Neil Smith
1948 - 2011
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Ken & Pat Robertson - Galway, NY - Neil was my BEST man posted a condolence
Sunday, October 30, 2011
On Sunday, October 23rd, it was exactly 35 years and one fortnight ago that my friend, Neil Smith stood beside me as my BEST man, as my wife Pat and I got married in the Congregational Church in Deep River. EVERY single year since then, Neil and Sandy, and Pat and I celebrated part of New Year's Eve or New Year's Day with each other (often with other friends as well, most often with Jim and Pat Carini). I have many great memories of our friendship including the time Neil and Sandy visited us in upstate NY in early October, and the early 10-12" freak snowstorm they had to drive through to get home. Or our trip together to Myrtle Beach and the many friendly golf matches. I also remember Neil's many acts of simple kindness and devoted friendship when I would occasionaly ask Neil to help my mom with something because I was 3 hours away in NY. There was never a moment's hesitation - he was always willing to help. No one could ever ask for a better friend.
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Rebecca - Sterling, CT - parent of students posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Mr. Smith was a favorite teacher of our boys. Few teachers were able to make the connection that he did. He cared. He was a very nice man, with a smile for all. We will all miss him, but are better for knowing him. Our thoughts are with his family.
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trudy & ron reeve - middletown, CT - dear friend since 1994 posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Sandy & family, just received a note today 10/25 about Neil...we express our deepest sympathies to all your family. As you know we met Neil when we opened our business in Deep River. He was the first retail business owner to welcome us to Deep River and will remain a dear friend in our hearts forever. Ron is now in Rehab recovering from a Massive Stroke to his Right side therefore he has no movement in his left side and we are praying for the best.so please except our love and if you need us please call anytime (860-395-9828) we will be there for you just like Neil was there for us always.
love to all of you Trudy & Ron.
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carol olsen - clinton, CT - friend posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Jeannine- My thoughts and prayers are with you. Although I never met Neil, he sounds like he was one great guy. So sorry. xoxo Carol Olsen
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Pam Murphy - friend posted a condolence
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Dear Sandy,
My thought and prayers are with you during this time. Please call if there is anything we can do.
Love Pam, Murph, and Kelsey
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Maria Sittig - Melbourne, FL - Classmate posted a condolence
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Please be assured of my heartfelt sympathy on the loss of Neil. Although it has been many years since we have met, I remember what a fine person Neil was. Sandy my thoughts are with you during this difficult time and since I have walked the walk you are now doing, time does heal the pain but wonderful memories last forever. God bless you and the family and may the peace and the love of the Lord be with all of you.
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Robert f johnson - Deep River, CT - Friend posted a condolence
Sunday, October 23, 2011
Dear Bette & family,
Sorry to hear about Neil. He was always
a fine gentleman and always had a nice smile.
We all will miss seeing him.
My deepest sympathy,
Bob Johnson
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Rich Orsini - sterling, CT - former student at Sterling posted a condolence
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Mr. Smith was one of the best teachers i've ever had. in 7th and 8th grade we had so much fun in his class. He introduced "The Outsiders" to us which was the best book i have ever read, probably the only book i have ever read fully. He was always a happy guy, and loved teaching us. We'll never forget you Mr. Smith! You were the best
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Mae Phipps - Lisbon, CT - Friend posted a condolence
Friday, October 21, 2011
Even though I don't go to Sterling, I know that Mr. Smith could brighten a room with his witty, but funny, jokes. When I went to visit, he would always greet me with a warm, kind smile. He had genuine personality that will never be forgotten. I, as well as many others, will love and miss him... forever and always <3>
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Hayley Evans - Sterling, CT - Teacher posted a condolence
Friday, October 21, 2011
Mr. Smith was a great teacher. He really knew his stuff. I enjoyed coming into school everyday and seeing him outside waiting for everyone to just welcome them and say good morning. I remember in class we were reading a book Skeleton Key and Mr Smith had us stand up move all the desks and get in a circle he grabbed his pirate hat and we would throw it around the room to our classmates and dance and just have a good time it was such a nice thing to see Mr. Smith stand up and enjoy us all having fun. I will miss Mr Smith a lot. LA class will never be the same without him. <3>
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JJ - Student posted a condolence
Friday, October 21, 2011
Mr. Smith was not only my 7th and 8th grade reading teacher, but a role model. Me and a friend would always love messing around with him in homeroom everyday by either playing pranks on him or taking his wheelchair for a spin. He was a great man and put a smile on for us everyday and kept us laughing throughout the day. He used to tell us all he played for the red sox and he was always going to be "83 tomorrow." We will all miss you Mr. Smith.
