know him but based on his obituary I truly missed knowing a unique individual. I know your family will miss him but will have years of memories to share and laugh about....a life well-lived.
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Zenny Smith posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I'm sorry for your loss. I don't know any of you but this is the best obituary ever and a great tribute to your dad! I'm now pissed he's gone and I didn't get to know him. I feel some kind of loss too. He sounds like a very loving dad, awesome citizen that more should be like him.
Whoever wrote this is very talented, creative and hilarious...which means he definitely rubbed off on you! I'm sure he is looking down with much love.
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Katie posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I don’t know Joe, but saw his obituary shared on Facebook and felt compelled to read it. I was laughing with tears in my eyes. Man, I wish I could’ve known him! You were blessed to have such hilarity in your life. Please accept my condolences on his passing; keep his memory alive because laughter is the best medicine! I hope he, Jack, Fart, and lovely and patient wife rest in eternal peace.
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Kerryann posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I never met him but omgosh, I love this man....sounds like he had a great personality with a huge heart... May be forever RIP ♥️
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Patillo Family posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
This is the finest tribute to a man we've ever read. God bless you all.
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Kris Muska posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I only hope my children write as honest and warmly funny obit for me, great job ladies. I bet Dad would be proud! He sounds like he was a colorful and wonderful man, thank you for sharing him with us like this. My sympathies for his passing, may the memories you hold warm your hearts. God's blessing!
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Terri posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My deepest sympathy to Joe’s family. I did not know Joe but he sounds like the life of the party and left a wonderful mark on the world!
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Suzanne Gibbs posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Sounds like he was a hoot.......you were blessed. So sorry he's gone.
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Laura Jones posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I don't know you all, but somehow I got to read your obituary. Whoever wrote this is awesomely creative! Your loved one was very blessed to have such a wonderful family. Godspeed.
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LCDR John Wainwright, USN posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Incredible Obit. Wish I could have met this fine American - especially in Naval service. Sending love to our fallen Shipmate.
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Linda Abbott posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Joe must have been a very unique , loved and well remembered character who left his mark. In life.
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Maura Farrell Miller posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
So sorry for your loss. I wish I had the chance to know him!
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David Bell posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My condolences...
Seeing through his eyes helped me grow my own eyes and 'see' my way in a much more infinite, interesting life.
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Cindy Lamacchia posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My condolences on the loss of your dad ..I don't know him but I'm sure I would have enjoyed it if I had.
Peace and strength to you all.
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Melinda Moore posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Your obit and tribute to your father is awesome! I read it on FaceBook and it as made my day. I am truly sorry for your loss of this gentleman, and based on what you have written about him, deeply regret not having known him in person. RIP, Joe. Obviously you are going to be terribly missed!
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Debi Wagner posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Deepest sympathies on the loss of your father. I never met him, and I don't know you, but I love your family! What a perfect tribute to someone who must have been a really great guy. I lost my Dad this year too, and he was also quite the character. I pray that memories of your Dad always bring a smile to your face, even if they also bring a tear to your eye. It's obvious he will be greatly missed. The only question now is which one of you is going to pick up where he left off?? May God bless you all with peace, and love, and laughter always. <3
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Anita Jagunich posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I have never read a more loving tribute. I laughed until I cried tears of joy. Such memories you and your family will be sharing for years to come. Thank you for sharing your father with the world. We should all be so lucky to be loved as much.
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Rafael Alves posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My condolences to the family. I've read the obituary and it made me think 'it's time to do something with my life' -- what a inspiration. Again, my thoughts and prayers to the family... and wishes of happiness to Joe -- I hope the angels can handle the pranks...
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William Spangler, Wisconsin posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I've read this obituary about 5 times now and laugh out loud each time. It paints such a great picture of a true American character - the likes of which they just aren't making anymore! Even after his death, your dad is making people laugh - what a gift! Thank you and may God bless your father's soul.
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Vicki lund posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I have a smile on my face reading this obit. What a gift he was . I can see it in your words!. A life well lived! Bless you all!
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Michael Jacobs posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Fair Winds & Following Seas. We Have the Watch.
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Denise Clary Williams posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. Your father sounds like a great community Icon. If I lived closeby I would have attended his service just to hear more about his wonderful and happy life as he saw fit. Godspeed to him and God bless to your family.
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Sue Rochester Mn posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
You have reached so many people touching their hearts and making them realize how big their bellies are with the laughter. May God bless and keep your family during this difficult time.
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Joy Gotwalt posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could have known him. I like that he did not take life too seriously. We need more like him! I am happy you had such a great Dad to remember. Sincere best wishes.
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Stephanie Greer posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a wonderful and well written tribute to your father. I don't know you, but sending you my sincerest condolences. I'm sure you will miss him and his wonderful pranks. RIP Joe.
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Tyler posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Having never met Joe, I want to let you know how much I appreciate the love and care you put into making sure that it was impossible for anyone to forget him, and how much you loved him.
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Mary posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Wow. While I never met Joe, or any of you, I feel like I truly know him after that obituary, and he and all of you sound marvelous. My kind of people. Sorry for your loss, sounds like he was definitely a man to be mourned. What a wonderful legacy to leave, with lots of good stories and laughter. God bless you all.
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Doug Cooper posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Thanks for sharing a life time of memories from a man I never met. Should have been several obituary's like this in my family, but they chose to be more formal. Someone needs to write a book on the exploits of Joseph A. Heller, Jr. It would be real knee slapper to read.
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Maggie posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a wonderful tribute! Joe sounds like a magnificent person, the type of person that everyone needs in their life. May Joe RIP and his family find comfort in their time of need.
Lots of love from McAllen, TX
Maggie
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Wishing you peace and comfort. You have memories galore. How blessed, how lucky to have had a a father, friend, and family member like Mr. Heller.
Godspeed, Joseph!!
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Jan Coleman posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I truly enjoyed Joe's obituary, never read anything quite so amusing and LONG. I can see why donations would go to pay for it. What a great celebration of his life. I would love to have met him, we need more people like him in this world. Thank you for making my day...Jan.
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Cindy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I have never met you or your father, however reading his obituary I wish I would have. He sounds like a wonderful down to earth kind of guy (which the worlds needs more of). I am sorry that he is no longer with you. But wanted to say that I loved your tribute to him and I love how you told your mom she has him back in her court LOL God bless you all...
Cindy from Indianapolis, IN
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Nancy K posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
While being very entertaining, this speaks to the love and relationships Joe has fostered with his family and community throughout what, I can only imagine, was an eventful and entertaining life. We should all be so lucky to have a Joe in our lives. Very very sorry for your loss.
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Sherry Hailey posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didnt know the deceased nor any of his family members, however, I felt the need to comment on this...each of you are blessed to have had such a fun loving individual in your life...obviously, this wonderful man lived a great life, yes, seemingly at the expense of others, but oh the multitude of stories and memories that shall abound!! May his legacy live on in future volumes written by each of you. My condolences to you and my thanks to you for sharing this on social media...as a great reminder that we should all enjoy our time on this earth.
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~I did not know your father but sure wish I did!~Without a doubt he sounded like a lot of fun!~I will keep you and yours in my prayers for the days to come~ This is absolutely the most loving and funny obituary I have ever read!~May God Bless you all~
Biloxi, MS
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Melanie posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I don’t know your dad but this was so wonderful. I’m sorry for you loss but thank you for the laugh.
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Yvonne posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Joe sounds like he was one hell of a guy, and it's great to see that his humour lives on in his kids. My deepest condolences to the family. Now if you'll excuse me, I have the sudden urge to holler FART at the top of my lungs
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Jn croix posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Didn’t know your Dad but after reading your tribute wish I had. How blessed you all were. Knowing your memories will keep your Dad close.
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a Guy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Happy thoughts to you and yours as you celebrate Joe.
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Cameron LaFoy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
To The Heller Family,
This is one of the most hilariously touching tributes that I’ve ever read. Although I never knew Joe or any of you, I am sure that this send off is something which he would wholeheartedly approve and appreciate. Love and peace to you all.
Cameron LaFoy
Fayetteville,Ga.
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Wendy Griffin posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I read Mr. Heller's obituary, because of a link from Mike Huckabee. What a wonderful, and hilarious, tribute to a man who would be proud that his humor passed on to his children. RIP Mr. Heller and condolences to those left behind.
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jbonde posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I'm sorry I didn't know Joe, but I thoroughly enjoyed reading his obituary, and imagining what a character he was. I would have loved to have witnessed his antics in person! Maybe some day in heaven, Joe. :-) Thank you to Mike Huckabee for the link! RIP - it's obvious Joe will be missed.
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Susie Smith posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Dear Heller family and friends,
What a wonderfully written obituary for Mr. Heller! He sounds like he was a riot, and a gentle soul. I'm very happy his family had such a witty personality in their lives. This world is far too serious, and it appears he made the best of it with his pranks. I can only hope my family remembers me in this fashion because I try my best to laugh at life! May he RIP.
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Lisa S posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't have honor to know Joe but I sure wish I had. Condolences to the family and much love to a hero of a man. Fly high Joe!
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Che posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Thank you for your service, Joe. May you forever enjoy eternal life with your beloved wife. Don't give her a hard time.
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Andi Monhollen posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't know Joe, I saw this obituary on Facebook, however, I wish I had known him. He seems like an extraordinary person to have grown up with. Those who were lucky to be his family and friends, I'm sure, never had a full moment. What an amazing way to live life!! He sounds like an awesome dad, husband and grandfather. Ready in peace, Joe, I hope that when i get to the great beyond, I have the privilege of meeting you.
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Lottie Camp posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I think I married his identical twin. I really had no idea the Good Lord's sense of humor included creating more than one of your dad - but I can be a living testimony that it can and was done. My prayers to all of you, it's plain to see you loved him very much and I know you will miss him. I also know his memory will live on for generations to come. God Bless you all.
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Debra Crump Shreveport,LA posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
To Joe’s daughters:
This was the best obit I have ever read in my life. Kudos to you all.
Only wish I had known Joe. He sounds wonderfully mischief ! I hope he finds my daddy, Dale Murphy, and they can start a bunch of trouble in Heaven.
I’m so sorry for this loss here on Earth but so happy you all know where your dad is now.
Many prayers and most of all thanks for the mid day smiles and giggles.
Debra M Crump
Shreveport, La
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Georgia Ellen Bolton posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Not a tear in my eyes as I pay my respect to this 'blessed' family'... How could their be? A legacy so unique , This made my day!!! To rejoice in the LORD AND BE GLAD IN IT!
God bless everyone!!!
Thank you Mike Huckabee!!!
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Lisa Setzer posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't know your father, but he sounds like a loving, funny character. My nana would call him a "bird or a pistol". That was her nice southern way of saying he's up to no-good & somebody's going to be laughing. My he have a blast with your mother again.
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Angela Abney posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
This was wonderful. Joe sounds like the men in my family...mainly my grandfather. Best obituary EVER! This is what it is supposed to be like...not sad or depressing! I love Joe and never met him. You girls were very lucky to have him as your dad! You represented Joe very well. I am sure he is proud! I want to print it and put it on my desk at work...very inappropriate...right? And I love Joe's face. :)
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Gia Davis posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I had to remind myself often while reading through your piece that I wasn't reading my own fathers obit. From one daughter of a "knuckle headed, numb-nut sweetheart" to another, sorry for your loss.. and congrats on being the daughters of Joe Heller. My dad is turning 65 next week and this was sweet reminder that the Obit Standard is set pretty damn high and I better start working on my material.
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Joe D’Errico posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I never met the man but after reading that obit, I love him! RIP, Joe! I am going to burn a $20 bill just to rile you up. Rest easy old man.
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Melzora Towne posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I live in a small town in central Kansas, I did not know Joseph at all, never heard of him before today.
A friend of mine posted this obituary, I read it thinking maybe it was someone from our small town that I didn't know very well.
While I am very sorry for your loss, I am glad I saw this as it seems from this obituary he was the kind of person I would have loved to have known but would not have wanted to be invited to dinner at his house. (no laxative cake for me thank you). I know you all are grieving but I hope it helps to know that this story/obituary made someone smile. Which means his life made me smile, and you should smile even more since you actually knew him.
To his family and friends, my sincere condolences.
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Mark Gwynn posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Joe sounds like a great, fun, and well loved man. I live in Utah and never met him, but I wish I had! My wife and I agree that if we lived closer, we would find some "inappropriate" t-shirts and attend his funeral!
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Katrina posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
How blessed you were with what sounds like an amazing father! I never knew him, but reading this made me smile, cry, and be thankful for my blessings! He sounds like he was an awesome guy! I'm sure he will be sending you pranks from above! Rest peacefully Joe. I may not have met you, but thank you for all you were!
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Kristine Russo posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I did not know any of you or your beloved dad. However, this is the best obituary I have ever read. It is filled with so much love that it brought tears to my eyes.
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Amy L Clark posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
After reading your tribute for your father, I sure wish I would have met him!
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James graham posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I did not know your father but happened on his obituary that a friend posted. I know however I would have been good friends with him and you have been blessed immensely to have had him as a father and a friend. My condolences to family and friends. You will miss him.
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Jan Tobey posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
RIP as long as you can everyone, Joe’s on his way!b6iyf
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Heather Leto posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Thank you for sharing your memories of your dad's antics with all of us around the country. He sounds like he was such a treasure! My condolences to your family. God Bless!
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Kerry Trull posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My God, I needed this. Sorry for your loss, but oh, so happy for this jewel of a writing piece.
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Rick posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't know your dad, but after reading this obituary I'm beginning to think he's got to be somewhere in my family tree.
So sorry for your loss, but it sounds like Joe left you with a much greater treasure...these wonderful memories of a man with an attitude worth living.
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Justin Mills posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
This obituary went viral for all the right reasons. I just read the entire piece and I have no doubt that Joe would give you a slow clap when nobody else was clapping. Having just buried my grandmother yesterday, you have no idea how great it is to laugh and almost have coffee coming out my nostrils this morning.
May God comfort you all during this time and protect you from injury unloading his collection of stuff. He obviously felt you needed an extra blessing or two when hr created this life and a man that gave a middle finger to the norm.
This shit was too damn good.
Respectfully,
Justin
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Greg posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I have never met Joe, but after reading his obit it sounds like he was one heck of a man. The fact that I’ve never met him is entirely my loss. May God bless his friends and family, I am truly sorry.
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Jackie Scirica posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Sounds like quite a guy! I’m sure he’s loving that obit. My condolences on the loss of your dad.
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Sue Fiorentini posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I laughed and I cried. How blessed are you to inherit the wonderful sense of humor and love from your Dad ! You made me think of my own Dad and the antics that he pulled. Although we are strangers, I offer my condolences and prayers. Thanks to Mike for sharing this on FB.
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Don Stewart posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Truly the world is a sadder place without this jolly SOB among us. His story is an inspiration, though, to so, so many of us. We'll do what we can to carry on the tradition.
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Heather Smith posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What an amazing obituary. I’m sorry I never met this colorful man. My condolences to those who are sad. Enjoy your long nap, Mr. Heller. You earned it.
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Candace posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Due to my sleep apnea I overslept and was unable to attend Joes eternal nap viewing
My condolences to the family for the hoarding mess you have to clean up.
However I am honored that he served time on the Island of my place of birth .Farewell Thee Well Joe And May your Seas be As calm as your pranks.
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Noelle posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Just read this in Helena, Montana. What a hoot. Sounds like really a helluva man
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Tom Stiefermann posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a great tribute to your Dad. I never met him, but wish I would have.
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Nancy crandall posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I like many others never met Joe... wished I had. Sounds like a guy I'd like to have met. Condolences to his daughters and grandchildren. I know they will miss him and all the laughs he gave the. Best obit I've ever read!
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Brehanna Mahoney posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Washington PA, here. I just read Joe's obituary and I have to say that he definitely reminds me of my Uncle Craig who passed away a year ago today. My heart goes out to the family in this difficult time. Life hasn't returned to normal yet for us after Uncle Craig's passing, but time heals all wounds. Some just heal slower than others. Much love to you and yours.
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Kathy posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I'm from Ohio I just read Joe's obituary. Although I have never met him, in a way, I feel like I just did. What a wonderful legacy - fun, smiles, laughter, memories, stories, and more! I am very sorry for your loss, but hope all of these things help you through this sad time.
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I am so sorry for your loss, but thank you for the joy your memories of your father and your obituary have given to so many people.
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Jon Caples posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Fair winds and following seas! As you slide down the bannister leading to forever may the splinters point the right way.
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Chad P posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
First, I have to say that I have never met Joe, but he sounds like a "character" and a genuinely fun person to be around. I read the obituary that was linked in Facebook - yes, the entire thing - and I have to say, it was long enough that it almost pissed me off, too. Good job! From the sounds of it, his neighbors may feel somewhat relieved, but there are people in heaven that are having to clean their doorsteps now that he's arrived!
Seriously, please let me extend condolences to all of you. He obviously was dear to you all, and for good reason. Cherish the memories!
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Nancy Leathers posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Thank you for this wonderful obituary to your Dad. It started my day off well with laughter and a smile. We just lost our 45 year old son to a pulmonary embolism (he was born with Down Syndrome) and I needed some cheer today. Bless your family. Nancy
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Susan posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Dear Joe,
It sounds like one hell of a life, you did a GREAT job, from the way is sounds your Family wouldn't have change a hair on your head. You left everyone with great memories and wise words. You will be greatly missed by all who knew you.
Family and Friends, so sorry for your loss.
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Bob H posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Your Family was blessed by such a wonderful man,, when I "grow up" I want to be just like Joe!
God Bless,
Bob
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DANIEL BLANKE posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
WOW. Sounds like the type of man I would have enjoyed knowing. Warning, don’t pull the finger. He made life his and invited the world to come along.
My condolences to you all on the loss.
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Sage Sharpe posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
The largest personalities leave the biggest holes in our lives.
I don't know your family, but your father's life as recalled in his obituary is something to behold and you can tell he was well loved... your talents let that shine through. Our family also recently lost two people that had a use for -many- an item, and we're collectively wading through it all. (One of which often said about her collection, "Good luck with it, I'll be dead so it's not my problem" and would -laugh-.)
As a bit of good, and because it feels intrusive to enjoy such a thing without giving back...
I'll be making a small donation to the Seebee Scholarship fund, and also to my local fire department.
Love from Kentucky as y'all find your way forward on your paths.
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April Lukaszka posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My sister shared the same birthday of September 8th and passed away three years from a prescription overdose. She too was a prankster and huge jokester and I’m sure they will meet up and play some pranks together. RIP AUBREY and JOSEPH
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Joyful Pryor posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My deepest sympathy to your family for the loss of Mr. Heller. Clearly the apple did not fall far from the tree as the obituary that was written for this fine man has made the social media rounds for the loving a fun nature of its prose. And that is what brought me here.
I am a total stranger... but I must comment that Joe was surely a kick in the a** and was well loved by this that knew him. I can only hope to be that lucky in my lifetime to love freely, laugh often and live as I choose.
Thanks for sharing Joe with us.
I suppose my deepest condolences extend to all of us on the outside who never got to know this fine man in life but only get to laugh, and love him, through your words. I am putting on my most wild t-shirt and honoring your father on this day.
Excellent Obituary for an Excellent Man. Way to go, Joe!
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Shelley posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Prayers for you all. Sounds like a great guy. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I didn’t know him but feel like I did through his obituary. I’ll remember this for s long time and maybe bring more humor into my life.
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Don Arnold posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Oh my goodness, I truly wish I had me this great man! This was the most amazing obituary I have ever read. Thank you.
My deepest condolences to his family and friends.
The world needs more Joseph Heller Jr's.
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Denise Hewitt posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Having never met Joe, just read his obit on a FB post, I think he’s probably a long lost relative. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends. Life will be a lot quieter and less exciting for all who knew him and isn’t that a great testament to his life.
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Gregg Mcghee posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn’t know Mr. Heller but reading about him makes me wish I had. He sounds like was a really nice, prim and proper guy....My condolences to your family.
Rest well Joe.
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Jim Joyce posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Unfortunately, I neither met nor had the honor of knowing Mr. Heller.
A friend in a Facebook group I belong to posted his obit and I read it with a combination of admiration, joy and; admittedly, tears as it chronicled the life of a man who certainly appears to have had a "life well lived". My deepest, sincerest sympathies and condolences to you all on the passing of what had to be an outstanding and wonderful man, husband, father, grandfather, uncle and friend to all in his circle of life. May you all find comfort in the Lord and his grace.
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David Ferree posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Joe I we never met but I wish we had, I will keep your legacy alive here in PA and I hope that when my time comes no one forgets to embarrass me while enjoying their dinner.
God Bless you sir and Rest easy
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Janet posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I just read your father's obituary, and I am so sorry for your loss. Even during this sad time, it's good to know that he left you with so many wonderful memories. Years from now your father will still be able to make you laugh, or cringe, depending on the memory. We should all be so lucky. God Bless.
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Miss Sarah posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I don't know your family, but I think I love y'all. It sounds like Joe was quite a fella. I am so glad that you had the opportunity to know such a colorful, loving man! God bless you!
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Deb posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Thank you for sharing your father’s colorful life. I am sure he will be missed!
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Trudi R. Monahan posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a tribute!! Sounds like someone I'd like to have known and to his family, great send off!!!! He raised you well!! All the joking aside, you can tell he was a wonderful, fun guy!! RIP Sir!!!
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Laura posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
This Obituary is going Is being spread on Facebook as a very beautiful tribute to a very loved man. My Condolences.....
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Casey King posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Greetings from Athens, GA. I obviously don't know any of you, but I read your story on Yahoo news and I must say that, when it's my time, I hope someone writes something just like this for me. What a great memorial He definitely sounds like the kind of guy I'd have enjoyed being around! Blessings and peace to you all in this time of mourning.
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Barbara Franklin posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Thank you so much. I can't imagine how sad you guys really are, and what a true tribute this is - giving all of us total strangers a true sense of who he was, and who you are, as well. In a world of such horror today, and dealing with family with many illnesses, to remember the humor and love is really what it's all about, isn't it? May his memories burn brightly forever as one of your family legacies.
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Mathew Medved posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
My deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of this remarkable human being. I am from the Pittsburgh area and just read your obituary....
Needless to say, I am jealous to never have had the opportunity to meet such a character lol. I hope that all of you continue to relish the good stories and memories, and I also hope that you will continue to dawn the same sort of mentality that “Grandpa Joe” did: Live Your Life. Its too short. Love and light to you all✌️
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Kelly Catrambone posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
RIP Mr. Heller, you were obviously a fantastic man, husband, father.
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Anonymous. posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a way to honor a man! I loved the obit. My heart goes out to you who have lost. I didn't know Joe, but he sounds like a great guy. RIP, Joe.
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Dianna Easton posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Rest In Peace Bob! I didn’t know you, but you certainly lived a great life! Your daughters did an awesome job of writing your obituary! Growing up with you as their Dad , you’ve taught them laughter! Happiness is the best memory to have of a dear parent! May you continue on with your love Irene!
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Ed Tatum posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I never knew Joe but please accept my condolences for your loss. I'm sorry for the loss of the fish also. Will the fish be a part of the dinner?
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Jay Stout posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I am proud to call Joe a friend for the last 20 years. My sons grew up with Joe at the firehouse and were touched by his sense of humor and love of community.
He will be missed but truly a life well lived.
The Stout Family
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Steve Fleming posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I'm sorry I didn't have a chance to know your father but he seemed like a great guy and very humorous I'm the same way with my kids never a dull moment. May he rest in peace
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Monica Steven posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
It sounds like you were lucky to have such an awesome dad, and he was lucky to have beautiful daughters that have so obviously honoured him and the essence of who he was. I’m so sorry for the loss of your beloved dad and so happy for you that you have such wonderful memories of a man who sounds like the friend we all wish we had in our lives!
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Lesley Ord posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't know your father. In fact, I just read an article about your obituary and had to read it myself. Your father sounds like he was a wonderful soul with a great wit and playful love for life. It sounds like he was very loved and will be greatly missed. May we all be so lucky to have such a zest for life as your father had. My condolences.
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Dianne Larson Ward posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't know Joe but I really wish I had. What a glorious and love filled obituary for a man who obviously was one of a kind...in all the best ways. God bless him and may the memories you all have fill your minds with giggles and love for this wonderful man!
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Teresa LaBelle posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I never knew your dad, but feel I do after reading the most enjoyable obituary I have ever seen. Clearly love and humor resided in your home, as well as a healthy dose of patience! He will never be forgotten!
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You have one heck of a send off.
May his memories of twisted humor forever be mentioned and out did.
Utica, New York
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Vicki posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I'm sad to say I didnt get the pleasure of ever meeting this "gentleman"...but after reading this cleaverly scripted obituary I can honestly say.... "wish I had!!" Glad to hear there is another jolly dude hangin' in Heaven now....perhaps he can meet up with my dad and keep thing lively on that side of "life".
Sorry to your family for your loss.
God Bless you,
Vicki R. In Arizona
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Joanne Worrall posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
What a wonderful send off to a man I wish I had been lucky enough to meet! I can only imagine Sinatra meeting Joe at the Pearly Gates for a duet of “My Way” as they stroll in to catch up with your mom. It would only be fitting. To his family and friends, cherish and share all the stories of this wonderful character. May you find comfort in knowing that death is just a stepping stone to eternal life. And know that those who only met Joe through his daughter’s words, will be hoping for a real meeting in the great beyond. God bless and keep you all!
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Janae' Latsko posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing the Joe that you speak so highly of and I'm so very sorry for your loss. It seems as though he was one hell of a guy, your lives all seem so much better for having him in it. Prayers and my condolences for you all. What wonderful memories you all have.
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Lisa E, posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
Add me to the many who "didn't know Joe." What a great face! What a great life! What a great daughter to write such humorous and endearing things about her dad!
Heartfelt condolences from Boca Raton, Florida.
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Heather from Tennessee posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
This obituary has gone viral for all the right reasons. Joe sounds like an amazing man that I wish I had met. I think he has left his family and friends with wonderful life long memories and awesome stories to tell.
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Laura Billingsley posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
This is one of the best obituaries I've read. I wish I could have known him. My 11 year old and I had a good laugh at the thought of his mother calling for Fart.
My condolences to you all. He had quite the life! ❤
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Kim Mobley posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
As a fellow foul mouthed Sailor, I’d like to wish him fair winds, because I bet he was windy, and following seas, because I wish him smooth sailing. Thank you for such a great tribute, that he went viral on Facebook and might be giggling about becoming a “virus.” My condolences to your family.
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Shane form Alabama posted a condolence
Friday, September 13, 2019
I really enjoyed this while i was at work. This is the send off i hope to get one day. Ive said more then once that i dont want peacher at mine just good friends telling lies. Thank you for brighting my day. May his memory always bring a smile. P.s my first dog was named mutt :)
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Charlie Petrick posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'm sorry to say I never met Joe, he sounds like a helluva man. This obit is among the finest I've seen.
I'm sorry for your loss, prayers of comfort and serenity for all who love him.
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Kelley posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I heard about your Dad and I had to read about him. What memories you have of him! I would expect laughter and jokes tomorrow at his service, I can only imagine! I lost my Dad almost 10 years ago. He was a jokester himself, but it was his mispronunciation of words that made us laugh and make him unforgettable. I've laughed in the middle of a store and restaurant because I overhear something silly being said.
My prayers and condolences to your family. God bless.
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Jenny posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m sad I never got to meet Joe, he sounds a lot like my dad. I’m grateful to know that there are children (who are now adults) who would take the time to write such a wonderful tribute to their father. Sorry for your loss, your dad and mom will be waiting for you to join them when the time is right. Enjoy your memories
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SaraRose posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You don’t know me, but your dad and his antics sounds a lot like mine, they would’ve gotten along greatly. Sending love your way and sorry to your mom that has to put up with his shit again.
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John posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You’re an inspiration to the rest to live life as you damn well please. God speed sir.
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myrna posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
i am sorry never to have met this most interesting person, but i can see clearly how wonderfully his life impacted on his three hysterically funny daughters. may he rest in peace.
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Linda Jones posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing your dad’s life!! He sounds so much like my dad!! I truly hope they meet in heaven!!
Love to you all!!
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Russell Parmelee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joe made a lasting impression on a nineteen-year-old who became acquainted with his unique brand of humor in the mid 60’s. I met him when I landed a position as a Lab Tech at Chesebrough-Pond’s in Clinton, CT and enjoyed all his stories of his time in the Navy as a “SeeBee”. God Speed Joe! A wonderful send-off Monique!
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Elise Terry posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know this man, but God, I wish I had. He sounded wonderful! Thank you for sharing his story with such humor. Sending condolences and hugs to all of you.
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Jackie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I really enjoyed reading your father's obituary. It made me laugh from the beginning to the end. I send my condolences to your family and friends.
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Frank posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like my kinda guy. I’m sure he will be missed by all who knew him.
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Marsha posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a precious memorial. How I wish there were more Joe's in the world. Thank you for sharing him with us.
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Jackie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I just read this to my husband and we both laughed and laughed. Oh how I wish we would have known him. This has been shared all the way in Alabama.
God bless!
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Janie Wann posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like a wonderful character. Wish I could have known him. My condolences to your family. I know he will be missed. May God bless you.
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Archie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Great obit! It's being shared everywhere! Thank you from Mattoon, Illinois.
Oh, and my condolences.
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Espy Aceves posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a wonderful read. Almost wish I was offended by your pop at least once, LOL. I wish you all so much unexpected, Grandpa influenced, rukus by your children in the future. Many blessings to all.
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Arlene Smith posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I would have loved to have met your father he sounds like my kind of guy say it like is I’m sure your childhood was very interesting. I am so sorry for your loss
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Debra Blouin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I will echo others, I wish I knew him! Quite a character! Reminds me of my Pepere! My condolences to the family and friends. Have a wonderful celebration of life.
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Ken Priggemeier LICS(SW) USN(Ret) posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Fair winds and following seas Shipmate.
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HeatherStarr posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don’t know your family and I’m sorry for your loss.
If his life was anything like this obituary-
It sounded fascinating and wonderful!
I hope someone would write me an obituary like this but I don’t think I could name my pets ‘Fart’ , or ‘Asshole’. -I can definitely relate to both of those things.
Again I’m sorry for your loss.
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Anissa C posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wonderful, brillant tribute! The best! Many blessings to your family!!!
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Denise posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
As odd as this may seem. ... I do not know your father or your family. Someone shared Joe’s obituary on FB and commented it was a good read..., I found it odd that someone would refer to an obituary as a “good read”, but it did not stop me from reading on. They were right... the obituary left us that didn’t know your father, wishing we had. I am truly sorry for your loss. May you all find comfort in your memories and in each other.
Denise
East Liverpool, OH
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Amanda T posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Beautiful tribute to your father. HILARIOUS and well-written. Condolences to your family.
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Marnee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know this man but his obituary made me feel like I did. I would have loved to have known him. I would have loved to pay my respects to a man who had no skcuf to give. But my gotdam job always gets in the way of doing things I’d like to do. May his memory be eternal and may you find homes for all those dead potted plants. If you would like, you can send one to me. I’m not a very good caretaker for plants either. RIP Mr. Heller, you sound like you were the life of the party and I know you’re doing the same right now, wherever you may be. To his family, I send my condolences.
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Danna posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My sincere sympathies to your family.What an awesome tribute to your father.may you keep his memory alive in the years to come.God Bless!!
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Rita Durfee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is the best obituary ever written. It is an amazing tribute to a man who seemed like he lived a full life. Thank you for sharing this. I am so sorry for the family's loss. Sending prayers and loving thoughts, Will and Rita Durfee
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David Pfanders posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Now that's what I call celebrating his life. Great job! My condolences. Your dad definitely deserves more media attention then a dead reality TV star and I believe that's what he got! Thanks for sharing it.
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Ellen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe, nor did I knowingly come into contact with him, but I too spent my formative years watching Archie Bunker and Benny Hill.... and Monty Python, so I am of the same ilk with my like minded husband as the inappropriate t-shirt wearer. May he shake things up beyond the pearly gates in anticipation of the rest of us "sick" folks.
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Jo Ann posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'm sorry for the loss of your father/grandfather/brother/friend. I wish I had known him and your family. In fact, if services were nearer to me (in Tennessee), I would crash the celebration of life. Somehow that seems appropriate. How fortunate you were to have such a colorful person in your lives.
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Mary Joyce Quagliano posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for the great read I only wish I could have met him! I'm so sorry for your loss he sounded like one hell of a guy I'm sure he will be missed.
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Donna posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Didn’t know your dad but he sounds like a great guy to have around. May the many wonderful memories comfort you in the days to come.
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Debra Bryant posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am sorry for the loss of your loved one. I hope he will seek out my Dad when the time comes. I am a sarcastic bitch because of humerous pranks and jokes he has played on me but I wouldn't trade it for anything.
The wonderful memories you have. RIP Mr. Hellar.
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Timothy Fascendini posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m not sure if I feel worse for you or your mom, I didn’t know him, but if he makes half as much trouble in Heaven even the angels might learn to laugh. My best wishes to you and yours.
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Michelle posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know your father, by by God I wish I did. He sounds like a character and well loved. My prayers for you and your family. May he aggravate your mother in the most loving way now.
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Angel posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I just happened upon this tribute on Facebook and I am so pleased that I did. Your father seems like a complete delight. I pray that your family revels in your lifetime of memories. May God bless you all.
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Elizabeth Turner posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
While I never had the pleasure of meeting Joe or his family, I would have really liked him. I’m sure this tribute is shared with tears amidst the laughter. What a wonderful remembrance of someone who sounds like he was quite a guy. Thanks for sharing him with this stranger who offers condolences and well wishes from Canada.
Elizabeth Turner
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Carolyn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I feel like I know your father after reading his obituary. Although I never met him, I truly wish I had. Thank you for making me laugh, and bringing me to tears. I too am dealing with the failing health of my Dad. I will give him the biggest hug and kiss today...in honor and memory of your Dad. And thank you for your Dad’s service to our country! God Bless.
Carolyn Weir
Massachusetts
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Jason Wilson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences, I never met your Dad, but the story of his life brought me joy. God Bless!
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Michelle posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
First I want to say... I’m sorry for your loss
I do not know any of you or your father... BUT....I throughly enjoyed your tribute to him! My he Rest In Peace and you cherish his memory
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Mary Ann Siri posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To the family of Joseph A. Heller, Jr.: You've lost a wonderful man. I'm sure he would be so proud of you all. What a great way to memorialize him. I hope you never lose your collective sense of humor!
My sincerest condolences to you on the loss of this treasure.
Mary Ann Siri
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Jean vaira posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You will miss your Dad for sure, but his stories will warm your hearts and laughter will heal your sadness . God welcomes all those who can view life with laughter and love, and Stinkers! God bless you all. Rest In Peace Joe.
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Sandra Green posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I have no idea who this man is but your touching tribute has made me laugh all the way from Mobile, AL. Your dad reminds me of my dad and all of his crazy things he has done or still will do to us and our mom. Thank you for sharing his life with all of Facebook!!
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Joseph Santucci posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Never knew Joseph but he sounds like one Heller of a guy!
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David C. Stouffer posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like a character I would have been proud to call friend. we got the watch now Brother BEE, give Christ a good chuckle and warm him up for the rest of us sorry Seabees!
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Rick posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing some of your father with me. Love his style. A lifetime of memories. Our society definitely needs more like him. Hope my kids honor me at my passing from this life as you did your father. Well done.
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Noreen Ahern posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My sincere condolences to all of Joe’s family, but I must say that your lives are going to be dull without him.
If my dad hadn’t passed away twenty years ago, I would have thought for sure this was his obituary. He, too, was quite a character. He would have appeared at your dad’s service in his T-shirt imprinted with a seat belt, so he could fool the police into thinking he really had one on.
He enjoyed taking his Old English Sheepdog, Hairy, for a run while Hairy ran along side my dad’s car on his leash. Dad could usually be seen riding his motorcycle sporting a cowboy hat and a cigar.
Generally, he was quite an embarrassment to me, but now that I am 74 y/o I miss him terribly.
Thank you for the wonderful obituary, you have given me a good laugh and brought back my dad Joe Mathew for s few minutes.
God bless, Joe and all of his family.
Noreen Ahern
The Villages, FL
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Mary Cimini posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A wonderful tribute, beautifully written and so much fun to read. Thank you for making my day and my thoughts are with you.
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Tracy Wilder Garmon posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I wish I had known Joe. He sounds like my kinda guy!
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Joseph D'Aniello posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Best obituary I have ever read. My condolences nonetheless.
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Gail posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
If more people were like your dad, or knew someone like him, this world would be a better, happier place. I’m very, very sorry for your loss, don’t get me wrong. But thanks for sharing him.
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Martha posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Didn’t know your Dad, but wish I had a chance to! Spectacular tribute the rest of us could only hope to have written for us when we go. Many condolences and you did Dad proud!
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Mariann Mota posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is the best obituary ever written! I am sorry for your loss but actually even more regretful that I never had the chance to know Joe. He seems like the kind of man I would’ve cherished, as well. Hopefully with the sharing of this obituary (it has actually been sent to me twice from two different social media platforms) many will get to know....just a bit.... as he makes his way to the other side. Godspeed, Joe!
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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What a wonderful family you all have. Your daddy sounds like he was an amazing man. The obit is the best thing I have read in years. The fun and how much love Papa Joe shared is something we should all strive to do!
So sorry for your loss and I hope you mama is dancing with her hubby now.
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Connell Family posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Here's some more attention I'm sure your dad would have loathed. What a guy. Our condolences from Rhode Island. May you find comfort and joy from those around you.
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Tammy Wahpeconiah posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your dad sounds like my kind of guy. How lucky to have someone like him in your life! The world will be a poorer place without him. I wish him Godspeed and my condolences to your mom ; )
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Robert and Kathy posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wonderful Obituary for your Dad!!! He was an Aquarius and that is how we roll!!! Everything he did was original and from the heart!!! Even the cussing!!! You see, this man saw thru everyone and everything!!! It's the way they are wired, ahead of the times!!! The stories you must have could file a volume so think you'd need weeks to read them all, thanks for the wonderful Obit, so neat to read about a guy that many would have loved to known!!! We will all meet him one day!!! God Bless the Family mostly Joe and Jack!!! Condolences, robert and kathy
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Ron Nutter posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry I cannot be there Thursday; Joe sounds like my kind of guy. May you be blessed during your time of loss.
Ron Nutter
Brasstown, NC
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Lisa Smith, Charlotte NC posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So believe it or not, this is my 2nd post to your fathers obituary. I shared it earlier on my FB page because I love it soooo much. All of my friends have been talking about it at our favorite dive bar / hang out. And we want you to know,...if you ever make it to Charlotte, PLEASE come to the Comet Grill because we have to hear more stories about your precious father.
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Brian Hoskins posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences to your family on your loss. I read the entire obituary and he sounds like a very nice, loving and funny man. I wish I could have met him.
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ken posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know your father. But from the heart felt and clever obituary you authored, he sounds like the salt-of-the-earth. We sure need more like him--the world would be a better place.
My condolences.
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Gail Jones posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This brought tears to my eyes. I was giggling and tearing up at the same time. I loved the many stories that were told about your father. I never read an obituary like this one. Bittersweet. It was so much fun to read! You have so many memories to cherish!
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Tia posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your father was obviously an amazing man, may he rest in peace
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Donna Parker posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
How I wish I knew Joe and family!! I know losing him is hard, but you obviously have many good memories to comfort yourselves now and later. Much love to you all from those of us in the universe who read that beautiful obituary.
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David Krug posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I wish I could have known Joe! Seems like he was a dubiously terrific man! My condolences to the family.
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Condolences from Toronto, Ontario, Canada
That is the Best Obit i've ever seen! Your father is a man I would have liked to have met so Thank you for sharing his life with us.
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Kevin K posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know your dad, but he'd be glad we know him now in NC after your obituary went viral.
I regret myself or my inappropriate t-shirt will not be able to be late to his service tonight. That is regrettable.
Since it is still going on at 6:40pm ET, know that people such as myself all over the country are mourning his passing and drinking a pint this evening in your dad's honor. Hoping that helps you that you carried his spirit on in what you wrote. I know without a doubt he'd be proud as I am sure he was able to tell you.
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Theresa W. Carey posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is such a lovely tribute to a man I also wish I had met.
My own father passed away three years ago today, and I wrote two versions of his obituary. The real one, approved by my stepmother, was published in a few places (here is one: https://uclabruins.com/news/2016/9/15/bruin-football-record-setter-bob-wilkinson-passes-away.aspx), but the funny one was seen only by my siblings and a few friends. My dad would have enjoyed joking around with your dad, so here's hope that their kindred spirits are somewhere in the universe enjoying a beverage together now.
My condolences to your family on this incredible loss. May your fond memories of him keep him in your heart.
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Deb Gempeler posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe but after reading his obituary I sure wish I had. Your family rocks! This is, by far, the best obituary I have ever read.
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Graham F. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know your father, and I've never met any members of his family. Since the obituary has gone viral (lovely tribute, by the way!) I'll just say this:
Anyone who can unabashedly name a dog 'Fart' or 'A**hole' is someone I'd gladly share a pint with.
My condolences on your loss.
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Laura Robergr posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never met your father but he seems like someone I would have enjoyed knowing. Your memories of him which you generously shared with the world are how every parent hopes their children remember them. Thank you for sharing him with us!
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Kelly Nicholson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I sadly did not know Joe. His obit went viral which is how I came to read it. A beautiful send off. Everyone needs a Joe in their family and circle of friends. Be like Joe!
My heartfelt condolences to your family.
Kelly
Halifax, Nova Scotia
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Denise Fortier posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an incredible story about an incredible man. I loved reading this obituary and wished I had known this man. Such fun. Laughter...mixed with just a bit of "fear", fear in being the recipient of one of Joe's practical jokes? I am so sorry for your loss. My Mom passed away a year ago this September. Exactly a year after my Dad. I know the heartache of losing a dear parent. But what a wonderful life Joseph A. Heller had! His obituary was a great tribute. Most Sincerely, Denise
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Doreen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
It was really nice to read his obituary. Not to often we can say that . It reminded me of my brother (bless him.) . My condolence to the families. RIP
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Debi Kimble posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
After reading your father's obituary I really wish I could have met him. I'm sure he's not only looking down proudly at you but maybe even rubbing it in to whoever will listen that at least a small part of his antics rubbed off on his three wonderful girls. Thank you for sharing a part of your father with the rest of the world.
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Cody Plate posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
While I know there is sadness, this is how I want my family to remember me. I now feel the need to step up my game. Sorry for your loss, but I'm so glad you shared his awesome memories with us all, this was great. RIP Joe, Much love from Youngstown, Ohio.
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Helen Sutton Ost posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I really enjoyed reading Joe's lengthy obit which showed up in one of my Facebook genealogy groups. I think I would have enjoyed knowing him, if I had had the chance. I can only hope my kids will be as creative when the time comes. They have already been instructed to hold a party, but since they never did mind, they did that last November when I turned 80. Old photos and all. I'm glad Joe has been properly appreciated. It sounds like you all have lots of memories to help you cope with this loss. Thank you so much for sharing.
Helen Sutton in Akron, Ohio
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Dianne Sutherland posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Did not know your father but wish I did. He must have been something else while all of you were growing up. Would love to claim him as a friend. You were blessed to have him in your life as long as you did.
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Margaret Finn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry for the loss of your dad, brother, grandfather and friend. Though I did not know him he sounds like he was an amazing person who left a great legacy!
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Kimberly Furness posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad, he seemed to be a great man. You all did a wonderful job writing this. I'm sure he is laughing his A$! of right now. I love people with a great sense of humor and kinda quaky
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Thank you for sharing the memory of your father. He sounds so much like how my Dad was. I hope they have a chance to meet there, and that they don’t cause too much trouble if they do. ;-) My thoughts are with you all.