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Holly - friend and co worker posted a condolence
Friday, October 21, 2011
Neil was definitely one of a kind. He was gentle and fun loving, respectful and respected, giving and more...He loved all of the students and could make you smile on the bleakest of days. Lunch will not be the same without you...Your craving for shepherd's pie and pudding was hysterical. You may not be here, but our memories will last forever. Rest in peace, my friend.
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Sheila, Shelby, and Jake Tarrant - Peoria, AZ - parent and former students posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Mr. Smith was one of the best teachers there was. He always made each day special and always knew how to reach each student. Our sympathies with Mr. Smith's family. He will be greatly missed, but his effect on his students will never be forgotten. You can't put a value on the many things he taught us. RIP Mr. Smith.
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Jo-Ann Dauphinais - Oneco, CT - Parent of fellow students posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mr.Smiths entire family at thier time of loss. Mr.Smith left some very memories for my daughters who both were blessed to have him for a teacher in thier Jr High years at Sterling. Kate-lyn and Samantha along with many students will miss Mr.Smith and his humor. R.I.P. Neil we all love and miss you very much. Scott, Jo-Ann.Kate-lyn & Samantha Dauphinais.
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Patti Carini - Williamsburg, VA - Friend posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
I have years of memories of times spent with Neil (and Sandy)...all of them happy! Well...with the POSSIBLE exception of that time that Neil sent through the mail to me in VIRGINIA a large box FULL of smelly vegetable scraps that he wanted me to throw in Jim's (equally smelly) compost pile! Eeeeeewwww! LOL But seriously, Sandy and family, words cannot express my sorrow. I will sorely miss that great guy!
Patti
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Xavier Laporte - Plainfield, CT - Student posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Mr. Smith was one of my most favorite teachers. Every time I entered his class, he had a smile on his face. Aside from reading, he taught me lots of things about life. But the thing that he taught me most, was never let anything stop you from doing what you want most. That, I will never forget. Mr. Smith was not only a good teacher to many students, but an amazing friend to all. His smile & his laughter would make your day so much brighter, and would put you in the best of moods. Mr. Smith may be gone, but he most definitely will never be forgotten. Forever in our hearts, Mr. Smith! Rest In Peace. <3>
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Ryan Shippee - student posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
One of my greatest teacher's I have ever had and one that I will never forget.
Go Redsox!
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Len Borkowski - Old Saybrook, CT - Classmate, VRHS Class of 66 posted a condolence
Thursday, October 20, 2011
My condolences to Sandy the family. I was so sorry to hear of Neil's passing and for your loss. I will forever hold onto the good memories of the great times we had from our school days.
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Jim Hochdorfer - Former Colleague posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Neil taught me how to see the lighter side of teaching. As frustrated as I could be at work, a conversation with Neil would would always end with both of us laughing. There are many fond memories to choose from, whether it be hiding meats in each other's rooms, playing golf (at least me trying to), or shooting the breeze I'll never forget Neil and his easygoing ways. Miss you buddy.
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Tracy Owens - Sterling, CT - Freind posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Neil always made me laugh. He introduced me to West Side Story in my 40's.I had the pleasure to work in his classroom and we often shared the elevator ride together at work. I will miss seeing his smiling face everyday. R.I.P.
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Cammy Kochanowski - Chester, CT - VRHS classmate & friend posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Sandy & Family,
As I think of Neil, I am reminded of his kindness toward me, especially when I first moved from New York City to Centerbrook, Connecticut to attend Valley Regional High School. We became friends instantly! He carried my books from class to class (and you, Sandy, never minded because he was, my "big brother" --- (though he told everyone I was his professional "baby-sitter")!!! He always made me laugh out loud. His sense of humor was a natural part of his very easy-going personality.I still have a beautiful mirror hanging in my dining room from "The Finishing Touch", which hopefully I can cherish for many years to come. Neil and you always helped me with decorating, wall papering, and painting ideas. You were truly a perfect couple! Neil will also be thought of fondly as a truly faithful friend and gentleman. He will be missed on this earth. Our Heavenly Father has welcomed him home. May He now bestow His peace in your heart and home during this time of great earthly loss. God bless you and your lovely family.