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Sheri Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You make me wish I’d known him and almost that I do! What a character, and what a clever, loving legacy he leaves. This man raised you right for you to have created such a wonderful tribute! Thank you for sharing your father with us.
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Jackie McNichol aka total stranger posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Just had to say, fabulous obit and even a better life. What a great guy. I didn't even know him but his life makes me want to be a better person
thanks for that
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Don Caisley, Shorewood, IL posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a grand and glorious obituary! I have never met your dad, but he sounds like one of best, most down-to-earth people you could hope to encounter in life. Thanks so much for sharing the story of his wonderful life! I only wish I had had the pleasure of knowing him.
DC
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Diane Barrett posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
We all should be as well-loved as Joe. Thank you for sharing your father's wonderful life. My deepest condolences.
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Albert L Graves posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but from what I heard about him on my news this afternoon, I would have loved to have met him. His obituary made me smile as well as the news story. Too bad the world doesn't have more "Joe's" in it. Lord knows we need it. Rest in peace Joe, keep them laughing up there!
Albert Graves
Crozet, Virginia
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Norman Mathieu posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never met your father but after reading this I wish I had. You have many hilarious memories of him that will last a life-time, so you may not have really lost him after all. My condolences to all of you. Norman M. Waterville, Maine
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Darian Keezer posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry for your loss, as I also have never met your father I feel like we have all lost a little something special with you. I can just imagine the laughs and smiles over the years.
Thank you for sharing part of your father with us that never had the chance to meet him.
Bless you and yours.
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Duncan Brown posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I would have loved to met your Dad. Thanks so much for sharing this with us morals. He was a truly blessed gentleman!
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Lance Braun posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I could only dream of having such a wonderful tribute written about my life. Had we met, we would’ve been best of friends. My deepest condolences for your family’s loss as well the community’s. Here’s to a life well-lived. R.I.P., and Godspeed, Joe. You’ll have a whole new “community” to torture with your pranks - and from what I understand, the Mayor is a pretty forgiving guy.
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Kate N posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. While I never met your father, I really wish I had as it sounds like he was a g.d. fireworks show of a human being. St. Peter may have to spend a bit of time going through your father's extensive HR file, but in the end Heaven will undoubtedly gain an angel who will still find a way to raise a little Hell. My best to your family.
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Ralph Gates III posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Again I never met your father, Would have loved to meet him just to say hello and thank you, you see I am a black man, and the times were different in 1940 - 1980s, so racism ruled, but your dad as a human being shall be rewarded, I hate the fact that due to racism so many people of different backgrounds never got to no one another. I can only hope my 2 girls are as special as your dad raised you 3 take care
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LYNDA GREENE posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry for your great loss. A man we all wish we knew.. One of the great colors of life.
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Peter Haslock posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not have the pleasure of meeting with Joe but this "story" of his life has left me feeling as though I did. He looks mischevious in his portrait and I know that I would have enjoyed his company very much.
The stories inside the story are humorous and could only have been written by those who cared very much for him. He leaves a hole in all of your lives but I suspect that starting today, when he is thought of, you are more likely to smile as opposed to shedding tears. I think he would have liked it that way. Adios amigo. Vaya con dios.
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Patti Carlo posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know your Dad, but so wish I did! This was the most outstanding memorial I’ve ever read. Wow! He was loved and you were so lucky to have him, flaws and all! You are all in my prayers. What an awesome family you all are.
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Danielle Herie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Didn't know Joe, but wished I had. May all of your rich memories of him warm your hearts when things get too sad.
Thank you for sharing Joe with the world in such an amazing way.
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Mindy Ellis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is a beautiful tribute to what seems to have been one hell of a guy. Rest in peace Joe.
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Cheryl posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Obviously don't know Joe or your family, but would have loved to. Keep "stirring the pot in heaven Joe". My deepest sympathies to the family
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Karen from Morro Bay CA posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a fabulous remembrance and description of Mr. Heller! He surely was a special guy to earn such a memorable and uplifting send-off. Thank you for sharing your memories, and all the best to you all.
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Honey T. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don't know Joe but he sounds like a hell of a guy.God speed Joe
The obit made me laugh out loud.Oh sorry for your loss lucky people who had such an awesome dad,husband,grandfather and friend.
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Norma Miller Leonardi posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing your father with the world. Sounds like Joe and my father, Norm, could have been great friends. Who knows maybe they will meet on the other side!
I am truly sorry for your loss, grateful you have a lifetime of stories and memories!
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Angel L. Olivieri posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My hat’s off to a truly remarkable man. I salute you, Joe.
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Mike Garrison posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Attaboy Joe!!! I'm sorry I didn't know you! Hang in there, Joe's family, very sorry for your loss. Better days ahead.
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India posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sending condolences from my family to yours! His obituary was AWESOME!! From how he was painted to be I think he LOVED the tribute.
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Dana sams posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Hello, special family members! I, too, had a daddy a lot like your father. Much to our chagrin, he pulled every prank or trick on ANYONE. Preachers, nuns, priests, neighbors, hunting buddies, and his family. There were times I truly thought my mama deserved better treatment. Alas, she thought so as well! Why they stayed together continued to amaze all of us, including Mama.
Our dad was a Depression child and joined the Navy as fast as he could. Clearly, he was comfortable using creative, colorful, language at the dadgum top of his lungs. He never mastered whispering...especially in church. A superior shot, huntsman, and dog man, we chose to bury his cremains inside a Remington (shotgun) shell bag in our family’s cemetery 6 years ago. When Mama was dying, she told us she was ready to be with our father. Whaaaaat was SHE thinking?
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Barbara Johndon posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your father is the kind of father I wish I had. He sounds like a lot of fun. Although I'm sure all of you will miss him greatly, you have the assurance that he's with his beloved wife again and keeping the angels on their toes.
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Trasie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Didn't know the man until now. What a colorful person, and what a lucky family! Fair winds, and Following Seas, Seabee!
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Paul Stevenson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for your service Joe. And thank you for the great obt.
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Miguel Mendoza posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A life well lived! I'm sorry for your loss.
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Loren Roseman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never knew or met Joe or any of his kin. Nonetheless, to them I offer my most sincere condolences on their loss. I did read Joe’s obituary. I’ve cant remember ever giggling out loud while reading one. This was a first. As close as I can reckon, there are 3 ways to go through life- be indifferent, cry or laugh. I’ve chosen laughter. From this obituary, it seems Joe and his family had a very similar philosophy. If I could attend Joe’s memorial service, I have the perfect t-shirt. It has a happy picture of Mickey Mouse over which in big bold letters is the phrase “Everything’s F_ cked”. Again my condolences on your loss. Joe sounds like my kind of guy.
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Jeanne Martel posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
First and formost, my deepest condolences to you all and your families and friends of Joe.
I never met or knew him, or your family, but I wanted to say from what I am reading he was (is) a wonderful man! What luck and blessings that God chose all of you to be in his life! I hope I get to meet him in our hereafter!! May God bless you all in I am sure must be a very hard time for you all.
With Love,
Jeanne
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Michelle Donato posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for this wonderful memory about your dad.
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Chris M posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'm sorry for the loss of your father. Thank you for sharing this with everyone, it's a great tribute to a man who lived his life to the fullest - enjoying his life time and sharing it with others. I didn't have the pleasure of meeting him, but after reading this, I feel like I did.
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Dave posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I was going to offer my condolences. But, I need a nap instead.
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Rusty Mckeever posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your father. A wonderful and funny man,I would have loved to have met him.
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Joseph A Toubes posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
People like him only come around now and then. I am certain the thunder I am hearing now is Joe placing a whoopee cushion under St.Peter.
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James Copeland posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know Joe, but I hope my family post something similar when it is my time to go, which seems like it is getting closer even as I type this. I hope you find comfort during this time of loss. God bless and Godspeed to Joe, and maybe condolences should go to your mom as you mentioned it’s all on her now.
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Touched in MD posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Hello Heller Family,
My sincerest condolences on your loss, and my heartiest congratulations on the wonderful gift of your father and his terrific sense of humor and outlook on life. He clearly communicated it successfully to you, his daughters, and to everyone else he encountered in his long life. Your unique expression of remembrance brightened the day for many of us who have also lost our parents and the many "characters" in our lives.
Thank you for these moments evoking a real "character". It made me think of my own father, a character who could populate his own sit com -- and a few spin offs!
You are in my prayers.
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Beth Curry posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is so going viral, if it hasn’t already. I’m not sure how my sister found this, but she sent it to all the siblings saying that we should have done this kind of obit for our family. What a loved man he was and it shows with the truthfulness written. It makes me wish I would have known him. I’m deeply sorry for your loss.
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ePb posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like he was one hell of a guy and has obviously left a grand legacy! Sorry for your loss and sorry to your late Mom for getting him back!
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Gary P & Heidi S. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You girls just found new careers in the upcoming field of "candid-obits.com". Very Sorry for your loss.
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Richard Jones posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joe. Rest well. Your daughters seem awesome. I laughed and teared up. Cheers.
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Allen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was the life of life and a party in the midst of it.
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Debra posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I obviously didn’t know your dad, but he sounds like a great guy who lived life with gusto. It also sounds like you loved him very much. May he Rest In Peace.
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Maria posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a wonderful obituary. Grampa Joe sounds like a wonderful man and reminds me of my own grandpa. My condolences to you all and I hope you all can share some wonderful memories of his life.
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Jill Tucker posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a joy it was to read Joseph's obituary. I never knew him, but after reading about him, I know just how special he was. Those of you who loved him, were lucky to have such a great guy to love and be loved by, and I know you will miss his antics. God bless you all, as you say goodbye to this unique man...83Grd
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Washington, D.C. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Heller Family,
What a epic way to send out a legend. No lie, I've shared this with my colleagues and we're all having a good laugh at this because we all see snippits of our fathers in Joe. Their generation is one of pre-boomers (30's-45) and really grew up in the worst of times only to enjoy the best of times. Having that kind of childhood teaches one to use humor in a manner of ways, including as a means of bonding and friendship. Thanks for sharing your pops and reminding everyone about theirs. And for those of us who's pops is still around, make sure you give em a call. I know a lot of people on my team will be doing just that tonight.
With Sincere Condolences,
A D.C. office
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Joe Gliner posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your father sounds like a wonderful man. What a well written tribute! I'm sure he's looking down on you delighted with the send off. Very sorry about your dad. From Joe in Highland Park, IL
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John Holden posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What incredible children emerge from this note. Joe must have been incredible, his kids sure are.
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Scott Kleiman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know your father, quite obviously, since I never met him, I haven’t been to Essex and, quite frankly, am not sure where it is. Nonetheless, he sounds miserably like my father, who died last year. The stories of his lifelong mission of pranks and mischief—— Ex Lax chocolate chip cookies for example — resonated in this obituary. I’m sure that your dad and mine found each other up there and are wreaking havoc on all, and making our mothers miserable. Sorry (???) for your loss.
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Barb B. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don't know your Dad or family, but this wonderful, loving tribute to him made me smile. Blessings to your family. From, Barb in Wesley Chapel, FL.
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Zorn B Taylor posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing this Obit. Your comments depict a beautiful irreverent human who seemed to have figured out how to live life on his own terms and have fun and spread love while doing it. My condolences to you and your family.
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Debi Arthur posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Saw your fathers obituary on the news. Oh how blessed you were for a remarkable man. You have written so well about him I could call him my Uncle. Great you have so many memories. Bless you all!!
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J M G posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Did not know this fine gentlemen, however, his obituary made me cry. The way I can only hope to be remembered by my loved ones!
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Lezah Annod posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am saddened to learn of the passing of good old Joe. Today in his honor, I will adopt a homeless fish and name it Jack or Fart or whatever it will answer to. Apparently, I loved Joe. I never met Joe.... but why let that get in the way. Rest in hilarious peace, Joe - just try to keep it decent wherever you are. :)
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Steven Edward Potts posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Never knew your Dad. Really wish I had. My condolences and best wishes all at once.
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PHILLIP C. WOLF posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you Joe, for having lived such a good, full life.
with love,
Old Graybeard Military Brother from far away.
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Bob Ross posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I live in Canada ……. didn't know Joe ……. don't know you. I saw this obit referred to on a newswire service. Congratulations on a proper send-off. Your humour and insults are great. I would've enjoyed meeting your Dad. He and I would have a lot in common! God Bless!
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Jalane Hancock posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
what an obituary!! Joe had to be a wonderful person. His family will likely be talking about him for years to come. R.I.P. dear man. MY Sympathy to his remaining family. Truly a loving memory, what a real tribute....
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Niday family in Roanoke, Va posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is the best written Obituary for your father, you can tell how loved he really was. We enjoyed reading the fond memories of him, we are so incredibly sorry for your loss. My wife just lost her mother in December so we know how hard that it is. We wish you guys all the comfort in the world, but just know that we also will play a really good prank just in his honor.
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Nothing is worth more than laughter.
It is strength to laugh and abandon oneself, to be light.
Frida Kahlo
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JoAnn & Raymond LeGros posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a wonderful man, husband and father. The memories he left you with are such a treasure, you are so blessed. Would have been wonderful to have met him just to share in his joy for life and those around him. Condolences to all of you who will surely miss him. He will live on in your precious memories.
Woodstock, Ontario, Canada
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Michelle posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
YASS!! Found this obit viral and lol .. Sounds like whoever wrote this honored him .. RIP Mr. Joe and prayers to the family ♥️
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Cathy Willis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I have never read anything like this before and I loved it. I only read this obit because of a post on Facebook and so glad I did. Such a tribute to describe a loved one for who he was to be remembered by everyone who knew him. I commend you and the family and I surely will remember this if I ever need to write an obit. Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing. RIP Joe
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Penny Keaton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m very sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute to your father. He would be proud of you. Sending you wishes that you find peace in your hearts. May these wonderful memories sustain you.
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Luz Revilla posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss! I didn't know Joe but I wish to God I had! He sounds like a true life character who kept everyone on their toes. I am in awe of his obituary and the daughter who penned it. It is obvious that you adored him and just as obvious that he adored you. You have a fantastic sense of humor, no doubt in your dna from such an obstinate and colorful man, today, you make him very proud! May he rest in peace and may he find it in his heart to leave you guys alone now that he's supposed to be resting! God bless!
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Michelle Mowder posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharinflg your precious fathers legacy with all the world. I miss my dad. He could whistle and sing like a parrot. He told stories that were so colorful you felt like you were there. Your father I’m sure is so proud of you. ❤️❤️
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Ken O'Brien posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry for your loss. I don't mean to intrude but read about your father on CNN. Sounds like a real character. Rest in peace, and keep on smiling.
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Shelley Jent posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your dad sounded like a lot of fun.
Today is my dad's birthday. He's been gone since 2007. He was a great man as well, a jokester, always wanting to pick on anyone who would let him, mostly kids who loved it.
I wish I could have known your dad. He sounds like he would have been super fun and a hoot.
I'm glad you could be so fun with his obit. Life should be cherished and honored, of which you done by writing his obit the way you did.
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M. O'Shea posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sending heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family of an obviously dearly-loved and treasured stranger.
Also sending profuse apologies I'll be unable to attend this remarkable character's celebration of life.
Thank you, immensely, for such a unique picture of a memorable man!
Wishing, for all of you, peace, sweet memories and belly aches for life from laughing while re-telling stories of this man's antics!
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Gina from Illinois posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don’t know your family, but I read your father’s obit on FB, and you girls should be commended for writing a hysterical tribute for what sounds like a hysterically funny man! I’m sure funny memories will be shared at all family gatherings for years and years. God Bless.
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Donna posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a wonderful tribute to what must've been an incredible man! Thank you for sharing - I now know that the thunder last night was all of Heaven laughing! God Bless you all!
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Anthony posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m sorry for loss but this obituary put a huge smile on my face. Never met him but he is my kind of guy
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Laurel Tucker posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Count one more complete stranger who now wishes she knew you and your dad. I'm crying with you in spirit as you bid farewell to your force of nature. He'd be awfully proud of your tribute. <3 <3 <3
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George Edward Brown posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Good show, Joe, we need more real Americans like you.
Thanks for being in life for so many.
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Paris Simmons posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
By far the best, most original & hysterical obit I have ever read! I so wish I had known your dad; he sounds like my kind of guy! What a fun, fun life he must have led and it sounds like he made the most out of every waking moment! My condolences are with his family and friends; for I know he will be tremendously missed by all. Rest in Peace, Mr. Heller & give 'em hell up there!
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Joe Fecarotta posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a terrific way to celebrate your father’s life. I’m hoping that the viral response makes you feel that you’re not alone in loss. Thank you for the great tribute.
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Wende Lewis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences on your loss of an obviously dearly loved father. Your wonderful tribute (of sorts) is because his life was truly and honestly lived. A very worthy effort to be emulated. And thank you for the good laugh for the rest of us to enjoy.
Wende Lewis.
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Michele Mills posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Another BIG thanks for allowing me to get to know your Dad through the awesome tribute to him! Without ever meeting him, I chuckled while reading his obituary, and you children better be careful as his life and death has been made quite public, and if he has in pull in Heaven, you guys are about to get the prank of your lives....in Joe style. My condolences are with you all. Keep laughing, I think that's what he'd want.
Michele Mills
North Carolina
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Mikhaela Houston posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My goodness, what a man. I never met him, and was only alerted to his passing by a news article on a local television station’s website. I don’t believe Joe is resting in peace, but is planning his next “gotcha” as his wife looks on helplessly.
Thank you for sharing his humor with others!
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Elizabeth posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing your dad with us through this outstanding send-off. Joe's obituary has made a lot of people smile--a lovely tribute that I hope will make you smile, too. (The bit about the goldfish made me laugh out loud. Twice.) It's very clear there was a lot of love in your family. Please accept my condolences and my best wishes for health and happiness going forward.
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Tracey posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences to your family. This is hands down the best tribute I have ever read. I did not know your family or your dad, but his story made me giggle. I thank social media for giving us all a small part in your dad's antics.
Tracey - Ontario Canada
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Renee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Like many others, I did not not your dad but boy after reading the obit I would of loved to......It was forwarded to me by a friend and I laughed and cried at the same time. You sound like you had an amazing father and he raised 3 wonderful daughters along with your mom. My deepest condolences on your loss from Dayton, Ohio....Ill be sure to pull a prank or tell a joke in memory of your dad.....
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RICHARD BRITTAIN posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing a wonderful story.
Somehow, I suspect Joe is still alive and enjoying his prank
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Barry Skalski posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am so saddened, after reading this wonderful tribute, that I never had an opportunity to meet Joe as it sounds like he enjoyed life like so few do. May peace be with the family at this time, Joe sounds like he was an awesome person to be around.
Barry from Elkhart, Indiana
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like life was really pretty good for your girls. I am sorry for your loss, but I bet life was good for you and your family!!
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BUFFY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
TO JOSEPHS FAMILY,,,, I JUST HAD TO WRITE... I HAD THE WORST MORNING,,,THE WORST DAY AT WORK
IVE HAD IN A WHILE. MY FRIEND BROUGHT TO MY ATTENTION YOUR DADS OBIT. I READ IT OVER AND
OVER !!! I STILL HAVE HIS PICTURE UP ON MY SCREEN. MY MOOD IMPROVED AND NOW I AM HAVING A
GOOD DAY !!!!! YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR AND YOUR DAYS MADE ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER AND I DONT KNOW ANY OF YOU. MY FRIEND AND I WISH WE DIDNT HAVE TO WORK TOMORROW BECAUSE WE BOTH
LAUGHED AND SAID WE HAVE THE PERFECT SHIRTS WE WOULD WEAR TO THE FUNERAL. I THANK YOU AGAIN FOR MAKING OUR DAY. YOUR DAD REMINDS ME OF MY DAD. THEY WOULD HAVE BEEN GREAT BUDDYS!!!!
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Colleen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I found this obituary on my daily news feed. I do not know your family, and did not know Joseph, and suddenly feel as though I missed out. I hope your grief is eased by his life well-lived. I'm grateful you decided to share some fun memories with the internet. It seems he's still making new friends and fans, even after passing.
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Lisa Smith, Charlotte, NC posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m sure you know by now that this amazing obituary is making the rounds across social media. It came across my FB feed today and, after reading the hilarious and loving tribute to your father, I feel compelled to post my condolences. Obviously he was quite a character, but most importantly, an absolute treasure. I’m just so sorry I never met him.....I’m sure lots and lots of other folks are feeling the same way. Please know that the many folks that have had the pleasure of reading these heart-felt words are praying for your family, specifically for comfort during this sad time. ❤️
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Tina Osso posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know your father, but from your tongue in cheek description of his life, he so reminds me of my Uncle Gunu who was the best prankster and practical joker I have ever known. Thank you for bringing my sweet feisty uncle to mind with your irreverent and hilarious tribute to your father.
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Lissa posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Oh my, What a wonderful tribute. I laughed and cried while reading this. I wish I had known this colorful ,fun and loving man. What a lucky family to have known someone like this and oh the memories and laughs you will have to help y'all get through this sad time .My condolences to the family...Sending a great big Okie hug to each of you.
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Ed Buckner posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know JoeHeller but I wish i’d Had the honor & pleasure
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Sonya Meade posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The world has lost a good man. He left behind daughters that he would be SO proud of, following in his hilarious footsteps. I’ll be donating to the scholarship fund mentioned!
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Charisse posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A life well lived!
Your obituary brought memories of my own father, causing laughter and tears to flow.
Beautiful souls are like butterflies. They flutter by, bringing joy and delight, and always flutter away before we're finished enjoying them.