With love in Christ Jesus,
Cammy
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Nick Behm - student posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Mr.smith was one of my favorite teachers in 8th grade and he was the one that helped me through my hard times and he will deffinetly be missed by many R.I.P
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Liz - former teacher at Sterling posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Neil could light up a room by just walking in. He always had a smile on his face and made everyone around him smile. He was a character and loved to play jokes and could take a joke. He will greatly be missed.
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Verna (Rose) Robertson Spinney - Deep River, CT posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Dear Sandy and Family,
Neil was a good friend to the Robertson family. We remember him delivering oxygen to Jim when he was sick. He also spend one whole day at our house while a stair lift was being installed. He was always thinking of others.
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Bob Bond - Bar Harbor, ME - Classmate posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
I was sorry to hear of Neil's passing,and for your loss, however it did bring back a flood of good memories from our school days. My family moved to Deep River at the start of my 7th grade year at Vally Regional. I didn't know anybody and Neil became one of my first friends. We stayed close for several years but gradually drifted apart. When ever I would run into him over the years after graduation it was always a cheerful reunion. I am thankful for the memories and I know he will be sorely missed.
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Kevin Leddy - Sterling - Substitute Teacher posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Neil often brightened my day with a laugh or a smile. His was a kind sense of humor. The world is a better place because Neil was here.
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Darlene May Boudah - pittsburg, NH - went to vrhs posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
My condolences to the Smith family I remember neil when he had the paint store in Deeep River. Neil and His wife Sandy were good people in the deep river community.He graduated in my brothers class of 66. My thoughts and prayers are with the family today. Sincerely, Darlene May Boudah
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Susan Ziobron Ackerman - Deep River, CT - friend & classmate posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
I've known Neil my whole life & always remember him with a smile on his face. He always made everyone laugh & never had a bad word to say about anyone. My parents considered him & Sandy as part of their extended family. His passing leaves holes in a lot of hearts. My thoughts are with you Sandy, Kim & Chris
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Gene Ely - Deep River, CT - Cousin posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Our condolences to Neil's family. Just glad we got to eat lunch with Neil and Sandy at the firehouse in Sept.
Gene(Bo) & Kay Ely
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Christine Bourque - Sterling, CT posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Neil was one of the kindess people I have every met. He always made me laugh and was such a joy to be around. The world has lssed a great man!!!
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Elijah Fontenault - Sterling, CT - Teacher posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Mr. Smith was proabably one of my favorite teachers. He was always so soft hearted and kind, and I really loved him the a family member. He always told me and evryone around me that we can achieve anything if we put our minds to it. I remember when I was in his 7th grade class last year, he would have Jolly Ranchers and he would go to toss them in the air. When my eyes followed te cany he would say with big smile,"Jolly Ranchers don't come from up there?" I will truly miss walking in to school every morning to greet him in his wheelchair at the end of the hall. I actually still remember the last thing he remembers of me. Last year I had terrible grades in L.A. and this year I got my progress report and had and A in that class, so I showed him the grade. Instantly he burst into a large smile and said,"I am so happy for you!" I am truthfully happy went knowing I had improved as a student.
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kristin - sterling, CT - co-worker posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Mr. Smith was an excellent teacher. I had the pleasure of being in his classroom as a paraprofessional for two years with my 1:1 student. The lengths that he went to making us feel welcome in his class were great. The Scrabble tournaments were loved by all! My daughter, Victoria was also fortunate enough to have Mr. Smith as a teacher and she loved going to his class. He will truly be missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing him.