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nick gamble posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am still laughing from what your dad/grandpa did to make each of your lives as amusing and laughter filled as possible. I know Joseph will be remembered for all his antics and mostly the love he gave to each one of you. My dad passed away June 2017 and will be forever remembered for his saying, " put you on my crew". I never was on his crew. But the last years where the best cause we got to know each other as we weren't close. I remember him in the hospital room battling cancer , like he said to me, " I got cancer from working in the mines all 36 years, that's why I didn't hire you". But the greatest words to be spoken from his heart where the words , "I love you son" before leaving this world. His last request to his family were to put his hardhat in his coffin incase GOD had a job for him to do. So yeah, those precious moments will be forever embedded into my heart. So I know that Charles Sutherland and Joseph Heller will be up to mischief and GOD will be slapping his forehead and looking to JESUS and saying, "what did we do?".
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Margrette posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Oh my goodness! I would love to have known him! God bless you all in your time of grief. What an amazing man.
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Shelley Allen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your dad sounds like he was quite a character! Well done on what seems like a great tribute to this amazing man. May your happy memories of him continue to live on and bring some comfort during this time of loss. My condolences to all of you.
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Vitoria Vittori posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a beautiful obituary to a life well lived. I'm sure Joe is entertaining the folks on the other side, and appropriately pi**ed by being given a 'proper' funeral.
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Kyle Varnold posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Truly this Man “lived his dash”! Though I live in Central Illinois and never met Joe or any of his family, I absolutely love and cherish this obituary! Thank you so much, Monique for honoring the man who no doubt was a Legend of Laughter and his life-well lived!!
Looking forward to the Estate Auction write-up now!!
My deepest Condolences,
Kyle Varnold
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From the daughters of a Navy Seabee member to the daughters of another. Bless you for having such a wonderful father. Who truly saw the world thru his own glasses and would not tolerate any BS. He changed the world one word at a time. Our father was the same way, he started a hunger strike of over 400 black sailors at Guatacanal when he saw the racial discriminations within the Navy. So with that said, Its an honor to connect with daughters of former Seabee men. We are PROUD to call them Dad with promises to carry on their legacy of caring.
Again Bless you all....
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Ben posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Awesome, hilarious and heartfelt tribute! What a great way to remember your loved one. I never knew Mr. Heller, but I wish I did after reading this! And I’ll be praying for your family. Isaiah 40:31 and John 3:16
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Melissa Mills posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Love the tribute to your father! It makes me sad that my Floridian self didn't know him! My condolences to the family.
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Valerie Nichole Roeder posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’ll bet he played a great Santa Claus.
My thoughts are with your family.
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Harold O’Briant posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry to hear of Joe’s death. As a Seabee myself, I can only lament that his obituary was a testament to an extraordinary individual who served as a shining example of the type of person his brother ‘bees would be proud to socialize with.......or not! Rest In Peace! Slow-hand salute! Can Do!
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Anne Coleman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I lost both parents last year within 6 mos. Reading this made me smile. I see the love through the laughter.
Bless you for writing this in honour of your Dad.
Anne from Toronto, CANADA
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Steven Franklin Love posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a great tribute to a father who lived life well. The measure of a man is not the riches he leaves behind but the richness he leaves in our hearts. By the sounds of it your Dad was a very rich man indeed. Thank you for showing all of us that death, though sad, is also as much a part of life as living and it is how we face it that makes the memories even better. What a guy, I wish I could have known him. I hope you keep the good memories close and let those fill the void that I know you feel.
God Bless...
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Ed posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Getting on this link is obviously Joe's latest revenge. I never knew the man but I have complete respect for his humor and for his love of life. Very happy that he has passed it on to his daughters and grandchildren!
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Erica Cottey posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing your wonderful father with the world. We would all be better offwith more Joes in the world.
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Jason Schaefer posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like a very wonderful and loving man, actually. It his legacy can bring a smile to the faces of those who knew him and to many who never did, that’s enviable. God bless your family!
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Lynn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joseph Heller Jr. I wish you could have met my dad Jim. His antics and yours would have kept you both laughing all day. Dad wanted to be cremated and scattered but Catholics don't allow scattering so I have dad at my house. He is in a nice urn I got at a pottery place(on sale) and Dad would have loved that. I almost got him one that said "Freshly Baked" but was afraid the Priest might faint when he saw it.
Rest in peace Joseph.
To Joseph's family thank you for sharing your father with everyone.
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Yvette posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I was having a rough day, then I read this. I'm saddened your dad has passed but I'm laughing my ass off about how he lived. Thank you all for blessing us with his story!
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Marge posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Heller Family,
Everyone should have a Joe in their family. Thank you for sharing your Dad with so many who never met him, (or you) with this tribute and celebration of his life. God bless you all
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Shelly in NC posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I heard about your dad's obit on WRAL out of Raleigh, NC... I think what you did was pretty great & way a fun way to honor your dad.
Blessings to your family!
Shelly in NC
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David Nowack posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
We need more Joes in this stuffy world!!!!
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Brittany posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
As a small-town newspaper editor who reads obituaries every week, this is by far the funniest, most-well written obit I've ever seen. He sounds like quite the man - and he obviously passed on his wit and sense of humor to his daughters. Good on all of you for taking a tough loss with humor. RIP Joe - and Jack.
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Sylvia posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a guy. I can see he passed on to his family and friends the greatest legacy of all: a sense of humor. The angels are doubled over in laughter now.
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Peg Zanella posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Well done ladies! I myself grew up with two sisters and a super funny dad!! Just sorry that I never had the chance to meet your dad. I am inclined to send you my condolences ..... but perhaps I should say lucky for each of you that you had him in your life. Now go celebrate his!!❤️
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Georges R. Le May posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
your dad is my kind of guy !
Live, Love, Laugh even if our jokes back-fire on us.
Husband writes on wife's tombstone:
REST IN PEACE
TILL
I GET THERE!!
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
May your days continue to be blessed with fabulous memories of your Father. I don’t know you but I found this obituary to be one of the most REAL tributes I have ever read. You are obviously cut from the same cloth as your Dad. This was truly brilliance at work!
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Andrew Morosky posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thanks for that wonderful obit. I laughed all through my lunch. God bless your family and may Joe Rest In Peace.
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Kelly White posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a GREAT and WELL written obituary! I came across this via the internet, and I am sorry to to have not known your father, but felt that I had to give your family my condolences. I lost my Dad nearly 5 years ago, and to this day I still miss joking with him and feeding him the little bit of torture I had while growing up. He was always quite comical, and loved to joke and tease me and my dusty. I see myself today know exactly where I get my humor from. Life should be full of fun and pranking family and friends, without that we have nothing. God Bless your family, and I’ll be sure to wear a worn out raggedy shirt in remembrance of your father... take care!!
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Bonny Blair posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Greetings, family members!
Loved this lively tribute to a guy I’m sure I would have enjoyed knowing. It especially struck a chord after having written an obituary for my mother-in-law in late June of this year. I caught a whole load of shi*! from one of my bothers-in-law for not following the “conventions” of traditional obituaries, making it too long, and too “personal” in his opinion. My mother-in-law was also quite a character, but I wasn’t as adventurous in my portrayal as you were (being the “in-law”), and that made the memories of your dad all the more fabulous! I actually feel as if I had known him. Please accept my sincere condolences, as I now know how big a hole is left in life when someone with a a BIG, irreverent personality passes. The silver lining, of course, is the memories you have to sustain you.
Very truly yours,
Bonny Blair, Auburn, N.Y.
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JB posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Mr. Heller is a bonafide legend if the penning of his obituary by his daughters is any indication of his 'influence' on their character development! This is a perfect expression of love and I'm blessed to have read & ROFL'ed while reading this here in AZ.
How I wish I could have met and shot the bull with his gleeful self.
My sincere condolences on the passing of Papa.
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F.P. Seitel posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The best — and actually, “sweetest” — obituary ever. Sorry I never met him. Sounds like a terrific chap.
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I send my condolences to you daughters who have obviously inherited his wonderful sense of humor. I only wish I were related to, or knew that man. We could ALL use someone like him on our family tree.
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Lori J McAninch posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an awesome man and family. Hugs to all....
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Bob fultz posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never met Joe by you can bet I wish I had. He sounds like a kindered spirit of my wife whom I lost 8 year's ago. A man who made a lasting impression that you were glad you were able to know. Rest easy my friend and I hope to see you on the otherside. Place your faith in the memories of him for a man lives as long as he is remembered. And Joe will live long in your heart's.
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Colleen Mcintyre posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
One of the most wonderful thing any person can hope for after life is an obituary that captures their spirit and shows how well they lived their life. Your father sounds wonderful and it sounds like he left a beautiful family who loved and appreciated him.
Thank you for accidentally sharing him with the world.
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Laura Hjort posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sincere love to you all. Hands down, the best tribute to a life I’ve ever read. My only regrets are that I didn’t know him in this life and I’m not able to turn up in the worst t-shirt I can find to honor him!
Hope ya get a kick in the arse across them pearly gates!
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Stormie Faire posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Dear family of Joe. I never met Joe however he sounds like a truly amazing fellow who was liked by everyone who knew him. His joy of life and living it his way is inspiring. And The obituary is proof of your great love for him. I think he is somewhere in the beyond feeling pretty happy that his kids “got” him and his ways. Thank you for sharing his story with the world. Sent with gratitude and my deepest sympathy
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Claire P posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Glad you have such wonderful memories! Thank you for sharing them. May you Enjoy life with as much gusto!!!
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N M Newton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Heller Family:
Uplifting & inspiring in many ways. Good
to realize some are able to live their lives
celebrating their own uniqueness. His love
& care of dogs is the highest accolade.
Rest easy, Joe Heller
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Jameson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know your father but it sounds like he was a great man. We’re losing all the greats! My condolences to your family in this time of grief.
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Julie Vandegrift posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know him but boy I wish I had! He has left a mark on this world and definitely raised some good kids and surrounded himself with pretty awesome people. No doubt, he will be missed.
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Christopher Ryan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I do not know the man personally but after reading this he could very well be my twin brother (not including that he was 43 years older than I). I thank you for your service Sir, even if you were a Squid. My condolences to his family, may you live your life as joyfully as your father lived his.
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Sean Hoolahan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Just remember
A faint Heart never won a Pork Chop
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Tracy McNichols posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow!!! Your dad sounds like the best dad ever! Wish I knew him and God bless your family for dealing with him all those years :)
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Paris Solomon posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I love this guy.
He looks adorable and friendly.
Want to say thanks to the daughters for such loving obituary.
I cried tears with laughter as I bask pool side in this hotel in Brooklyn, reading this. When I go I can only wish that someone writes something as such about me. That’s lovely this way you’ve shared him with the world.
May god accept his soul.
Looking forward to buying Joe a few cheap beers in paradise when my bus gets there.
Rest In Peace Joe. RIP. J
you’re the only dude who’ve made more friends in passing than in staying.
Thus, you were too good for the world.
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Finuzza Akeson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Hello From Canada: Wow your Dad sounded wonderful and I am sure he will be missed by all of you. What a wonderful obituary and
based on what you have written is likely chuckling with your mom. Please accept our condolences even though we have never met.
God Bless
Finuzza
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Shelly posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am truly sorry that I did not see the obituary of your father earlier. You seem to have been very blessed with the memories you have written. Thank you for enlightening all of the world to your father. I want to express condolances for his passing. I am sure he will be missed by many. God bless you and your family.
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Lori Buckholdt Weisenborn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I read his story from our local TV channel 7 Website- KETV in Omaha, NE. I live in Harlan, IA- 1 hour from Omaha. Joe sounded like a guy that no one would ever hate. He is what this world needs more of.... Life is plenty too serious...he made people laugh- which is the best medicine nowadays. God Bless the family.
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George Sides posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t have the pleasure of knowing Joe, but as a fellow Seabee it would’ve been an honor and he would’ve fit right in with my old battalion NMCB24. If y’all weren’t so far away, I’d definitely be there. Fair Winds and Following Seas Joe, you sound like an “old school” Seabee recruiting poster!
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Joan Doyle posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don't know your family, but I wish I did, and I wish I'd known your dad/brother/grandfather. This is how I hope people feel about me when it's my turn to go. God bless you all. RIP, Joe, if your family will allow it. Prayers from Cincinnati, Ohio.
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GiGi posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow, what an awesome tribute! God Speed Joe!
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Jackson Plant posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I wish I could have known Joseph, he sounds like quite a man. I was stationed in Groton for few years in early 90s. You have my condolences and wish him fair seas and rest easy.
In Jesus
Jackson Plant CTR1(SW),USN Ret.
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Andrea Lewis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know your Dad. I was fortunate to read his obituary from Boynton Beach, FL, having relocated from Storrs, CT in 2015. Joseph Heller, Jr. sounds to be a wonderful man who had lots of humor and love in his heart. I wished our paths had crossed, but I’m sure I’ll meet him one day. For now, your words remind me that I should call my 90 year father in New Jersey who shares your Dad’s sense of humor. Thank you so much for making me laugh today... that’s a true gift.
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Michelle H. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I saw your story on-line. Thank you so very much for sharing this amazing man's story! He reminds me very much of my own father whom we lost in 2004. He too wanted to be buried in the back yard... in just the same manner. I'm sad to hear of his passing, and devastated that I never had the pleasure of meeting him. I hope the stories and memories bring you much comfort as you go through this process.
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Margie Thorp posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A wonderful, funny tribute to what must have been an 'original' man! And condolences to Joe's family, who obviously loved him very, very much and loved him just the way he was. Two thumbs up for writing the best obit of 2019!
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Lori Stevens posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is the best obituary EVER! In all seriousness Joe sounds like a man anyone with a sense of humor would love to know! I wish I had known him. Thank you for a little peek into his fun life. RIP Joe. I’m sure shenaniganswill be going on in Heaven!
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Mary posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an adventure it must have been growing up with this great man. I would have given anything to have had a father like him. I don't know the family, just read the article and send them love and prayers for their loss. What stories and memories to tell the future generations of your family to come, you need to write a book about this wonderful man. Would have loved to have met him. You did him proud with your obit.
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Never met your father, but saw his obit online. Seems like a wonderful man- would have loved to have met him.
My dad also used to let my sister and I play beauty shop with him. I have the most wonderful picture of him in his dirty work uniform adorned in jewels and a pillbox hat holding a parasol. Makes me smile just thinking about it.
May your father's memory always make you smile.
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Ted Hawkins posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Over my lifetime, this man's name has occassionally appeared in the Australian media - usually as an occurance of some outrageous carrying-on.
What can I say ? He sounds like a typical Aussie larrikin who actually had a heartfelt desire to serve his family, country & community.
Therefore, may I bestow on him the UNOFFICIAL title of "Honourary Aussie".
Me ? 72 yo. Australian Army 1966-88 (Vietnam 1967-68), Dept of Defence 1990-96, volunteer Brisbane Legacy 1996-2008, volunteer RSL 2000-08, volunteer Knights of the Southern Cross 2007-current . BUT, TO MY PERSONAL SHAME, NOT AS OUTRAGEOUS AS JOE !
Eternal Rest, Grant Unto Him O Lord, And Let Perpetual Light Shine Upon Him.
Rest In Peace, Your Duty Is Done.
Amen.
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Gloria Adams posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To all the members of your family, my heartfelt condolences. After reading your tribute on the FB, I found myself laughing as I too am a proud pranker & have been thinking this is how I want my life celebrated when it's time to close my own chapter in the book of life. What an awesome, heartwarming & hilarious story about your Joseph, many would liked to know him. You were all lucky to have someone who brought such sweet mischief & silly shenanigans to you all your lives. Now, even in the afterlife, he is still bringing joy to people & making people smile & laugh, essentially leaving the world a bit better than he found it. I do surely hope one of his kin picks up the prank torch in honor of Josephs memory. R.I.P Sir and God Bless.
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Jeff C posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never knew him, but this amazing obituary makes me wish I had. He sounded like a fantastic guy, and has an amazing family who will miss him dearly. While I am from IN and can't make the celebrations, I think I may just put on that inappropriate t-shirt here that day...
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Gary Flynn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I saw this in USA Today and had to read it. Sorry for your loss; sorrier still that I didn't meet him.
God bless
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Dawn Anderson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow. I am sad I never got to meet him he sounds like a hell of a guy. You were indeed blessed. I am going through some stuff right now and have decided to use your father as inspiration. Im printing off his picture and hanging it on my wall to remind myself that life is not that serious and the best thing we can do for each other is to be kind and laugh. Im sorry you lost your dad I know what that's like. But just know that his spirit will remain alive helping others. Peace and love to you all.
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Oy Bill LIeu posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
a loving soul !
thank you for your light and the presence brought to those you touched.
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Carol posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My dad died young, so he never got to the grumpy old man stage. I am glad you got to enjoy that with your family. I hope you were able to share this with your dad before he left you... sounds like he would have enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing the story of a colorful individual who truly enjoyed his life.
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Jeff Everett posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'm sorry for your loss but I'm sure Jack is in a better place now.
Joe sounds like my kind of guy. I'm sure that the life of everyone who met him is richer because of it. He sounds like 1 of a kind.
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Vee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Condolences and thanks..for reminding us all how to live. May Joe, his wife, and his cryogenically preserved pet fish be reunited eternally in happy irreverent pranks lux aeterna.
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John chiusano posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry I missed him. Sounds like my kind of guy. God rest his soul. His memory will live on forever in all those that knew him.
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Linda posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but I loved your obit of him. He sounds like he was a great husband, father and grandpa.....RIP Joe!
Sorry for your loss and my deepest sympathy to your family.
Linda
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Richard Higgins posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like my kind of guy. I would have liked to sit and discuss old stories with Joe as I'm a pretty good prankster myself.
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Tim posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a wonderful life you dad had. I just read his story and I wish I had known him. I am off to Waffle House for a cup of coffee and to tell someone about your dad. Maybe a prank as well!!!
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Brian Ermelin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
With his devious mind and my mechanical ability , we could have ruled the world. Much love to family and friends. I would have done almost anything to have known him. As I always say; if you don't amuse yourself , who's gonna?
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Belle King posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for a wonderful obit. Your dad seemed liked a great guy who did not take life too seriously and made you laugh often. My dad who also recently passed away used to tell us kids not to work too hard when we went off to school and to have fun. The part about his dog rescue work is inspiring. Thank you for sharing a beautiful story about a great dad. I wish I could have met him. God bless all of you and I wish you well during your time of mourning. It is not easy to say goodbye to a patriarch and I feel that my dad is still around making me smile, laugh and reminding me to not take life so seriously and to have fun.
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Linda Ingram posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wish I had known your father. He led a wonderful and happy life.
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Patrick Snedeker. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To all the members of your family, my condolences. After reading your tribute on the news, I found myself laughing and thinking of my own family members lost over the years. So alike in so many ways. Must have been the depression era that galvanized their personality. Would have loved to have meet him. Thank you for sharing your tribute. P.s. I am dressed down today at work. Wearing jeans. Hope he would be ok with that. Lol. God bless.
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Rob posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'd very much like to attend, but have to use the bathroom, which usually takes awhile.
What an awesome guy, thanks for sharing!
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Vesmar Robertson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thanks for the smiles today. I thoroughly
Enjoyed your dad’s obituary. Prayers for all his family. What joy to have a father/grandfather who I am sure was a blessing to all who crossed his path.
Best wishes from a friend in Rutledge Georgia
That you have never met. Also born in 1937.
Vesmar
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Wes Caudill posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow, what a story. I never met Joe, but he reminds me of how I would like to live. You are a lucky family, and cherish the memories you have had over the years, as they are priceless.
Thank you for your service Joe, and rest in peace!!
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Wade Richardson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
As a veteran myself and having never knew the man. He must have been a hell of a guy and I'm sure he will be missed love the obituary. Anchors Away
Wade...
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Heather in New Orleans posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I’m so sorry for your loss. I cannot say I have ever enjoyed an obituary more than I did this one. What a tribute to an obviously interesting character. You have brought me joy in just hearing about him. Many blessings to you and your family.
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David posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To Joe and the Heller Family Thank you for the Laugh this Morning.
I only wish I could have met him.
What a great family man and joker.
I wish you all the best.
David
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Sheryl Sparrgrove posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know your father but after reading this tribute to him, I bet he was a great man. Your memories are priceless. I wish I could have met and talked with your father. My deepest sympathies on your loss.
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Joe Loughran posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Greetings, Family & Friends of Joseph A. Heller, Jr.!
I laughed so hard reading this that I was crying by the end... Poor Mom, with Dad back in her court.
And if I didn't have a 4 pm appointment to list a home in Ocean View, DE, I would be on my way to Connecticut right now to see Joe off and to shake hands and hugs with those who crafted such an extraordinary tribute to a life that, indubitably (a big word for Joe's send-off), was well and richly lived. God bless all, and especially Joe, who in the end got what he had coming.
All the best, Another Joe, in Ocean View, DE
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Bert Lee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your description of Joe reminds me of my late grandpa. I’m sure he and Joe would’ve been great friends. My sincere condolences.
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Michael McNair posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds to me like his family members were blessed with a man with the same character as my own father what a joy it must’ve been my thoughts and prayers are with his family. Sincerely Michael McNair
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DAVE CHESTER posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
REST IN PIECE GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
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Cathy Moore posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My sincere condolences to the family. What an entertaining, yet beautiful, obituary. It is very obvious that your family loved him very much.
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Patrick McInerney posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow Joe sounded like he was one heck of guy. I am sure he is messing with your mom as we speak. Godspeed Joe! It sounded like you lived one hell of a life.
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Curt Proebstel posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I have a feeling your dad and mine are probably hanging out in Heaven. I am sorry for your loss! It sounds like he was a handful, but in a good way. :-) I really enjoyed reading the obituary... it made me smile and think of my dad who passed way too early in 1993.
My best,
Curt Proebstel
Hillsboro, OR
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Don Raver posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never met you, however you sound like you were a fun person and a great father. I thank you for your service to our nation and to your community. God be with you and may he protect the ones you left behind. To the family thank you for sharing his life story in a humorous and cleaver way.
I am a veteran and firefighter myself. Rest Easy Brother We Will Take It From Here.
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Rick Vessels posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry for your loss - and your mother's reacquisition. What a colorful character and delightfully ornery cuss he must have been! I wish I could have known him - but I am happy that his memory will live on ... and on ... in this tribute, the most loving obituary I've ever seen. He was blessed to have you as his family. And, you, as his. And, therein is great peace and joy.
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AGLASPIE posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joe sounds like my type of guy, full of jokes and pranks. Life is not fun if you are not laughing. That will do Joe, That will do.
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Kathleen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a beautiful obituary. I wish that I would have known him. I’m happy to know that my dad now has a buddy!
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Parmela Powell posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I truly get a sense of who Joe was by this engaging obituary and the picture of Joe with his mischievous shimmer in your fathers eyes. This tells me your distinctive characteristics of humor in your DNA is dominant within the family. Thank you for writing the true meaning of love and appreciation for your father.
Parmela Powell
Salt Lake City
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Don Mei posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I first met Joe when he was the "Dawg Ketcher".
My lab Nixon had a habit of escaping from his kennel while I was at work. To Joe, Nixon was known as a "Frequent Flyer". After I got home from work, Joe would come to my house, with Nixon riding shotgun in his truck. Joe would get out of the truck, toss Nixon a treat and say "comeon SH1Thead, you're home".
Nixon loved riding around with Joe.
He always had crates in the back of his truck. But the dogs always seemed to be riding up front.
One time when Nixon escaped, I had let the registration lapse. Joe told me that I couldn't get the dog back until Monday after I registered him with the town clerk.
But don't worry. He'll have a good weekend.
Apparently Nixon spent the weekend riding around with Joe in his truck, hanging out at the volunteer fire department, and watching TV at Joe's house.
When he dropped the dog off on Monday afternoon, he was riding shotgun in the passenger seat of Joe's truck with like always, with his head out the window.
Another story. His Obit mentioned a dog named a**hole that Joe refused to put down. What the obit doesn't mention is how Joe kept falsifying adoption papers and intake papers so this one dog could become many dogs with many names.
He would slightly alter the description with each "new" dog.
The dog was a pit mix that suffered from very bad separation anxiety. He put those powerful pit jaws to use not against people or other dogs. But against furniture, kennels, and car interiors. Joe once told me about a failed adoption of a**hole. The woman was complaining about the dog's whining. Joe asked the woman where the dog was then. She said "in my car". OH 5H*T get back to that car NOW". It was too late. A**hole had destroyed the car interior. That adoption lasted 2 hours.
One time I was at the dump and Joe and I went after the same old aluminum snow shovel. I told him that I would wrestle him for it. He laughed and told me to take it. He already had a half dozen at home.
It was always a pleasure talking with him at the Essex FD pancake breakfasts.
Did he dress up as Santa for one of them?? I think I remember that. Not sure.
Joe was one of the last Great Men of Essex. I'd put him in the same class as my great friend David Hyde, deceased in 2013 and Ernie Cook "The General", who died in 2006.
Thanks for the wonderful obit.
I am sorry I won't be able to come to the FD today wearing a T shirt sure to offend the liberal sensitivities of the Essex Chattering Class.
Very Sincerely,
Don Mei
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Robin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My deepest condolences on the passing of your dad. You don't know me but I found the obit in a Yahoo article and just needed to tell you how much it touched my heart and my funny bone. Having written too many obits and eulogies, I appreciated the humor. It helps with the grieving process and gets us through the tough days.
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Ronald G Horton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry for your loss. I wish I could have known your Dad. Us old guys love to pile on when we get the chance--and we don't EVER say we are sorry for doing it.
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Joe Markiewicz posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
RIP sir, it sounds like you were a great guy. Via con dios.
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Perry Barber posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Never met Mr. Heller. I think we may have spoken a time or two on line. You have my condolences in this great loss. I just had to comment and say that this is one of the most loving, heartfelt, and beautiful tributes to not
only a Man, but to the life he lived and the people he touched.
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Rick Clapp posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
That was awesome! Lolol.
We may be related. I saw a doll wearing a diaper at Walmart. I sent my daughter to fetch some toilet paper from the restroom. We stuffed it in the diaper an left some hanging out...
Good good Times with my prankster daughter in training. I imagine your dad was as immature!
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John De Silveira posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences, sounds like the kind of man that I could love to have as my next door neighbour!
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Lynne posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The love and happiness in this family is obvious! Rest in Peace Joe, you raised an amazing family. Thanks for sharing this warm, uplifting story. Hugs to you all from PA.
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Stacy Hayes posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
“I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person.”
― Audrey Hepburn
From one jokester to another, I never knew you but I know the world is a better place knowing you were a part of the rat race that it is.
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Harry Simpson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joseph will certainly be missed. And remembered. Godspeed Joseph.
Fair winds and following seas sailor.
"Boatswain... Standby to pipe the side... Shipmate's going Ashore..."
Thank you for your service to this nation.
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Sandra Moore posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Such a wonderful tribute to your dad! What a beautiful way to remember him, and share your memories, love, and laughter. I'm sure your dad totally adored his family, and your love for him speaks volumes with every word you have written.
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Pam Drum posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A life well lived is never wasted. Joe brightened lives and enjoyed the life God gave him, which is a better tribute to God than any of the ridiculous edifices man has built to try to honor Him. Good work, Joe, and condolences to family and friends who loved, enjoyed, endured, suffered through, and will fondly remember him. He’s now a legend and joyous existence to emulate.
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Audrey Klotz posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I VERY RARELYread obits and why I read yours I’ll never know... BUT!!! Your father sounded like such a hoot! Sometimes Heaven needs some levity and clearly it’s gonna have its hands full!
Losing a parent is always difficult ( I lost my Dad last yr) but you have a firm grip and an awesome attitude! Prayers to you and yours... keep those laughs coming.
Ps. You should write a book!
Take care from a stranger in Weston Ct
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Kevin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds like a great guy and awesome role model for his grand-kids. I wish I would've known him!! Do you think he wanted to be buried on Friday the 13th? Maybe his last prank isn't over yet!!!
Tony and Deb G posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
We don’t know of Joe or ever met him but we got the biggest kick out of his lifelong journey into making people happy around him from reading his obituary. Thank you for sharing and thank you Joe . God rest your soul!
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David McNiff posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thanks for the fun obituary. I wish I could have met him. (I think.)
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Sue posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thoughts and prayers to you and your loved ones. Joe seemed like he was quite the character! You gave quite a wonderful tribute to him with this obituary. It exudes all the love that you had for him! God Bless!
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Jack posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A man couldn’t ask to be loved more at the time of his death than the love you guys exude for Joe. I didn’t know him but I know he is a proud man right now. Joe rest in peaceful place in the afterlife!
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Kelly D Londo posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Don't know who you're father was nor do I know you,but he sounds like he was awesome to be around and the writer of this obituary appears to be a chip off the old block.. I pray he keeps the Angel's laughing for a long time and may he Rest in Peace.. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!
Sincerely,
A neighbor down south
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Barbara Duncan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your my kind of father god bless your daughter for sharing her memories .May you rest in peace Joe .
Barb Duncan
Carroll's Corner Canada
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Sunny Woodward posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This obit is priceless! Your Joe is the same age as my husband, of the same generation and in possession of the same mental attitude! I hope I have the guts to publish a similar obit when it is my time to do so! Joe and my Jim would have been fast friends...and pranksters!
Thank you for sharing a life “very well lived”! I cannot imagine how much you all miss him.
Sunny
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Maureen Miller posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I can only hope to be as beloved as he clearly was! What a great tribute!! Would love to have known him.
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Lynda Pettigrew posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
He sounds like someone I would have liked to call a friend. All the best to his family and friends.
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Larry posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My sincere condolences to the family. I knew Frank well and he was a great friend. I was sad to learn of Pat’s passing and will be praying for his family. There will never be another like Steve, that is for sure. Please let me know if the family needs any help going through Al’s belongings and disarming any found traps. I will be remembering Jack in a special message this Sunday entitled, ”Doug’s Life: A Lesson in Redeeming Glass Coke Bottles.” God Bless you all.
Sincerely,
Pastor Larry Roy
Louisiana
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Tony Stone posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Absolutely wonderful obituary. I miss the man and never even met him!! He reminds me of ... well... me! A wonderful life and an obviously wonderful and loving family. Maybe I will be lucky enough to meet up with him in the afterlife. Bless you all!!
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Jennifer Welch posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know your father. So sorry for your loss, but what a beautiful send-off. Sounds like he was a hoot to be around.
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Keva Williams posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don't know your dad but I found his obituary via Yahoo new and I love how you honored him!
It was perfect! He is smiling because he knows you all knew him so well. Reading this only made me smile as I could envision the things you stated and seeing him laugh out loud with joy. You only live once they say, but your Dad truly lived every day. We all can take a lesson from him. Live, Love, Laugh.
Sending hugs and condolences from Michigan to your family.
Keva Williams
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Tim Dinsmore posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great man!! He and my dad will get along great now. They sound very similar. Only difference is your dads obit was far and away ... well AWESOME. We titled my dads “ Simply the Best” and the greatest honor bestowed on him at his funeral came from a very close cousins, calling George “ A Neat Fu**er”. Best way to describe him and, it seems, your dad as well
Best Wishes and God Bless!!!
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John posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Children are a reflection of the parents. As a parent, you try to instill the very best of yourself into your children in hopes that they become a better person than you. I never had the opportunity to meet your Joe, but I would bet that he was and continues to be proud of how his children turned out. Losing a loved one is tough, but continue to celebrate his life because in the end, its his life that people should remember . . . not his passing. I am honored to have been able to read about your father, who because of the person he was, got a laugh from a room of 8 people several hundred miles from where he lived. People he never met, but none the less found him to be a pleasant and funny guy. The measure of his character couldn't be more evident. Congratulations on having the father you do. I am sorry for your loss. Good luck to your mom!
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Goldie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
An amazing tribute to an amazing man. Your love for your father, and his for you, extends through every line. Thanks you so much for sharing a small sliver of a life well lived with us. God bless your family. Heaven will be a much more interesting place now. Nng67
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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To Joe, who was a Bright Light in the World -
God Bless you Joe!
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Jennifer Patton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never met Joe but our local channel published his obituary. What a treasure of a fellow to be around. You can tell he loved life to fullest and probably never met a stranger. He sounds like he was loved to pieces. I wished I had the opportunity to meet him as I am sure I would have been filled with smiles and warm feelings.
God Bless his soul, his precious family and all that knew him. He is now having the time of his eternal life in heaven with all his loved ones that passed before him.
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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If i live to be a tenth of the prankster Joe was, I feel I would've lived a full and rich life. Rest well.
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Bebe posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry the world has lost such a funny guy and talented prankster! But I see by this obit that his sense of humor has survived him. Thank God he had progeny so it could be passed on to his descendants. Hoping that his family and friends find comfort and solace in the delightful memories of a life well-lived.
Bebe, a kid who grew up (or not) in Connecticut!
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Dave Kraft posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You really found the pet fish in the freezer?? L0L!
Please tell me that Jack will be buried in a inappropriate t-shirt too.
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Michael Gwynne posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
An obituary that elicits both laughter and tears for, to me,, a totally unknown man I’d love to have known, is a most valuable reminder that life is to be lived honestly and with appropriate disregard for the niceties when it results in laughter and love.
Thanks Joe, tho I never knew ya, it might have pleased you to exchange emails with me over time as my address involves the usage of the Polish word for “Fart”!
Rest easy. But keep the spirits up with your new crowd.
Sorry I’ll miss your ceremony today but I have a feeling something vibrant will come over me at that exact moment we both prize!
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Robin Aguirre posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences to you for the loss of your father Joe. I wish I had known him. What a cool Dad you had! :) His obituary is classic and I have no doubt he would’ve loved it! Thank you for sharing your Dad with us all. I hope that I’m that well loved when it’s my time to cross that Bridge. God Bless you all!
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Eugene Pan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Hey, Joe. As a person who called my first dog “Dick” (only to realize later that he was actually a she), I have got a favor to ask. Please make sure that Fart and Asshole get along with my puppy. Wish I knew you in person. But hey, one day when it is my turn I will meet you out there and say hello. Until then, Rest In Peace!
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Charley Beard posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry you lost your dad. He must have been quite the guy! Whoever wrote his obituary and I'm quite sure you all had a hand in it should be very proud. It is the best tribute you could ever give to someone of that character.
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Adrienne L. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an amazingly well-written tribute that does a great job capturing who this man was. I feel like I knew him! So sorry for your loss.
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Betsy Reider posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I can only hope that I leave my family with so much love and laughs when I depart. You were blessed with such a father.
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Jodi posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry for your loss! What a wonderful, hilarious, tribute to your Dad. I was having a bad day and came across his obituary. I laughed and thought how terrific it must have been to have someone like him in your lives! God Bless!
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Sandy Grimes posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Can I have the have the bird seed? My dad loved to feed the bird he didn't leave me Jack.
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Ron DesLauriers posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I have never met you, but the love you have and the love from your daughters and family is all we can ask for in life. I honor you sir, for love of family and love for the Seabees. I served in the Marine Corps and some of my best friends were in the Seabees. To an icon of life, love, laughter, and country, I salute you sir.
Semper Fi.
S/Sgt Ron DesLauriers USMC 1965-1971.
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Dan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
God bless your Dad and his ability to create a smile! Love the way his obituary was write , you’ve done him proud! He’s smiling down upon you, now your mother has to deal with him!
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Tracy Slayton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joe would have been my buddy. He sounds a lot like me, and my friends. What a great remembrance... congratulations on a life well lived.
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Terry posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your Dad would be so proud. Proud (and chuckling) at his obit, proud of his family, and proud of his life.. I say that’s a happy life, very well lived. Keep up the tradition. My condolences to all of you.
Terry in Denver
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Michelle Francisco posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is brilliant. Bravo and may your dad R.I.P. People like Joe are proof God has a sense of humor and there will be laughter in heaven.
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michael_bousquet@yahoo.com posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an amazing obituary, thank you for sharing your father's life with everyone. In this often over santizied world, just reading your words about a man who lived carefree and unapologetic was refreshing. Far too many people are sheep, it sounds as if your father was everything except a sheep. He undoubtly lived a charmed life and may the many, many real memories of his life sustain your family. ~God Bless Heller Family and rest well Joe~ M.Bousquet
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Kim Thomas posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Dear family,
Although I never had the honor of knowing your dad, I wanted to say that is is the best tribute to a life well lived that I've ever read. My sympathy on your loss of what must have been an unforgettable man that obviously left a wonderful legacy.
Kim Thomas
Louisville, KY
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Mark Lusk posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Oh how I would have loved to have known your dad. He sounds like my kind of person. Although I am liked by most, I am also known as the king of bad jokes. My daughter even gave me a shirt that says, “Bad puns are how eye roll”. Have you ever done a joke that you just knew was not going to be received well? But months or years later they are memories we laugh at. The long game jokes. I bet Joe has. I am so very sorry that you all have lost this wonderful soul. In a world that is increasingly becoming irritated we need the Joes to remind us to laugh and to stop and smell the flowers so to speak. Eccentric is just another word for “I don’t give a shit what anyone thinks”. I’m glad that your dad chose to start his life like this. As I see so many of my characteristics in my children. I can see that at least one of you has been the beneficiary of your dads sense of humor. God Bless you all and I celebrate the fact that you all were so fortunate to have had him in your lives. Can’t wait to one day meet him and get your mom to help us plan some good ones together. There is no way that she didn’t at least secretly aid in his schemes beyond the costumes. If you decide not to put the fish to rest with him I will take it off of your hands BTW.
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Vern posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I saw this article on Foxnews.com and had to come read the entire Obit. You wrote a great Obit. Thank you for the laughs and tears it brought forth. He was a great dad, and person. I am sure he will be missed by many. I am sorry for your loss.
Please somebody, raise a glass and wish this Sailor "Fair Winds and Following Seas"
Respectfully and Sincerely,
Vern
CPO, USN(Ret.)
Virginia Beach, VA
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Mark posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing this tribute to your father, truly a man for all ages. God bless you all, and your mom has been waiting with love for his partnership forever. Hope they still have the same address!
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Gloria Jean Baker posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is a wonderful obituary. I’m sure you miss your Dad dearly, but I’m sure he is in Heaven, yelling “Fart” and pulling pranks on Jesus.
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Debi Hillyer posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
God bless your Dad. He was a hoot. I smiled, laughed n even got a tear or two reading his exploits. He kept the childlike joy alive all of his life. What a remarkable man. His friends n family were lucky indeed. May God comfort you all in the days ahead. On the sad days....I'm sure Dad will send a joke or two to get you thru. Blessings!!!!
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KELLI MCCRARY posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an awesome obit! I'm sure it's a true reflection of your dad. How lovely to look back on this and remember him with laughter. I bet he's proud!
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Kevin Clark posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
At ease Seabee, your watch is over. We shall carry on from here.
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David Miller posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Archie Bunker and Benny Hill are two of my favorites. I would've loved to have known him!
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Bonnie Dilmore posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am from a small town in Louisiana and did not know your Dad. But I love your loving obituary for him. Through it I can see how much you loved him. I lost my dad at the age of 51 and I had just turned 19. I still miss him every day. I think the 2 of them would have made great friends. My heart goes out to all of you at this time. By the way my dad was also a dump diver. R
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Erin K posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your Dad sounds like a wonderful soul, and you did a great job with his obit. I am sorry for your families loss, but glad you got to have this wonderful person in your life. Laughter is the best, and it sounds like you were able to grow up with a lot of it. I hope the funeral today is as colorful as his life seems to have been and that you enjoy the memories that will be shared!
From Maryland,
Erin
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Gary Morgan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sounds my kind of guy. May he Rest In Peace. What a wonderful tribute, thanks for sharing.
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Richard Brand posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences, I did not know Joseph, but after reading his obituary I wish I had. He sounds like the kind of person everyone should have in their lives. The world would be a better place with more people like him. Thank you for sharing memories of Joe with us. Peace and love.
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Philippe Etchenique posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I would have loved to meet the "monster"! I going to look for him, soon... I need to keep laughing!
I am sure many friends and family members will miss him very much.
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Tom posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I wish I knew Joe. He sounded like a great dad, husband, friend and grand-father. Sounds like he left you with many memories, and is really still with you.
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Karen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Laughing out loud at your memories of your father!! It will indeed be a sad world if all the pranksters, all the colorful language specialists, honest Abe’s did not share this dull life with us! Stay strong and carry on the tradition!!
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Harold & Maude posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
We are really sorry for his passing, would love to be there though, you know it!!
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Judith Crook posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
On July 9 my husband passed away at the age of 83. After reading this lovely tribute I do believe that my husband and Joseph are together and heaven help heaven for these two will be awesome. Please accept my sympathy for your family s lost.
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Debbie Hughes posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
As my ex-mother-in-law used to say "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree."
P.S. I used to call my mother "snap-jaws."
Debbie
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Markie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I enjoyed reading this obituary I couldn’t help but laugh he sound like a very funny and entertaining Guy who loved and lived life!! I hope his antics rubbed off on one of the grandkids or his own children. It definitely rubbed off on me and I vow to live life and enjoy every moment with laughter and a joke of some sort! Rest in Heaven big fella you sound like my type of funny.
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Jon r posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences for your loss, what a great man.. I literally laughed so hard, I cried when I read about “As-hole” the dog.. Thank you for making my day with that Obit.. joe, RIP, you’re an inspiration to all of us!
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William Stanley posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I also just read his obituary and as a fellow former Seabee, I see that I am not the only one who has this affliction for a sense of humor. I wish to send my condolences and say God Speed brother. You will be missed.
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Joni posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sympathies from Pittsburgh. Sounds like your Dad was a great guy!
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Dee posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I saw a link to this obituary and had to read it. He sounds like he was a wonderful friend and father, and reminds me of my own. Treasure your memories, and keep his memory alive by not only talking of him often, but passing on his wisdom (aka pranks and jokes) to the younger ones. Nothing makes you so proud as the moment your child does something that you first saw your father do (especially if they get away with it). May God bless you and your family.
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Scott Koenig posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
After reading the most epic obituaries I've ever seen, I regret that I didn't know Joe. The love, and respect this fun, funny and homespun tale expressed is evident. I genuinely hope my surviving family can reminisce about any of my nonsense as fondly one day. Sitting here in my t-shirt (clean) I pay my respects and send my deepest and warmest wishes to his family so that this crazy nonsense fills their minds rather than any shred of sadness over his departure to rejoin his wife in Heaven.
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Robert Morris posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a send-off! Joe sounds like the father and friend that we all wish we had! I did t know Joe but I know that he has an awesome family and will be smiling ear to ear down from Heaven on his children and friends forever! God Bless you all and may Joe forever Rest In Peace!
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Jeanne McCrea posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but I know I would have enjoyed based on his colorful character portrayed in his obituary. May he Rest In Peace.
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Randy Aven posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thought this Obit was about me!
Sure wish I knew your father. Sounds like a great guy! God bless you all and him.
Sincerely,
Randy Aven
San Diego, CA
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Dawn Garcynski posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I cannot say I have ever had the good (or bad) fortune of meeting this man, but wish I had. The testament to what a wonderful person he was can be found in the loving tribute by his daughters and it is clear the humor passed onto the author of the obituary. God bless you and your family, as he always has by filling your lives with such a memorable character! I have no doubt he is very proud of all of you!
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hal gregory posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
so, in reading as many have done of this obit i had to look for it and read it myself, i really wish i had met Joe or someone that loved life obviously as much as he did. but instead i will have to be satisfied with the friends and family i am stuck with.
i passed this along to them, we thought at first road trip, cause i mean there is gonna be food, but knew we would never make it
so instead, tonight in Joes honor we will all meet at our local watering hole and salute Joe with stories of our past, then tomorrow morning, we will meet for breakfast and coffee and talk about the old days, which many if us are lucky to remember
i am sorry for your loss i know Joe will be greatly missed, i miss him and never met him
god bless yall we will be thinking of you
hal gregory
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Anthony Stauss posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for sharing this very loving tribute. It made my day. I am sorry for your loss, but, such a celebration of his life!!