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Melodie Fontenault - Sterling, CT - Mom of 4 of his former students posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
How to begin. I met "Mr. Smith" when my son Matt was in 7th grade at Sterling School. Matt was having trouble with his grades and that year I learned how well I would get to know his teachers. My first impression of Mr. Smith was that he would be easy to talk to. I felt comfortable talking with him because I knew he was not judging my son. He sincerely cared. Over the years that followed Mr. Smith had my daughter Gabby, and sons Jeremiah and Elijah. They ALL loved him! Respect was not something we had to tell them to treat him with because they already had so much for him. The news of his passing hit us the same way it does of one's own family member. We are still in disbelief and this evening, I find myself comforting my youngest son. Mr. Smith had a gift. He knew how to share that gift as well. I think he did so without even knowing it. When I think of his smile, or his soft voice; I am thankful to have known him. I am so very grateful that he was in my children's lives AND hearts. The mark he left on our family will forever be remembered and cherished. Thank you Mr. Smith not only for the smiles you shared and for the ones you created. May God bless you and your family. And may you forever rest in the Peace of Our Lord. Melodie Fontenault and Family
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Rudy Urban - Chester, CT - Fellow Classmate, VRHS 1966 posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Always had great respect for him. After reading entries here that is confirmed even more so. My condolences to Family, colleagues and friends.
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Denise Watrous Markovitz & Daisy Watrous - Chester, CT - friend posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
My mother, Daisy, and I send our deepest condolences to Sandy, Bette, Jeannine, children and grandchildren All our love and prayers go out to the Smith and James families from the Watrous family.
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Howard Landman - Sterling, CT - Principal in SMS posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Neil walked into my office looking for a job teaching English in our Middle School. Within a couple of minutes, I was leaning back in my chair, my hands clasped behind my head, and we were sharing stories like we had been friends for years. Neil did that ... he made you feel so comfortable instantly. That is a quality that so few have. I will never forget the day he walked into my office, but more importantly, I will never forget the man. He will be sorely missed.
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Penny - Lisbon, CT - honored friend posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Dear Sandy and Family-
I am truly heart-broken. I will always remember Neil for his good nature, willingness to comfort a friend and for his wonderful stories...many about his time spent with his family. He was quite the character...whether it was surprising the kids (and adults) by showing up in a rabbit suit, gluing brillo pads to his chin for a costume or racing me down the hallway in chairs...he was always able to take a joke as well as orchestrate one. It was a true pleasure to have known him. Love in my heart always...Penny
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Nancy Hazuka Curran - Shoreham, NY - VRHS classmate posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
My thoughts are with your family at this difficult time.
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Peter Maher - Sterling - Former student posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
I remember when Neil first started teaching in Sterling, my class was the the first to have him as a teacher. I can't believe he's gone and I will miss him. May he rest easy.
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Carmen Matheson - Fellow student posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
My sincerest condolences go to Sandy, Kimberly and Christopher!! Neil was a wonderful person and I truly enjoyed our time together through high school. He was so nice to me and my sister as we went through the years together! My heart and prayers are with you!
Carmen Matheson (known as Lorraine Sullivan in high school)
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Jim Francis - Eustis, FL - classmate posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
My respects go out to the family of Neil. Got to know Neil in 7th grade when Chester, Deep River and Essex united into one at Valley Regional. Hes in a very good place now.
With deepest regards
Jim Francis--Class of 1966
Eustis, Florida
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James W. Dudley - Dallastown, PA - Fellow alumni of VRHS Class of 6 posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
To Neil's family
My Family and I wish to express or sincere sympathy to you all, our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time, keep all those memories in your hearts, and know someday we will all be together again.
Love to you all,
Jim and Trudy Dudley
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Paul Schweitzer - Cape Coral, FL - Former classmate; elementary & h posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
With deepest sympathy and may the good Lord give you peace.
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Pat Maikowski - Deep River, CT - ramaikowski@snet.net posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Neil was a true gentlemen and what wonderful memories I have. Goodbye old friend and I will now admit to you Neil - I was the one who put your class picture in the Adams Clock Tower -
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Deb Molander Calavas - portland, CT - family friend posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
I am saddened to hear about Neil's passing. I have many fond childhood memories of times spent with the Smith family on Essex Street in Deep River and of Neil being the Big Brother who often kept us in line. My heart prayers and Love are with you all at this time...
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Jill Carini - niantic, CT - friend posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
He always made me smile.
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Jeffrey and Linda Grossman - Abington, MA - In-Laws to Chris Smith posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Our loving thoughts and prayers go to Sandy, Kim and Chris (and the extended family and friends) at this time. Remember the good times with smiles!
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