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Maureen Archambault posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know Joe or his family, but after reading this tribute I really wish I got to meet him! He sounds like the son, brother, husband, and father that everyone wishes for in their life! What a remarkable man and quit the character! My you find joy in all your memories of Joe. God Bless. Maureen from Massachusetts
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Jon posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I send my condolences from Chicago. This obituary is awesome. Joe sounded like he was a hoot to be around. We need more Joe's in this world.
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Eric Vasquez posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
He reminds me of my father. I think those two will be friends in the hereafter!! Never lose the gift that he gave you: the ability to laugh!!
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers (smiles) are with you.
Sincerely,
Eric A. Vasquez
Florence, Mississippi
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Nelson Van Haelst posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Seldom do words capture a spirit in flight, such as you have done with your colorful obituary of your father, God Bless you as you don your favorite T-Shirt and bid adieu to a man who sounds like he captured life by the tail and drug it around.
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Susan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is truly one of the best obituaries I’ve ever read. Thanks for the out loud laughs. I would have loved Joe. Well, actually I do now love Joe.
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Annette Solevo posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Absolutely wonderful obituary, every word was filled with loving memories. You are all so blessed to have been a part of his life. When it comes to humor, it seems the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.
My sincere condolences for your loss.
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Shawn Ward posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Shipmate I did not know you personally.
You were the cantankerous SOB we all strive to be.
Well played kids on the epic obituary.
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Vanessa Williams posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I just had to pay my condolences to your family. I read about your Father on Yahoo. Sounds like a great guy. I would have loved him. I hope he's in heaven making all the other Angels rolls their eyes and Laugh. Thank you for sharing
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Dilissa Milburn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your beloved father sounds like the best guy in the world. May God bless all of you.
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F. Tappen posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a fantastic and memorable obit. As a fellow prankster and general cause of my wife's head shaking and face palming, I feel enlightened and warmed by your reverence and kind words.
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The Hance Family from College Station, TX posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To the family of Mr. Joseph A. Heller, Jr. - Our deepest condolences on the passing of your dad. From the obituary, he sounded like a wonderful father and friend. His obituary picture and being a prankster remind me of my older brother Tony who is also up in heaven. We lost him to a massive stroke in 2017. I bet that Tony and your dad will be pranking the poor souls up in heavin : )
We are sorry for your loss but you have some great memories. Peace and Love from Texas.
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Sharon S. Austin, TX posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I'm sure your Dad is smiling down on you! What a wonderful tribute. Bless you all.
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Al Corneau posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The world is as I view it too short on “Joes” and way too long on grim, serious, boring people who spend their lives trying to inoculate everyone else in the world to their point of view. God bless the Joes of this world May their numbers increase.
Way “too” serious Al
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Bernie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your words showed you clearly loved your dad and that he is /was quite a character. It sounds like he found the secret to eternal happiness; smile / laugh and the world laughs with you!
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Jeff Smith posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I was reading the Top 5 from CNN today and there was this little bit at the end about a CT. man witha a comedic obituary and of course comedic obit got me and, CT. man, wow! Joe Heller??? Sounds familar??? I open up the obit and see the picture of Joe and I say to myself, " I know him!" As I'm reading through the obituary, I"m saying, "that's right, I met up with him at the dump a few times back in the day, had a cup of coffee or 2 or 3 here and there." We'd meet up in the winter occasionally. He was plowing the roads in the area where I was plowing a couple of driveways. What really brought back the memories though was Joe coming to our house on Summerfield Rd. in Old Saybrook when I was just a kid to deliver oil in a beautiful yellow Diamond Reo with Bombaci Oil on the tank. I thought he was such a cool guy then. The way he joked with me, my brother, and my parents. You'd looked forward to seeing Joe coming back in his oil truck. And see, Joe was always just a really cool guy all his life. R.I.P. Joe
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A fsn from Florida posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I would have loved to have known this guy!
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Carlene G. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Deepest condolences from northern Indiana ~
I sure hope I live a life as memorable and noteworthy (to my loved ones) as your Joe. The impact he has made on so many lives is clear in your writing, and in the distance his story has traveled in such a brief time. Thanks so very much for sharing him with all of us.
Carlene
Indiana
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Sandra Pearson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a Treasure of a family ! You were Truly BLESSED to have a dad with so much Love for Life and for you all !!
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Brad Foster posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
He seems just like the kind of person I would run around with. I hope he knew the Lord because believe it or not he loves a good prank as well.
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Linda Robbins posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I read a snippet of the obituary from the news and had to read it in full. What a great childhood you girls must have had. Thank you to your father for his service to our country. Life is too short not to laugh at every opportunity.
My condolences.
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Cole Satterwhite posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am from a small town in Iowa, my grandfather passed away three years ago yesterday. After reading Josephs obituary, I feel like I know him. I wish I could have met him, so today to honor his life I will play a prank on a family member and think of Joseph Heller. Back to my grandpa, he was also a volunteer firefighter. He was also known for playing rediculous pranks on co-workers and random people around town. My grandpa also was a snow removal man for the city and on his route, he would regularly make sure to bury a man's car and driveway, this victim would just be finishing his snow removal when my grandpa would do this. I am sorry for your loss and I am happy I was able to meet Joseph today through his obituary. I hope he is reunited with Fart:)
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GAVIN M HILL posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
a Life well Lived. Sounds like he skidded into death on a Harley, full of piss and vinegar! Exactly how I wanna go!
God Rest
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Cinde Waller posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joe sounded like a wonderful man! God Bless, Heaven has its hands full and I hear the angels giggling. Many Blessings to those left behind. I’m sure he will be missed immensely.
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Carolyn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know your father personally, but I sure feel like I do now! What a great man and what a fantastic life he lived! I will keep your family in my thoughts. Sending love!
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Erich posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
As a Navy veteran, I salute a shipmate I never knew. One things for sure, he truly passed on his love of life and humor to the ones he loved. As we say in the Navy, “Fair winds and following seas!”
Salute!
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Warren L Bachman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
If only I could have such memories of a father like Joe. My dad was awesome in his own ways but not cool, groovy, silly, loud, abusive or an outrageous dresser connected to his family like Joe was.
Thank you for making my day with sharing your obvious joy and love for Crazy Joe !
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Brendan Hayes posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Hi,
I have no memory of your father but what a joy it was to read his obituary.
Since I like to swim my own wish for burial is to be cremated, spread across a pool or lake and have all my swimming friend do cannonballs on me! Probably won’t happen but I can always dream.
Brendan Hayes
Fort Worth, TX
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Savannah Downs posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Although I’ve never known Joe, I feel like i’ve spent a lifetime getting to know him. Thank you for this incredible obituary. It really made my day. Joe reminds me a lot of my grandpa that passed away in 2017. Maybe they’ll see each other up there and have a nice laugh. All of my best wishes to your family. I can already hear his mom screaming “fart” in heaven with him.
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Maureen McCabe posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Rest in peace Joseph Heller. In death as in life, you have added to the world, with a loving family that would share you with the world. It would have been a pleasure (pain?) to have known you sir.
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Jim Hannon Jr posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Did not know him but he sounds like he loved his family and they loved him. Life has a different path for some and he sure must have enjoyed his path.
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Terry L. Lewis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This is priceless! I didn’t know him, but it sounds like you couldn’t have honored him more!
When you walk through the gates yourself, check for a water bucket over the door!
My condolences for your loss, but my admiration for such a wonderful tribute!
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Whitney posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Prayers to the family of his. He sounded like a great man! I am jealous I never came across him though as we have almost the same personality! Now, enjoy heaven while not in pain, prank others, name your animals funny names, be in appropriate whenever you feel like it, take as many naps as you'd like, re-visit your old pals, and watch over your loved ones down below.
Thank you to the daughter who wrote this, it surely made my day!
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Art posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Deepest condolences to the family during this time. The obit speaks volumes of the love and respect this man obtained during his time.
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Nic posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My sincere condolences to you all and, frankly, I'm currently feeling the loss of this man I never knew. The joy, love, and unmistakable hilarity that filled your world during his lifetime (and yours) is abundantly clear. I'm so grateful that I came across his obituary, but I wish I knew him in life. He truly seems like an amazing man. How I ended up in tears by the end is beyond me, but I almost want to venture to CT (I'm in nearby MA so it's not THAT much of a stretch) to pay my respects to this man and and the witty family that had a deep love for him and a wonderful sense to write such a (seemingly) fitting tribute. Rest in peace, good man. My best to you all as you find your way through the coming days and years without him... and you will, because I'm sure he made sure of it.
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Eric Lutz posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a blessed family you all are to have such a colorful person haunting you forever! Peace and love (and pranks)
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Terrie Kyle posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To the Heller family,
I do not know any of you, nor did I know Joe, however, I wish I had.
His obituary, was worth every penny he had!! It has made its way around the country. I'm in VA, if I could I would make the fun tonight. I do have the proper attire ;)
May you find peace now that he is back with your mom.
Terrie Kyle
Hampton VA
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Nikki posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you for making the world brighter, Joe. You remind me so much of my Pap. Maybe you'll meet up there, I'm sure your wives would LOVE that! You've obviously passed your good nature onto your daughters, may you rest in peace.
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Adam Frederick posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I have never felt such love and loss for a person I never met before. I read about your dad on WGAL.com - Lancaster, PA's local news station. I am so sad that I never got to meet Joe in person, but your wonderful "ode" to him makes me feel as though I have. You are truly blessed to have had such a man in your life. Thank you for sharing just a little part of him with all of us.
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Stacey G posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences to the family of Mr. Heller. The amazingly written obituary speaks volumes about how this man lived his life and loved his family. He reminds me of my own father who always loves a good prank. While I have never had the pleasure of meeting or knowing this man, after reading about his life it makes me wish I had.
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JFE posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A beautiful remembrance. I'm a overweight gay man with a shirt that says "Cuddle Monster" that I wish I could wear to the funeral, but alas I will be unable to make it.
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J Polits posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an amazing tribute...sounds like you have a lifetime of wonderful memories!!!
I am sorry for your loss.
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Alan Campbell posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
So sorry for your loss. I wish I had met him.
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Essie Baldwin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
God Bless your family and what a wonderful way to grow up. Death as we all know is certain and this is the most touching obituary I have read funny too.
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Colleen Claflin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe but what an interesting character to say the least. Would have loved to have known him. ♥️ I wish him well on the next leg of his journey.
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Stan L posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
After reading about Joe, I could tell he was the most outstanding and funniest man, and I wish I knew him when he was alive. Please accept the deepest condolences on your loss.
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Tia Grosser from Pittsburgh Pa posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but i wish I did!!! RIP
Thanks for making so many in the world smile, even after death. :-)
My sincere condolences for your loss.
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Kara Brooks posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
After seeing the story online and reading his obituary, I can honestly say that Joe was a man I would have loved to know. He and my late father would have gotten on like a house afire. What a lovely, loving, happy life you must have had with him as your Dad. I will tip a glass (okay, a cup of tea since I'm at work) in his honor. Blessings to you all.
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Jan Zulkeski posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The world is shining a whole lot less bright since Joe's passing, and oh, the heaps of crap that will now remain at the landfills! What a wonderful guy and what a character. Why don't we have more Joe's in the world? Oh right, there could be only one Joe. How blessed you all were to have been his family.
My sincere condolences for your loss.
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Dr. John R Sampson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I never met Joe, but your obituary is quite whimsical. Hope your lives have positive returns.
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Lexi W posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To the Heller family,
I am truly sorry for your loss. I do not know Joe, but I know this obituary was beautifully written, and came from the heart. I laughed, smiled, and by the end of reading it I had tears in my eyes. May his love for laughter and fun continue to follow you all the rest of your days.
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Strickland and Donna Hyde posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
To all of the Heller family:
So sorry to know that your Dad is finally getting his wish. I trust and know that you all will miss him. I last spoke with him at the Shoreline Clinic and I could tell he was not happy and now he is without the pain.
Hang in there it is not easy to accept death, but knowing that he is no longer in pain, he may be out of his pain.
Love
Strick and Donna Hyde
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Karyn Adler Fasel posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
How sad I am that I never had the opportunity to know your amazing dad, whose legacy includes leaving amazing daughters to carry on his humor. Thank you for sharing your dad with all of us!
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WILLIAM D SANDERS posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences on your loss. Lost my father 7 weeks ago, also 82 years old and born Jan 22nd, 1937. My father was also in the Navy as was your father. They would have made a great pair, minus your dad's pranks. LOL.
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LoriG posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
A friend had reposted this & I’m still laughing! Happens to be my BD today, so along with sharing your memories I’d been thinking of my own dad who left the planet in 1981 & also had the ‘sillies.’ Condolences to your entire family & thank you, ladies, for sharing. You done your dad proud! a neighbor in Chester.
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Russell B. Dobbyn posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
In the spirit of Joe's wit: Yahoo news linked to his wonderful tribute. As soon as I saw "Seabees," I wondered where was that unit's Homeport? Well later on I read the gifts are to be given to the Gulfport, Miss [my home town]. Homeport vice Port Hueneme, Calif.; why was he not buried in Biloxi National Cemetery? Then, I could have met some of his great family members. He will surely be missed, but the memories of his care-free life will lessen and shorten the pain of his passing. Fair Winds and Following Seas.
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Mike Bodrogkozi posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow , holy shit. What a touching obit.
Even though it was hilarious , I strangely found myself laughing and crying. Chap I wish I'd met. I'm also a mega prankster.
Mike.
London , Ontario , Canada
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Nancy S. posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your dad would be so proud of you for "pranking" him like this! I hope my family will remember me in this beautiful way that is designed to lessen the blow of losing one of the funniest people they ever met, whether they agreed or not! All my respect and admiration....
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Marieke Giasson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Thank you so much for sharing your father with those of us who never had the privilege to know him. I’ve never laughed and teared up reading the obituary of someone I never met before. He sounds like was a wonderful, hilarious, and probably annoying guy who loved and lived with his whole heart. My condolences to you for your loss.
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Dodi posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn't know your dad but I really wish I had met him. This is a wonderful tribute to him. I'm sure there will be many tears of laughter today as you celebrate his life.
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Rugby Lad posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow, you can't say much more, a life lived full. Best to you Joe on your next big adventure. Heller family my condolences for the loss of your Dad, but what a man. Best to you all.
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Douglas Majors posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
P.S, Your father, Joe can also be credited to solving the roaming dog problem in our town. His license plate "Dawg Ketcher" kept the problem in check for many years.
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know your father but his obit was shared by a friend. He sounds like he was a lot of fun and reminds me a lot of my Papa who died in 2011. Funny and loving and a smart ass. I'm sorry for your great loss.
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Rich Conway posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Dear Family,
This was easily the best obituary I have ever stumbled upon. I wasn't expecting to be laughing out loud at my desk this morning. I honestly wish I knew this man. He was clearly extraordinary and raised some amazing kids.
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Robert Kharter posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
That was an awesome obituary.
Definitely a man I could sit and have a beer with.
Sorry for your loss.
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Thank you for the smile; I needed that posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My dad just died, my best friend, and the only one in the family who appreciated, loved me and shared my sense of humor. He would have loved this! and his is how I would have loved to have honored him [not the stuffed shirt way those "in charge" made it]. I had my own private irreverent memorial for him. Thank you. Sending love to you.
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Loretta Wright posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Dear Family,
I did not know your father but I could not pass up reading his obituary as there was much hype about it. I'm glad I did. By all accounts your father lived his life well and made the world we live in a much better place. Thankfully men like Joe are not extinct but he was your Joe and I am sorry for your loss. You honored the life and legacy of your father in a way that I'm sure matched his personality. He had to be a great man and your mother a terrific lady and host for chaperoning your father on their journey. I briefly lived in New Haven in 2001/2002 the winter got the best of me so I headed back home to Virginia. My brother, however, calls New Haven home. He is Ron C. Hurt, Ward 3 Alderman and we offer our heartfelt condolences to your and yours.
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Cameo Ellis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I did not know Joe, I wish I had, but I wanted to say I throughly enjoyed reading his obituary. I am sorry for your loss. For the loss of such a prankster who I’m sure kept everyone on their toes. May you all have fantastic stories to tell as you sort his “crap”.
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Zach Vrooman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I found a link to your father's obituary on Facebook and read it aloud to my coworkers, in between fits of laughter. On behalf of the guys at my shop, I offer our deepest condolences. We all agree that your dad was our kind of guy.
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Ty Rose posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
You girls apparently learned from the best and no doubt have made your dad proud. As a Funeral Celebrant I’ve led hundreds of Life Tribute Services & read a multitude of obits ...what you have written for your dad is one of the very best! This world is a better place because Joe Heller walked among us. Thank you for brightening my day in the midst of your grief! May your journey of grief be filled with comfort, peace and undoubtedly many smiles.
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Karen Morelli posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Best Obit ever! I worked with his wife Irene - a wonderful person.
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Mike Kretz posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I sure he would get a hearty chuckle out of this. Wish I could have known him.
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Cindy Saylor posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an awesome tribute for a much-loved man. I hope one of his kids or grandchildren got his prankster gene to carry on Joe’s legacy. Wish I had known him.
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Gabe posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Without question this is the greatest tribute any father could ever get from his family. I never met him, but clearly he passed along his gift of humour to his family. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories from a truly blessed life. We should all be so lucky, to be this well understood and loved for who we are. I’ll be around tomorrow afternoon to pick up my birdseed.
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Douglas Majors posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry to hear about the passing of Joe. I feel I have to respond to his passing because he contributed to saving my life about 20 years ago when I was having problems with the demise of my marriage. I wish I could have known your father better. I made it a habit to wave to him when we met on the street with our cars. The passing of Joe is a reminder that life does not last forever, too bad.
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Dad posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Well you girls did it! The last laugh is on me ,you never gonna rest till you read them all.and they keep coming from every where!!had to use this prankster to get one more in on you.P S that’s not junk auction that shit off now everyone wants a peace of memorabilia.Dots and crossed T love ya
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Rick Pelton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Sorry for your loss, but thanks for the great obituary, we lost our father, the man, not the prayer, in May. He and your dad would have gotten along famously. We’re from CT, too, and it’s probably a good thing they never met, I don’t think the Nutmeg state could have handled it. We believe that our dad will be getting our mansions ready in heaven. If he and Joe are building them, we’re definitely going to get an inspection before going in! Enjoy the wonderful memories your dad gave you, we still laugh at all the antics. Peace...
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Sue posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your Dad is laughing his ass off right now. No better tribute to a life well lived and loved.
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Ken posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This - this is how to live your life. The internet is a wonderful thing and this was, hands-down, the best tribute to a life that I've ever read. To the family and friends - so very sorry for your loss He sounds like a wonderful guy and someone I would've been great friends with. I'm gonna have to look him up when I get there.
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Cjhristy Payton posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Oh how I wish I could've been part of this family! Joe seemed to lived an awesome life. Life is much better when you put laughter in it. I have always hid behind doors and scared my kids ( they were 6 ) Poured cold water on them while they were in the shower, put a clear rubber band on the sink sprayer so when they turned on the water..well you know.. One more when they got older, would be offer them some hot chocolate and tell them I would bring it to them when it was ready. I would bring them an empty cup and pretend to trip and spill the cup on their laps..Oh to see them jump...I would've love Joe...MY HERO
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Justin Klug posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
If I can get HALF the obituary that Joe got I'll have lived a great life!
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Carol Smith posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Your beautiful, loving description of your dad brought me to tears as I was smiling. I hope he meets my pop in heaven as they sound like they could be best buds.
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DEBRA KINNE posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
May God bless him! He seems like my kind of guy! How lucky you were to have had him in your lives!
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Tuco1972Army posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Rest in peace prankster. Don’t lock the gates.
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Leslie posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences on the passing of your father - it sounds like an awesome guy and was very well loved! Wish I had met him!
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Erica posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Wow!!! That's all I can say really. I love that fact that finally a family has the guts to write the whole truth about their loved one. I always said I don't want mine saying "She went peacefully"....Nope I want to go kicking and screaming. What a legacy this man has left. You all will forever be laughing and that is what Joe left behind. You all do not need prayers to help you through. You just keep talking and keeping up the pranks and he will forever be remembered.
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Roger E. Grippe posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I feel that my life is diminished not having ever met any of you, or Joe. A brilliant obituary. Your are our kind of people, and for that, I am grateful. I thought our family were the only whackos in the world. RIP Joe, and for the rest of you - celebrate the nonsense unreservedly! Thanks for sharing... a dog named “Fart”, really?
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Joe amaral posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I came across the obit on a yahoo news posting. . I know loosing a family member is hard. There is that hole in your heart that void that can never be filled in your lives but you will have some GREAT memories fall back on I wish there were more people like Joe around the world would be a better place .being from Bermuda my god father was stationed at the NAval base and he would tell stories of the Seabee fellas and some of the pranks they would pull on island and I am wondering if joe had anything to do with them there never was enough black rum or rum swizzles to keep the out of trouble my thoughts and prayers to your family
Joe Amaral
Smiths
Bermuda
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Brenda Bryant posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know Joe, but apparently I should have. Here in Florida we have quite a few folks that would have benefitted from his attention — his deflation of extreme ego through absurdly costumed pranks would have been very welcome. My father, Charlie, and his brother, Ed, would have really appreciated Joe — and likely shared large collections of reclaimed objects that are likely still being sought by folks who accidentally tossed them in the dump. Although Joe probably would have objected, please accept my sincere condolences — you need to elect someone to fill the large gap Joe will leave, assuming anybody could. And I am sure hundreds of us deprived of Joe’s attentions will express our heartfelt sympathies on your loss.
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Kenneth posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
D*AMMIT ALL! I have never met Joe or his family, but it would've been considerate of him to have planned his demise way ahead time so people could've requested time off to visit him and his victims (family and close friends) on his death cruise. I would wear my "Quesa deal wit it" t-shirt. I feel like i'm missing a concert of my favorite musical artist. Bon voyage Joe!
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Rodger Burnich posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Somehow I feel both disheartened and relieved in not knowing Joe. It is clear that God loved Joe by proving him with a loving family who obviously cherished him and with a long life so they could enjoy him for as long as possible.
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Twilla Burns posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Please forgive me but this made my morning! This tickled my soul (the obituary)... why my husband said he is ready to take up the prankster reigns! Seabees “Can Do” and it seems like he did by living life! My condolences to your family and I’ll pray for your mom!
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Jean Pearson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My sincere condolences to you on the loss of your dad. There is no doubt that he was one of a kind. I met and worked with him in the lab at Chesebrough Ponds in the late 60's along with Joe Powers. What a duo! They set themselves up as samplers for the cough syrup and the fun ensued. Always a smile, always a joke, always a friend. He was quite unforgettable! I'm sure that you'll find peace and joy in being so fortunate to have had him as your Dad. By the way, I can still see the picture of you three girls that we saw often. You were all well loved!
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Jeri in Georgia posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I do not know your family or your incredible dad, but I do know I have to tell you how thankful I am that y’all had the balls to break the mold with your dad’s obit. He is one proud papa!!! I really enjoyed reading and I know writing it brought you great joy as well. Great job and good luck with handling Asshole.
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JR Relleh A. Hpesoh posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I would have loved to have met him. RIP.
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Shari Ackerman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What a tribute!! I didn’t know your father, but wish I had. He is lucky to have a wonderful family like all of you! My father is off the wall and similar in many ways... thanks for the idea! He has a huge scotch bottle in his kitchen that he tells everyone is his urn, because I promised to open it when he died, have a party and drink the scotch, but leave some in the bottom so I can add his ashes to it... seal it up and toss him overboard a cruise ship so he can sail and get drunk the rest of his days!
I am sorry for your loss, but happy for you for your memories!!
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A Joe fan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences to the family. I did not know Joe, but found a link to his obit on Yahoo. I just wish I knew him and his family, and be able to attend the celebration of his life. Enjoy the memories!
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Andie Marais posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
What an awesome tribute, and a wonderful gift of humor your dad left you. Clearly, his memory lives on. I’m sorry for your loss. I didn’t know your dad, but I wish I did. I hope for years to come you will be reminded of silly things he did or said that will make you giggle and snort at the most inappropriate moments.
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Laura Mikesell posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
The world sounded like a better place with Joe in it. I’m sorry for your loss. Great obit!
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Al posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
OMG! Clearly his apples didn't fall far from his tree!! Absolutely brilliant. I wish I knew your dad and his entire family
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Jon Lemelin posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know. But after reading your “tribute”, I wish that I had. And, since I rarely turn down an offer for a cup of coffee, I’ll have a cup in his honor. Thank you.
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Deborah posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Well done. The life lived; the service to others; the kids raised; the love given - well done.
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John Pearson posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Such a magnificent, well-penned tribute that I can only hope my descendants can do the same (or get close). My condolences on your loss in addition to my appreciation of your words.
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Kimberly Coleman posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
It appears that the apples (family and friends) on Joe’s tree didn’t fall far. Your dad sounded like a man I would have loved to know. Thanks for sharing a bit of him with this obituary.
And my condolences.
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Michael Graves posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
We never met, but you made me smile. Thank you & Rest Well, Sir..
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Crystal posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Like many, I stumbled across Joe's obit from a Yahoo post. I sure wish I'd had the chance to know Joe. I think we could've been great friends...he sounds just like my kind of people! My sincerest condolences to the family.
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Ron Williams posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I enjoyed reading about Joe... I live in California now and found his Obit through a Yahoo! News post... from People website. I know his legacy will continue on in the lives of those who knew him. Sorry to say I wasn't one of them. May he rest in peace.
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Kim Green posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Rest in Peace. It's always the good one that leave this world. My you have our loved one that have gone ahead, laughing as hard as you had your family. It was nice of your family to allow us to read your obituary so we could get a sense of a very funny man. In today world laughter is missing, cause laughing relaxes the anger. Don't prank God to much and make heaven even funner. God Bless
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Camille Green posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. I read it on yahoo. I thought my dad played a lot of pranks on us as a family but your dad out did mine big time. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I know just what you are going through, my mom passed away June 24, 2019 and I never knew it was going to be so hard to have her gone. Dad and I took care of her for 4-1/2 years, she had Dementia and was starting to get Parkinson's Disease. If you all ever need to talk or chat or just vent, I am on facebook under Camille Green, Murray, Utah, I am dressed in white and I where glasses with brown hair and it will say Murray High School Spartans. My facebook page will have a cat on it. You all have a special place in my heart and I will always be thinking of all of you and praying for all of you. I am here if you need to talk, chat or just to vent.
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Randall Shadoan posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Very sorry to hear about your families loss. Very nice Obituary. I guess that could be one of him cause im always a trouble maker and full of funny pranks. People that know me even at work that if Im not picking on someone or playing pranks on them then I must be having a bad day. I have a little Mitsubishi Mirage in which I have installed under the hood to have fun with. Im 60 and dont see a reason to grow up. Rest in peace Sir. God bless your family.
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Constancia posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I didn’t know you father, I knew my own Dad who could’ve been related to your father..That tells me how fortunate both of our families are...To have Dad’s that were the happiest & fun loving & let not forget the craziest fathers...When I lost my Dad I was sad as you are but so fortunate to have him in my life...I know our Dad’s are up in heaven cracking up & exchange stories to which one was the craziest.....
My Dad would told me & my family when he knew the end was coming don’t be sad or cry I’m still w/you every time u laugh at a joke or gag you hear because it’s really ME Or JOE.... Possibly both of US...
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Stacy Greathouse posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My HEART BREAKS 4 his Daughters, PLEASE know my Prayers are with yall...
I'm gonna STOP nice Bullsh*ing version I would Normally leave a stranger about losing your Rock in this world u called "Dad".
UNFORTUNATELY I KNOW
Losing a parent is a club MOST ppl NEVER want2 be member bc our folks prayed they Never bury 1 us first...
This Shit SUX Balls as it will repeatedly hit u in face like ball out of left field.. THANK U 4 SHARING ur Funny AF memories in Dad's obit, It REALLY Makes me think I NEED 2 KNOW MORE PPL like yall..
It gave us "hillbillies a good f'in laugh" Ntm I mentioned, a few lines I will be "borrowing for my obit sumday... lmfao
Keep STRONG and I will include my home address for my plate of food 2 be mailed since I gotta pretent 2adult this week... I just feel he was someone who wouldn't food go2 waste..
THANK U 4 SHARING an AMAZING DAD w this shitty world it REALLY MAKES LIFE BRIGHTER
Almost Gives me hope 4 humanity ...
Stop by ever this way for real.... Laughter is ONLY REASON I HAVEN'T Off'd most days ,, GOD is GoOD
Can't afford 2 call since my collect calls r denied nowdays...
*** The Greathouse Girls
Brunswick, Ohio
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Molly posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
This was shared in a genealogy group I'm in.
Condolences to the friends and family of John. He seemed like quite the character. I bet he was the life of the party when he wasn't dozing off.
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Serai Harper posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
How sad I am to hear of Joe's passing. Joe and I met in 1973 at the entrance to the hedge maze at the Overlook Hotel in Colorado. I was taking a walk; Joe was setting up a classic bucket-of-water booby trap over the entrance to the maze. Only instead of water, he'd filled the bucket with warm oatmeal and wood shavings. When I warned him the manager was heading over there with a group of VIP tourists, Joe just laughed and said, "Great! They're going to love this!" I never forgot his twinkling smile, or the three-foot-tall rabbit ears he wore with his powder-blue tuxedo. I accompanied him around the corner to wait for the outcome, and we cracked up silently at the expletive-laden tirade that followed Joe's hearty pull on the cord. Our ensuing lunch of grilled cheese sandwiches and beer at the hotel restaurant is a memory I will always treasure - I never knew a man could put away so many pickles in one sitting! Rest in peace, Joe - I know your victims will!
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Thursday, September 12, 2019
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Sandi O'Neal posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
My condolences to the family and friends of Joseph A. Heller Jr. He reminds me very much of my grandfather, only we did not have the close relationship that you all did. You have brought laughter and joy to me and I just wanted to say thanks to all of you; family and friends, for letting me and others into your lives for just a brief moment in time to share in this wonderful man's story. Hold tight to the memories that you had, for they are worth more than all the riches in the world. By the way, today is my birthday, so I needed your father's light-hearted obituary as a pick-me-up.
Sincerely,
Sandi O'Neal
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Stephenie Drouhard posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
First, let me say how sorry I am for your loss. I love this tribute to your dad. I know he would have been an awesome person to meet. People like that are always the type to be around, you know who can make you more positive. I just know him and your mom are having a good laugh right now. Take care and keep laughing. You know he'll be watching?
Stephenie Drouhard
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Renee Rapley posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I read about Joe in People. Seems like an awesome guy that made life more enjoyable just for knowing. Laughter truly is the best medicine and invigorating to the soul. RIP Joe!
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Randy Gales posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Joe,
I just read about you on CNN and thought I would drop you a line. Dont know you...wish I did. The world is a better place with you being in it.
Thank you for your service... cant say you made the right choice with the sea bees.... you know what they say about the Navy 100 men go out 50 couples come back... (I'm retired Army) ha ha jokes on you buddy.
You can tell that your family loves you. Your a inspiration to all of us. Hopefully you have 1 last gag before the service... better yet hopefully they have something for you. Never morn a death.... always celebrate the life.
I saw when your service is... I wish I could make it.... I belive daisy dukes and a skimpy shot would be in order... lord knows what outfits you concocted over the years. I would only wear that in Hope's a laugh or a smile could be cracked....
Stay glourious.... drink 1 for me.... awww hell drink the whole dam thing. Until Valhalla my friend....
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Sasha posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
I don’t know your family or your father, but this is a class act obituary.
Celebrating your father for his true self, rather than some stuffy, politically correct ode for the sake of others.
I’m very sorry for your loss, but it sounds like you have so many fond memories, even if at your own expense.
As someone having a really bad day, thank you for sharing your story and bringing a smile to my face.
Sasha Gates
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George Maroulis posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2019
Dear Heller Family, My sincere condolences. While I didn't know Mr. Heller the departed, I miss him already.... Respectfully, George Maroulis
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Samantha Sidman posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
This is easily the best obit I’ve ever seen. Joe seems like a fantastic guy. I’ll grab a beer in my dragon costume jammies for him. Comedy!
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Greg posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I never met Joe or his family and haven’t ever set foot in Connecticut but I wanted to give my condolences. To have an obituary like that means you’ve lost one hell of a man. He obviously left the world with plenty of laugher and joy to carry you through the pain of his loss and there is nothing better than to send him off with this tribute and the most riotous funeral you can muster. Godspeed, Joe, you’re your wife’s problem now.
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Melanie Grooms posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I came across this obituary as it has gone viral and it had me smiling the whole time. Mr. Heller seemed like a wonderful person and it is obvious he will be dearly missed by many. My condolences go out to all of you and I sincerely hope all of you will receive peace and comfort.
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Chelle posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I came across this amazing story on Facebook.
Joe sounds like he was a super cool person to be around. The obituary makes you feel as if you knew him,the best one I have ever read. Many prayers for your mom now that she gets to deal with his shenanigans in heaven. Lol
Many prayers to his family since his presence and jokes are now up there.
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Rick Brady posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Ladies : that has to be the best obituary ever written ! or certainly the best I've ever seen or read .
What a beautiful picture of your father , you can see the mischief in his eyes ;-) while I never had the privilege
of meeting your dad I felt the need to send you all my warm condolences from up here in Montreal , Canada .
Joe , what an admirable life you've lived , I hope to do at least half as well as you did , and the mischief we could have caused had we'd been friends ;-) if I lived closer to your town I would have been honoured to to attend your memorial in my best black T-shirt with it's inappropriate writing ;-)
Sincere condolences to all the family .
Rick .
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Jennifer Blundell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Dear Joe’s family, My condolences on the loss of your father. I looked up his obituary after reading excerpts from an article about it on facebook. Reading this makes me feel like I knew Joe. What a send off.! You read so many obituaries or go to funerals and it doesn’t resemble anything or give a glimpse of the person they actually were. It always makes me a little sad, thinking thats all you got for their last send off? But you nailed it with this one. I love pranks and making people laugh, mostly at their own expense, so I relate! While reading it I couldn’t help but think, wow, this is an example of a life well lived. In this serious and stressful world we should all learn a lesson from Joe!! I’ve never crashed a funeral before but if I lived closer this may have been my first...just to hear more of the stories. My prayers are with you all in the days ahead. Thank you for giving a true humorous glimpse of the person your father was. Godspeed Mr. Heller
Jenn from Oklahoma
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Beatrice Nicoletti posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Best obituary I’ve ever read! My father and grandfather would have died laughing! ❤️
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Evelyn posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I didn't know your dad but he sure sounds like someone I could get along with. My condolences to to the whole family, sounds like he was a great husband, brother, son, friend, uncle and father.
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Sarah posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I didn’t know your father, but he sounds awesome. Cherish all the great memories that you all created and keep pranking people.
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Scotty Felterass posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Joe...you got of town owing me $50. Just because it was a wild night in Atlantic City doesn’t mean you don’t owe me. If you can read this from wherever you are, let me know where to send the bill. I can’t help but think today that I wish you could talk to my ex wife. Sadly, she’s still here. Oh well. They say to close these things with the kindest thing you can say. So I wrote you a poem. Roses are red. Violets are blue. I’d have written a better Poem. But I had to shit. RIP
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Julie Kite posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Goodness me, what a great dad, who made your lives so enriched. This has touched my heart. God Bless Joe, you sound like you've earned your rest.....or at least everyone else has haha.
Julie Kite
Auckland
New Zealand
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Caryllynn Soderlund-Coblentz posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I love your father! I wish I had met him in person. He is my hero. Nothing like a person that tells it like it is.
No bullshit!!!
Wish all the world was so honest and direct.
You three girls are so lucky to have been raised by such a great and quirky guy.
I will remember your father and share him with many people.
Caryllynn Soderlund-Coblentz
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Laura Smith posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
What a loving and glorious tribute. May he rest in a state of perpetual laughter and joy!
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Jere Shea posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
My condolences on the loss of your father. Sounds like a life well lived! :-)
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Julie posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
A friend shared your fathers obituary with me this morning. I found comfort, laughter, love and a true representation of family in this beautiful obituary. He sounds like a wonderful man full of life, fun times and finding the brighter side of the daily struggles we all go through. May he find peace wherever he is and find the wife and mom to his children he so loved. May your family find comfort in knowing that he is happy and he's never going to stop pulling pranks on his next victim.
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Christopher Frey posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I am convinced that this man would have gotten exquisite pleasure from this send off. I am curious about what his epitaph might be.
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Arie posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Just read about your beloved father on CNN and had to see this obit for myself! Clearly a life lived full, perhaps overflowing and with the smoke detectors blaring! Sounds like your entire family was blessed with laughter and a sense of humour that will be a legacy fondly missed!
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Joyce Chambers posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm sad that I never got to meet Mr. Heller. Laughter makes the world go 'round as they say and it sounds like he did his fair share of supplying it. We need more people like him and I'm sorry he's passed on. But I bet he's pulling some devilish pranks up in Heaven right now.
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Andrew Jose posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I can't recall the last time I cried from laughter while reading an obituary, probably because you aren't exactly supposed to laugh while reading an obituary. I'm sorry for your loss, or I guess in your eyes, a chance to breathe and some peace and quiet for once.
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John Swingler posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I am sad that your father and I lived in same small state and never met. He sounds like quite the guy. May he Rest In Peace, and may your mother rest in as much peace as possible now that he has arrived. :)
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Loralyn Costigan posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
What a hoot your family must be! I'm sure that you will miss this old fart terribly (I sure would), but we all know, the antics MUST continue!
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Renee posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I’m so sorry for your loss. Surely there must be a HUGE void in your life!
I never knew Joe but I sure would have liked to! Thank you for sharing his personality with all of us! You were blessed!
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Mary Jacobs posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Don’t know this man but I wish I did. Thank you to whoever wrote this wonderful obit. It’s a treasure.
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Rosemary Paresi McBee posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I never knew your Dad but would have LOVED him based on your obit. I grew up in Ivoryton and left Conn in 1968. Having a beer with him would have been special! I live in WV now and can really appreciate his loyal irreverence ! Watch out Lord, he's coming!!
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Mikia posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
First, I want to offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family. Second, I want to thank you for sharing this beautifully written piece of art about your father. He sounds like the perfect blend of husband, father, provider, teacher, prankster, and mischief. Great qualities to have if you ask me.
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Ann posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I did not know Joe, but have never read a more perfect, illustrative, hilarious, and sweet obituary. That you were willing and able to honor him in this way speaks volumes about who he was.
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Linda Dreher posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
To the Heller Family,
I did not know your father personally. But having read his Obituary I so wish I did.
He sounds like a friend I would have enjoyed so very much. I myself am a bit of a pack rat as I have been told. It takes a special person to see the value in the many things around us. In fact i have a piece of a tree root that looks like a dancing lady. That many don’t see. I’m sure your dad would have seen it right away. I will do my very best to continue to greet the people I come across in my daily life. So that when I go there will be those that will miss me and I believe there will be many for your dad.
Kept some of the things he left so that looking at them will fill your heart with joy!
May he bring his joy to the Angels and I’m sure Our Father will have a special position for him!
Your family was truly Blessed to have such a man to lead it.
I will keep you all in my thoughts !
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Eric Bunch posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
First condolences on your loss and know that he is probably upstairs playing the doorbell joke on St. Peter . love this he called it like he saw it and made every day fun and interesting . Like Josh before me would have loved to meet Joe for a coffee and piece of pie just to shoot the breeze and enjoy his company. Once again condolences and take care .
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Shane Sleighter posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss. The very best gift a father can give his children is a sense of humor, which Joe has gifted to you each. It helps you get through tough times, like what you are going through now.
The second best gift a father can leave his children is, of course, a frozen goldfish.
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Eric Heim posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Found this story in the new and decided it was worth a read. Joe appears to be a great guy and loved to have a little fun. May he rest in piece. Joe, as a fellow Navy man, thank you for your service to our great nation. I will think of you when I look at our flag every day.
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Josh Smith posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I like many others wish I could have had the pleasure of meeting Joe. He sounded like a kind, generous and hilarious and fun man. Im so glad you get one more chance to put a little more joy and mischief in the world just like Joe would have wanted.
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Jess posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Beautiful story! Found this from the news and read it in all its glory:) Recently lost a loved one and this really touched my heart. Loved this!
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Jonathan C Lounsbury posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Joe was a great man, I first meet him in his role as a dog catcher. I got a used dog and it got loose on a long holiday weekend, he caught my dog on a Friday of a three day weekend. He brought my dog back to the town pound where my dog started to bark and bark and bark. All the way till Tuesday morning when I could bring my dog to get the shots he needed to be set free from the pound. Joe at that time named my dog mouth. For the next 8 or so years my dog would go on what Joe would call a walk about about once s month. On more than a couple occasions I saw Joe drive right by Mouth as he didn’t want to have to listen to that again. Joe would give me a call and tell me “Mouth is on a walk about, can’t you keep him home.”
Rest in piece my friend.
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Patrice Wondercheck posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
We should all be so lucky as to have a dad like Joe. Thanks for sharing a bit of him with the world. Deepest condolences to Joe's family.
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Kevin Conroy posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Joe, I wish I had met you, I know I would have been a better human if I had. To your family and friends, I am sorry for the loss of such an amazing person. To everyone reading these amazing words, about a man some of us didn't know - I think we should all become a little more like Joe in our daily lives
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Hugh Gurin posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
That obituary was a gift to us all. Seems like Joe's life was, as well. Condolences on his passing...and have fun at that wake.
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Jennifer posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
What a wonderful tribute to your awesome dad! I'm sure you all made him proud and I would not doubt he will be in touch from the hereafter. He just sounds like that kinda guy!
RIP Joseph!
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Sarah Cervantes posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Sounds like a wonderful human being-the kind that makes life fun and interesting. We need more of him and blessings to his family. Thanks for sharing this!
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Diane Carr posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I never met Joe Heller, but after reading his obituary, I can tell that the world is not as warm and fun a place without him. My condolences to all who will miss this wonderful man.
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JC posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
We need more peope like Joe in the world. I had one, his name was Doug. Thank you Joe for being you.
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Wednesday, September 11, 2019
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How blessed you were to have such a character in your family - Carry on!
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Trudy Sokolowski Holliday posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Years ago each one of my sons took a dog from the Essex dog pound my son Eric dog was a beagle short and fat and I mean fat. One night we could hear the dog howling and Howling but couldn't find them so we looked and looked in the yard and there he was stuck in a pipe that ran from Melody Lane to Hickory Lane in ivoryton he had chased a possum into the life and he got himself stuck so at 10 p.m. I called Joe Heller not knowing what to do when he was the dog warden and he said oh for Christ sakes I'll be right there and he came and got the dog out. He had a rough Edge for sure but Joe was a very well-loved man and I will never forget them. My deepest sympathy to his family
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Gayle Catherine posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
That is the most moving and humorous obituary I have ever read!
I did not know your father, but I can see him from your description.
How lucky you were to have him.
May you be well.
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Brenda Lyons posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
To the Heller Family,
I am so sorry for your loss, but I do have to say I have never laughed so hard after reading such a wonderful tribute to your father, he sounds like he was a hoot! I wish I had the pleasure of knowing him, and I hope that there is another family member who carries on his legacy!
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Robert Raney posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Born, raised and never lived outside of California, Joe & I never met..... and that's a damm shame (CNN brought me here with his story). My condolences to the family and friends of this man who's sense of humor seems more like a kindred spirit.
The world needs more men like Joe, I'm sorry to read you lost yours.
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A Duncan posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I grew up reading obituaries with my grandmother ... odd hobby, but it sounds like Joe might have approved. This is a new all time favorite. Prayers of comfort for the family.
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Rhonda posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your father sounded like an amazing oerson. Wish I could have met him in life. Sounds like you had to be in yiur toes not knowing when the next prank would come. Your father enjoyed life. Again your family will be in my thoughts and prayers at the passing of your amazing father.
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Ron Hirsch posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I only hope that my children do not read this touching tribute as I have provided them with many memories that they could use to "pay tribute" to me after my death as you did for your father. May his memories always bring a smile to your face.
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Aaron Roberts posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I stumbled upon Joe's obit on CNN...He sounds like a hero in my book. Rest soundly Joe and may your family find peace in your absence.
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Bill Plage posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
A wonderful tribute to your Dad, a truly unique and loving individual. The world will never be the same without him and the Town of Essex as well as it's people will miss him. May God Speed, Joe!
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Cecile M. Poirrier Bush posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Joe seems like family to me...the kind who says, We'll leave the light on for ya! To Joe...
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Wednesday, September 11, 2019
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Y Warren posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I did not know Joe, but I will pray that God will give you strength and comfort. Thank you for sharing a snipit of his life. I believe heaven has gained.
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Nancy Warner posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
We were neighbors on Woodland Drive. Joe drove past our house every day. One summer as I was weeding the garden, close to the street, with my back to the road, Joe drove by. He stopped & said "Not a bad ass, for an old broad." I laughed. wQ2qJoe loved to see if he could get a reaction out of you.
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Judy Robbins posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I am a total stranger, never laid eyes on Joe Heller, but yesterday morning while drinking my coffee, I happened upon his obituary. I have to say that his daughters inherited Joe's sense of humor and created a very 3-dimensional sketch of his larger-than-life personality. After reading his obit, I wished I had known Joe, but I feel confident that his spirit lives on in his family and those who knew him. Thanks so much for a good laugh. I've shared that obit with two others so Joe's good-natured antics are still bringing smiles to people.
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Kathleen Carpenter posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
This is the BEST Obituary I’ve ever read. It’s hilariously funny. It’s extremely honest. It describes a man who was REAL. A man who lived his life large and was a man of great humor, and trickery and love for life......and love for his children who clearly adored their Dad. I’m sorry you had to give him up......but oh the stories and memories you all have are just legendary. You’ve been blessed.....now it’s Heaven’s turn.
Thank you for sharing this extraordinary Father of yours with all of us.
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Suzanne Knibbs posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
While I never met Joe, I certainly wish I had. It's clear that he never sweat the small stuff and lived each day to the fullest. Laughter is something this works needs more of and this tribute is an homage to that. May he enjoy the afterlife carrying on his antics. My sincerest condolences to all his loved ones.
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David LaBrec posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Your Dad sound like a heck of a guy! That's the funniest obituary I've ever read. My deepest condolences.
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Julia and James Crowell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Grumpiest guy I ever encountered in Ivoryton, but found out that if you give it back to him as hard as he gave it to you, you would get a smile, especially after his bacon and maple syrup pancakes. Carry on Pops heaven awaits you with open arms.
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Amanda posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I wish I had the honor and opportunity to know this man but I did not. However reading his obituary by and far has shown me what kind of life his lived and how many lives his touched. This world is so full of negativity, losing someone like this is so terribly sad because it sounds like he brought laughter everywhere he went and frankly the world needs more of that. To his family I am so very sorry for your loss. Your tribute to his life is beautiful and I am sure just the way he would have wanted it.
Most Sincerely,
Amanda R
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Raymond Doane posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Dear family and friends of Joe,
Just a note of sorrow to learn of his passing.
I had the “good” fortune to work with Joe in the research lab at Ches/ponds many years ago. I still remember that Joe would find great pleasure in mentally, and often physically annoying and harassing me daily. He seemed to find joy in finding me a left wing hippie and the target of a his good natured abuses, that I would try and retaliate too, which of course would just encourage him more.
I honestly think those days as some of the most fun of my working career.
Joe obviously had a unique sense of humor, especially at someone else’s expense !! I will remember Joe with great fondness and know he will greatly missed by all who had the pleasure to know him.
All my best wishes to you that him in your lives, he will be missed.
Raymond Doane
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Jeff F posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Well I never knew Mr. Heller but I am truly disappointed that I never came across such a remarkable person who left so many fond memories. The family parties must have been truly entertaining with Joe at the helm!!! What a family. I feel that I am already missing Joe and his antics! I’m sure he never waited in lines, so he just jumped over that fence to reunite with his soul mate.
May he truly Rest In Peace and continue to cause trouble for his family as he looks over all of you.
Cheers!
Jeff F-R
Cromwell, CT
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Sheta Kaey posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Well, Joe, I never knew you and I sure am disappointed about that. I know you won't be happy about not being buried in the backyard (because your daughters told on you), but if it's any consolation, they composed one heck of a long and ornery obituary that is going viral. So now you're famous on the internet. Hope ya feel better now. Enjoy the afterlife, I'm sure you'll find just what you're looking for!
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Bob posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
It is apparent that many of us of been dealt a disservice in this life by not meeting this man. What a colorful character he seems to have been. My Mom was a riot and a hoot as well. Those memories got me through losing her and any bad day that comes along. I hope that his memories will do the same for your family. I can only contemplate that you folks have a huge hole to fill with his passing, but I think your memories will help fill it a bit. My sincere condolences.
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Marsha posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I never knew Joseph Heller but I miss him like crazy. What a wonderful tribute to a man who clearly had his priorities straight. Thank you for brightening my day and starting it off with several good laughs and tears. My condolences to the entire family.
May his memory be a blessing.
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Mary N Harris posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
To the Family of Comrade Heller,
I first want to offer up my most sincere condolences.
Secondly I want to say this obituary is the most loving obituary I have ever seen. I wished I was able to meet him.
You are truly blessed to have had such a wonderful person in your lives.
RIP Comrade Joe
~Mary~
US Army Veteran
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Bill Plaschke posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but this obituary made me cry with its wonderful portrayal of a life well lived and a man well loved. Bless you, and thank you, and even though I never knew Joe, I'm guessing he's damn proud.
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Angie Pietrasiewicz posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I didn’t know the man but I do know the man’s daughter who is also the author of the obituary. It takes an amazing man to raise an amazing daughter which she is in many ways. Nice work Joe! Rest In Peace.
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Diane Restivo posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
This popped up in my facebook this morning. Although I do not know him, He left this world putting a smile on the face of many people who don't know him, like myself. What a pleasure as well, as a pain in the ass, it must have been to live with him. God bless you all. Thank you for brightening my day. Diane...Andy's Oil, Waterbury
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David Cavanaugh posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Rest In Peace Joe and Jack. I’d like to hire the creator of his obit to write mine as I’m sure you can spice up my boring life!
If you think the obituary cost is high, just wait until you get the bills for the dumpsters you’ll need to clean his place out.
You should have a raffle during his services where ‘random’ winners (everyone!) gets the contents of a selected room in his home.
Thank you for the best obit and tribute ever! If I ever get a dog, I’ll be sure to use either ‘Fart’ or ‘Asshole’.... I’m leaning towards Asshole however calling that name out in public would yield a lot of animals and humans to respond!
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Leona Vocino posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
To the family. I know not you or your dad. A person in a group I belong on Facebook (Southington Talks) posted a link to your dad's life statement, sorry something this amazing isn't an obituary. I read each word & could visualize the amazing man your dad is. I especially could understand of the Archie & Benny influences lol. Please know he is very appreciative of such amazing words. When you talk with him later please mention to look up Tony Vocino while he's up getting settled, as I think they would truly enjoy each other's company. I will close in saying I leave thoughts prayers & strength to you all at this difficult time.
Warmly
Leona M Vocino
Bristol CT via Boston MA
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Gail Davitt posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
Although I never met your father the obit you wrote makes me wish I had. An unconventional man but a very loving man. He showed his love in the pranks he played. I hope when I pass that my children remember the good times we had. You really really loved your dad and he knew it by the beautiful way you have written his obituary. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Kristen posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 11, 2019
I never met your father and randomly came across this obituary—which honestly, is the most thoughtful (and quite entertaining) obituary ever written. I think you did your Dad proud. Wish I would have known him. He sounds like a hoot!
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Sandy posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
May God bless you & you father. He must have been an amazing man. I never met him, but your obit for him made me laugh literally out loud & then cry as you clearly adored your crazy father. I hope my kids see my craziness for what it’s worth.....tho for sure your father has me beat. Kiddos to him. You were truly blessed.
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Anson Clinton posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
My wife Dee and I knew Joe from his visits delivering oil to our house and kennel in Old Lyme. One of the most interesting individuals with a great sense of humor that would love to share stories with all when the time was right. My condolences to the family for he will be missed by all. RIP Joe Heller a new batch of souls in heaven to pass on those stories with that smile.
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Chris Glista posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I didn't know Mr. Heller but feel a connection. My father was also a Seabee and was also an Electrician's Mate 3rd class. I've have never met or knew anyone who shared my father's rank and duties in the service. My father passed away two years ago at the age of 95. I'm sure Mr. Heller was very proud to serve his country and I thank him for that.
My sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one.
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Leona posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Amazing life story told of someone who was loved and has loved others.
Well done. Wish I could have met him.
Be blessed family.
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Toni Morgan posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I would have loved to have met your Dad , he sounds like a fantastic and crazy man whom would have fit perfectly in my family .
I am sorry for you loss. May he Rest In Peace and that your family finds comfort in the memories you cherished.
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Lisa Marie SCATA-DeWolf posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I did not know your Dad yet I wish I had. I have to tell you this is being shared on Facebook and what a marvelous tribute to a life well lived and Enjoyed! You girls are a blessing and we can all feel the love you had for him - xoxo
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Joy posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Im so sorry for your loss. Your father sounded like a ton of fun. Reading all his antics you feel you almost knew him. I glad he had a wonderful life and spread laughter, pranks and all out craziness throughout his life. I wish i knew him reminds me of my own Dad a bit. May he be at peace. I'm sure you all will truly miss him. Thank you for sharing his lifes store.
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Lori Staib posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I remember Joe and Joe riding in the oil truck as a child and adult. He was a teddy bear and could also be a bear. He knew me in my best times and my very worst. I will always think of him with joy in my heart.
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Tuesday, September 10, 2019
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Did not know your dad, his obituary came up on my Patch app....he sounds like a great, realistic person. May your wonderful memories give you comfort.
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Beth Eustis posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
My condolences to Michelle and her sisters. I remember him well from my high school days. Wonderful obituary!
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Stephanie C posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I didn't know Joe, but this Obit came up in my Patch email. He seemed like an outstanding guy and this obit made me laugh and cry. My condolences to the family and friends. I hope he gets all the satisfaction watching everyone.
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Sarah posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I only know your father through this obituary and believe he must have been an incredible person to have daughters who can author an obituary that is seemingly perfect for the man your described. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Sue Lucco posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Wow! Whatta guy! Deepest sympathies to all! Wish I could have met him here but there will be ok too!
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Chip Adams posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
My best memory of Joe or (Big Joe Daddy) as I called him was just before I wrote this memory. His obit (one of the best) I have ever seen, made its way to Charleston SC via Facebook. He seemed liked one cool sumbeetch! Not sure if he was religious but if he was perhaps God is playing a practical joke in him now and making him wait in the maybe line. I would say I am sorry for your loss but there is nothing to be sorry about as it doesn’t seem he would have wanted it that way. Make sure you do as he wishes and enjoy the next few days or don’t, he probably doesn’t care. So, here’s to Joe! Alright then, on with life.
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Leigh posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I confess I never met your dad - or any of you - but he sounds like such a wonderful man, and was clearly so loved, that I wanted to offer my condolences and commend you on a spectacular tribute. It shows who he was and how much he enjoyed life, his family, and his friends. Blessings to all of you.
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Barbara Fountain posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Monique,
I am Karen Fountain’s mother. I met you a long time ago.
My condolences on the death of your dad.. I must say I loved your obituary. I am a year younger than your dad and when I “ kick the bucket” I hope my kids face it with the humor you showed.
(Hope they don’t have to for awhile though.)
Blessings,
Barbara Fountain
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Ron Hazlett posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Mr. Joe Heller, I have to say I don't know you personally, but I have known many over the years, either just like you, or worse,lol Heck I even had a couple of uncles who like you were consummate jokers and pranksters themselves. I wouldn't be surprised if you don't meet up with them in eternity! I would have considered it to be an honor to have known you. REST IN PEACE SEABEE!!!
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Julie murphy posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
With our deepest regret......we never got to meet him!! How wonderful for us to have met your dad..after death...We wish we had met him sooner!! Memories will last forever. God bless your dad.
Thank you for sharing a beautiful, caring and laughing obituary.
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Tuesday, September 10, 2019
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CJ posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I’ve never heard of an obituary going viral, but it’s happening... and something tells me that he would think its crazy/hilarious
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Don Wilson posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
My daughter forwarded Joe's obit to me, and I must say it made me pause, think, and laugh! Didn't have the pleasure to know Joe, but it sounds like he had a great life, and enriched those around him. My condolences from California.
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joseph a iacovelli posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Didn't know your Dad and don't know any of you. I imagine my life is all the poorer for it. What a great obit and testimony to a life that sounds like it was truly lived. Made me laugh and put a tear in my eye. God bless you guys.
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Janet posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I did not know your dad, Joe, but in all holy hell I wish I did! Your obituary about him was fantastic!!! My condolences to all of you - and wishes of good luck to your mom - who is in charge of him now. Thank you for the smile today, and I am truly sorry for your loss...
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Lynn Graham posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Your father's thoughtful and hilarious obituary could have been my father's. My dad was also "Joe," and was born in 1906, in Hartford, and died in 1990, served in the U.S. Navy and pretty much matched your loving tribute to your dad.
Bless you all for sharing so openly in such a well-written, and published obit, even if you had to pay for it! There ought to be a journalism prize for best obits, because this would win.
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Joyce Leach posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I love this heartfelt send off to a man who would have loved it.
I also had a number of Times when I would find a stray dog and Joe was Johnny on the Spot. One time a found a old dog, blind and deaf, strayed away from the care takers home. I had the dog on the side of the road waiting for Joe. Someone had called the police e and accused an old woman of trying to steal the dog. Joe told the police that the old woman was Joyce Leach. Hello I wasn’t old.
I loved this honest description of Joe because that was him. We all loved him and particularly his love and.caring of animals, family and people.
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CF posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
After reading your father's obituary, I felt compelled to send a note.
That is one of the best I have ever read, as I felt I knew him, although never had the pleasure.
What a great guy. You are all so very lucky to have called him Dad.
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Andy Werwaiss posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Michelle, Lisette and Monique - You have memorialized your father beautifully! A true character that was intimidating when I was young (he a Joe B both!), but once his humor was better understood a great role model - maybe some of my impertinence comes from knowing him growing up. Thinking of you during this transition.
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Barbara DeFrino posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Joe Heller was a heck of a guy! I live next door to Charlie O’Donnell On Old Deep River Rd. Between the two of them I can’t say who had the best stories. When they were together I missed at least an hour of time. I could never walk by Joe. He was so interesting sometimes I would forget I was stopped in the middle of the road talking window to window with him. Then suddenly I would hear beep realizing I had stopped traffic. Of course, since he owned the town, he would keep talking. I’ll always remember Joe and his Famous Bean dish he would bring to O’Donnell’s cookout. Although, I suspect his wife had something to do with it. Well Done Joe!
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Jane Gordon Julien posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
My mother died last Thursday. I read this obit today. I guffawed through my tears. Bless your hilarious hearts.
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Carol Reed posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Although I laughed hysterically when I read this obit it made me sad. Sad that I didn't know Joe and his wonderful family. You could fill a stadium with people who would buy tickets to hear even more stories. Now there's a fundraiser for you. I do believe your mom might send him back in some form or another so you girls better watch for the signs!
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Lois posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
One of the better obits I've seen in a good long time. I did not know your father, but he sounds like he was quite a guy; I laughed uproariously at some of his antics. It is clear he raised his girls with the same sense of humor. My condolences to his family and to Mr. Heller for a life well lived.
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Lauren Larsen posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
This is by far the best obit I’ve ever read, and I would’ve loved hanging out with this joker had I ever actually met the man. Kudos to Joe for a life well lived and for instilling an appropriate level of irreverence in his daughters. Clearly, he will be missed. ❤️
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Ashley Dellwo posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I didn't know your dad but was told by a friend to take a look at his obit and I'm glad I did. He sounds like an amazing man and someone I would have loved to meet. He's now spreading joy across the country. Peace be with you all. +Ashley, from Minnesota
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Jenn posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I did not know your father, but after reading this amazing obit, you ladies were raised well and with the wit and sarcasm displayed in this reading....I am sure he is more than proud. May he rest in peace (and hopefully your mother can tolerate him) and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.
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Tuesday, September 10, 2019
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Deborah L Anderson posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I didn't know your dad in life but came to know him through his obituary. What lucky children you were to have him and how fortunate for him to have you. My condolences on his loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you all.
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Laura Sullivan posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Joe kept me on my toes with one liners and jokes and making fun of each other. I had a very large Mastiff who Joe publicly named my Big D---Dog (you can guess what the D is). So every time he saw me walking him he would yell" how is your Big D Dog".
One of my best but serous memories of Joe was when he came to my door and handed me a loon he had carved and very quickly turned and left. He gave me this because when he was not feeling well I gave him a movie about Loons (we both loved Loons).
Thanks to you Joe for all the laughs and fun we had.
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Bill Pascucci posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Dear Michelle, Lisette and Monique,
Each day we read the obituaries to see if someone we knew passed away. While we did not do this years ago, it is a daily routine as we age. Today, we learned about your dad and your stories made us laugh and cry (but mostly laugh). Some people may think they know someone like Joe, but as we read about is antics, we are sure there were not too many like him.
One thing is for sure: his love for all of you is evident and his sense of humor has been officially passed on to his children and you have paid it forward. This could never be done without love and respect for your father.
We would love to join you in at the Essex Fire Department on Thursday to celebrate Joe's life, but we are afraid we cannot locate the appropriate clothing and we would not want to stand out as party crashers at a memorial service.
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Leslie Barlow posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
You girls really captured the antics of your brilliant, irreverent father! He will be missed around town...
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Dennis W Sullivan posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
He was a wonderful man and we shared many laughs together
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Andrew Elwood posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
I was saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I have know Joe for the last 30+ years and indeed he was one of a kind. My condolences to the family.
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Ron Kendall posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Joe, I never knew you but sure wish I had. What a great read to start my day. Sorry for your loss, but thank you for the laugh. Joe Heller, the stuff legends are made of.
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Lucille Spera posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 10, 2019
Dear Michelle, Lisette and Monique, This was the BEST Obituary and Tribute to your Dad. Joe was definitely one of a kind and I can hear your Mom laughing as I read it. I have many, many fond memories of that CRAZY WILD GUY !!! One thing I know for sure, he loved his family and was super proud of you all. Rest in Peace you Crazy Old Man and thanks for the many laughs and fun times. You will be missed.
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Joseph Byrnes posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
Joe Heller, I knew him and will never forget him. He was this unbelievable bundle of joy I met back in 1984 when I stated dating my soon to be wife. I didn’t grow up in a small town like sleepy Essex. I had no clue what to do or how to act and of course what not to say. If you’re not from Essex there is one rule everyone knows everyone in Essex, and you had to be very careful what you could and couldn’t say around or about someone. NOT JOE he had no filter said what he wanted when he wanted. For me that was a breath of fresh air.
You will be missed.
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Brad Wolff posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
Spent part of every Saturday at the Essex Dump, and for over 10 years, my dog, Trixie and I would hop in my truck for the short ride. As I would unload my trash, more than less often, you'd see Joe hobble outta his van, treat in his hand for each dog riding in a vehicle. As he'd give them the treat, he'd gently grab their dog collar, to make sure they had the proper tags, ha! Sneaky, but, hey, this was Joe, and it worked! I always liked speaking with the old salt, and, from his obit, I can see that y'all have the same sense of humor that he did...Now that Joe's crossed over the Rainbow Bridge, pretty sure he has some treats in his hand! Sorry for your loss, but Joe's in a far better place now, and the pooches appreciate it...
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Marilyn Malcarne posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
Dear Michelle, Lisette and Monique,
This obit is certainly spot on. Joe was one of a kind. I never met him when I didn't walk away with a smile and no doubt a good chuckle. Know that my heart is with you three and the Grands.
I know Joe must be smiling over this wonderful tribute to such a unique character.
Sending you all lots of love.
xo
Marilyn
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Laurie Blair posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
That was one of the best things I've ever read and I didn't even KNOW Mr. Heller (though I sure wish I had!!) Sounds like the world needs many more with his humor and hard work. You have to love a man who names his dog "Fart!" Many condolences to his friends and family.
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Rick Dible posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
How Joe left notes for Lisette when she was in essex elementary on the paper towel in her homeroom, always showing how much he loved his daughters.
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Sarah Savage Noiseux posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
What a wonderful and hysterical obituary. As a young child, I remember vividly Mr. Heller, not only as a constable but as the reason I am terrified of men with beards. When he used to pump gasoline back before self serve, he never failed to reach his arm into the open window of mom’s little green Datsun, grab at my hair and let out a roar to startle me. I think I spent more time on the floor of that Datsun than the seat whenever we drove by Sunoco.
In all seriousness, the last time I saw Joe was the night my father was attacked by a rabid fox. Although he drove up and opened with a nonchalant “Kenny, what are you up to?” as Dad stood by with a death grip on the sick animal, he proceeded to manage the scene beautifully and followed up with our family the next day to assure all was well. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Mike Perkins posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
He was one of the best! He took my kids into the oil truck and taught them how to swear!
Huge hole in my heart for Joe Heller! The most inappropriate guy in the world with the biggest heart I’ve ever known!
My prayers to you all...
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Susan Feaster posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
That was THE BEST and most accurate description of someone I have EVER read!! You totally did nail him...do you think your mom is going to send him back?? ❤❤
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Linda Consiglio posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
Girls, that is the most hilarious and fitting obituary I’ve ever read! You nailed him perfectly! I have a few tales to share about my ex-brother-in-law. We’ll talk on Thursday! RIP you old fart!
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Monique Heller posted a condolence
Monday, September 9, 2019
You were a great man and a one-of-a-kind Dad. I'll miss you terribly, you old goat. I love you immeasurably.
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